Friday, August 28, 2009

How To Kiss A Woman

***QUESTION***

First of all, lets get things straight. I don't
like you. In fact, I hate you. Your success with
women disgusts me, and the way you have it down to
a science so well that you even make ME laugh
sometimes with your smartassed comments to the
lamers who write you vexes me. But it intrigues me
as well. Your stuff works. So I use it. Doesn't
mean I like you. Just means I like your "tools."

Anyway, the problem I'm having lately is I meet
and flirt with a lot of women using c&f, but when
it comes time for things to get a little physical,
they tell me they're waiting for marriage to do
all that! WtF?! Is there a way around this kind of
a "defense" that women use on me oh so often?
(Besides dumping their celibate asses.)

Name: D Location: Bufffalo, New York.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You know, this is just a guess, but maybe your
challenges with women stem from the dark cloud
around your SOUL!

...ah-hem.

Dude, I can tell that you're attempting to be
funny here, but it also sounds to me like you've
got some anger issues that might need professional
attention.

OK, the way to "get around" the "I'm waiting
for marriage" defense is to stop acting like a
bitter WUSSY.

If women consistently tell you, "I'm waiting
for marriage before I get physical," it can only
mean one of two things:

1) You're shopping for women at the convent.

2) You're CAUSING the resistance you're getting.

Most guys don't realize this, but THEY are the
ones who cause women to resist and make excuses.

Really.

And by the way, don't EVER again say that you
don't like me, but you like my TOOL. That's not
cool.


***QUESTION***

Dave- you da man! I just had a great experience
that I feel merits an email to you. There's a very
upscale restaurant/bar at which you can even buy
cigars from their humidor. There's a piano player
that plays jazzy tunes, and the place is pretty
expensive, quiet, with the aura of big money
patrons. (I love cigars and jazz, which is why I
wanted to go there so badly.)

So, as I've always wanted to go there, and I
finally mustered the courage to put on my best
suit and tie (complete with cufflinks), so I'd
look the part, despite the fact that I'm not rich
like the other patrons. The women there are
usually in groups, and they wreak of old money.

I sat alone and nursed a martini for about 30
minutes, while I scoped out the babes. I zeroed
in on a tall, stunningly gorgeous blond. (I have a
weakness for tall blonds.) I used the "Can I
borrow her for a minute?" trick, and it worked
like a charm! Then I teased her for having
friends who would just let her go off with a total
stranger. Then I mixed a lot of listening with a
bit of c/f once she joined me at my table.

She told me she was hungry, so I told her I was
getting hungry, too, and that I was about to
become nasty if I didn't get something to eat
soon. Then I said, "You're not very attractive,
but since I do happen to like that dress on you,
I'll be a sport and let you buy me dinner just
this once." I couldn't believe I said that!!!! I
was a little scared that she'd get pissed off and
leave.

She ended up buying me an expensive dinner!!! Plus
I got her phone number and email. I told her I do
a lot of traveling (which I don't), but that I'd
try to remember to call her next time I was in
town. She then asked me for my number and email!

I am still in shock. This girl looks like a
supermodel, plus she's rich! I really want to
call her or email her, but I'm deliberately
waiting, in order to give her the gift of missing
me. And though it's only been a day since it
happened, I still think she'll contact me first.
Should I wait for her to contact me or should I
contact her?

J

>>>MY COMMENTS:

lol... you're cracking me up over here.

While I don't recommend lying to women, I still
find your story pretty funny.

Thanks for the email, and for affirming that
these concepts we're talking about appeal
universally to women... rich and poor alike.


***SUCCESS STORY***

David,

Your book and newsletters are great and I TRULY
appreciate them, so I wont waste time telling you
about that. I had a success story tonight that I
just had to tell you about even though its 4 in
the morning, I'm just that pumped. I just left a
fraternity party of mine, and there was this chick
there that has been hanging around the house and
with some of the other guys for a while (tall,
thin, blonde hair, bout an 8.5). She was at the
apartment we were partying at, and she sits down
next to me no the couch. I introduce her and have
a little small talk, and she makes a comment that
one of the guys told her that I am a photographer
(I work for a local newspaper full time) and that
she wanted me to take some pictures of her so that
she can get into modeling. I say, "So, you want
to be a parts model? You have some sexy toes?
(you're good Dave). She says, "What, you dont
think I'm hot?" I just kind of shrug that one
off. She acts shocked and I just go on.
Basically, all night I busted on her, looks and
everything, and she would act shocked at my
comments but I could tell she liked it (shes
511, so when I leave to go to the bathroom or
whatever I tell her, "Youre like 65, so if
anybody takes my seat you put them in a choke
hold." Needless to say my seat never got taken
when I told her). I couldnt believe it Dave, I
would never have done this stuff before. She even
made a comment that I was such an a**hole and none
of the guys had ever treated her like this. I
would just smile and say "I know." She was eating
it up. I even told her at one point to go get ME
another beer. I was shocked when she said yes.
Later I gave her a ride back to her dorm, and on
the way home she was talking about how she needs
to quit hitting on guys, and told me about a game
she plays at parties with her friends where they
bet if they can get a guy to make out with them in
a certain amount of time. I tell her I wouldnt,
Im not that easy. Shes like, "Not even me?" And
I go on with the not easy part and she would at
least have to buy me dinner. Long story short I
get her number and she tells me to call her like 3
times. Right before she gets out of the car I
say, "Can I kiss you?" She says yes, and I say,
"Ok, Ill make sure to do that,"... She says oh
right and leans in to kiss ME. I couldnt believe
it Dave. I am on a high that no drug could ever
give, and I have you to thank for it. This is
probably too long, but I had to tell you.

Thanks a million. K. in Texas

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Well, what else is there to say?

There's really nothing like experiencing this
stuff in real life.

The first few times that you apply the material
and get women feeling ATTRACTION for you, are
amazing.

You wonder why the hell you didn't figure it
all out before.

Great job. You're the man. Thanks for the
story!


***COMMENT***

Hi Dave,

First off, not to sound like everyone else, but
your stuff rocks!!! With that being said I'd like
to offer a comment on J.M. from New Hampshire's
predicament.

J.M. said "What's the best way to deal with a girl
coming out and saying "oh, you're so
cute/funny/etc..."? Should I ignore it and keep
the c/f going? Should I address it in a cocky
way?"

A couple of my favorite lines to use:

She: Your so cute. Me: If you want cute buy a
puppy.

She: Your so funny. Me: Yeah, but looks aren't
everything.

It works great to down play her comments. Make
fun of yourself, but don't draw too much
attention. Act disinterested in her comments and
move on with the conversation. Let's her know you
really are comfortable in your skin and she should
really be closer to that skin!!

Hittin Heavy in Iowa, (with no sheep, LOL) S.W.

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Man, I don't even like sheep JOKES anymore.

You know, what I'm wondering is why they sell
those blow-up sheep DOLLS in the adult stores.
What's the deal? Are they for guys that don't even
have enough game to pick up a SHEEP?

OK, whatever.

These are great comebacks.

I personally don't use very much humor that
makes fun of myself early on... but your stuff is
great.

Thanks for the comments.


***QUESTION***

What's wrong with this letter. She works at Burger
King and I handed it to her. She didnt talk to me
anymore.

{The Letter}:

C,

I like you!

You have an electrifying gracious attitude at
Burger King. You are leaving soon so lets chat on
the phone. Don't judge me by my lack of
conversation at the restaurant. I get a mental
block at times. Let me know if your interested.
OK.... Thank you

>>>MY COMMENTS:

What's wrong with this letter?

Well, other than the fact that it's the worst
thing I've ever seen, nothing really.

"You have an electrifying and gracious attitude
at Burger King..."?!

Say what?

Dude, why didn't you just say, "I am a stalker,
and every night when I go to sleep I can see you
flipping Whoppers?"

You need the kind of help that only my ADVANCED
DATING TECHNIQUES program can give. Do not pass
go, do not collect your two hundred dollars. Go
IMMEDIATELY here:

http://www.DoubleYourDates.com/AdvancedSeries

...before it's too late.


***QUESTION***

Hey David,

I love reading your newsletters every time you
mail them out, and I am going to buy your e-book
as soon as I get back from my vacation in New
York. While I'm out there though, I'd like to
know one thing. I like the newsletters you mail
out that deal with getting a girls number for the
first time. But I can't get myself to get started
even to that point. Yes, I know I'm really afraid
of rejection and that makes me make up excuses as
to why I won't come up to a girl.

I completely feel the way you say that I should
come up to a girl, talk to her for a minute, then
say something like "I have to get back to work
now," leave and then turn back and say "Hey, do
you have e-mail?" But my question is this: How do
I get a girls attention to begin with? In other
words, what do I say to her so that she will want
to talk to me for that minute you talk about? I
don't feel like saying "Excuse me, Hi... my name
is ..., do you work around here?" would be the
best solution for this. Do you?

Thanks for the newsletters because they are slowly
but surely making me grow some balls enough to get
up and go talk to a girl!

CAT, San Francisco, CA

>>>MY COMMENTS:

You know, it's funny...

You're asking a question that every guy in the
world wants to know the answer to.

It's a simple answer... and it's a DAMN complex
answer at the same time.

One of the KEYS to approaching women you don't
know is being able to do it as comfortably and
naturally as you call your mom.

If you get nervous, shaky, and freaked out the
woman will pick up on this... and it will make HER
nervous.

You can walk up to a woman and say, "Hi, I
don't have time to talk, but if you're single I'd
really like to talk to you sometime... do you have
email?"... and if you do it in a calm, comfortable
way, you can get a HIGH percentage of women to
give you their info right there on the spot with
no conversation needed.

On the other hand, if you're freaked out,
nervous, and acting like you're all jacked up on
speed while driving a getaway car, it doesn't
matter WHAT you say.

Experts estimate that approximately 7% of your
communication is the words you use, and 93% is
your voice tone and body language.

In other words, the WORDS aren't very important
at all.

So, how do you get the voice tone and body
language under control... and more importantly,
your EMOTIONS?

Well, this is a simple and complex problem as
well.

Personally, I have found that understanding
exactly how and why women feel sexual attraction
for men has DRAMATICALLY changed the way I
interact with women.

If you DON'T understand this important process,
you're just going to be "faking" it. If you DO
understand it, you're going to be COMMUNICATING
differently, and communicating with a different
PART of the woman.

Keep educating yourself. My eBook and Video/
audio programs will give you an amazing education
in this area, and can help transform your fear and
hesitation into ACTION.


***QUESTION***

David,

I've got to say that your emails have been a
great help and your CD series is unstoppable! In
both your emails and CD's you mention movie
characters to study and model yourself after.
Could write up a list of movies that you think are
worth watching for the Cocky & Funny attitude.

Thanks Dave.

B. D. Chicago

>>>MY COMMENTS:

Some of my favorite scenes:

- Indiana Jones And The Temple Of Doom... the
after-dinner scene when they're in the bedroom.

- Top Gun... when he follows her into the
bathroom.

- The newest James Bond flick... basically
everything.

- Gone With The Wind... the scene right after
Scarlet and Ashley are alone in that library type
room toward the beginning... when she throws the
vase and then Rhett Butler stands up from behind
the couch and starts chatting with her.

- Also, listen to how Howard Stern and David
Letterman mess with people CONSTANTLY. Great
stuff.


***QUESTION***

Dear David,

Amazing job with your e-book "Double your Dating",
I finally understand why most of the girls I've
been with left me after less than a month. I had
the natural humor, but it was mostly meant for
goofing off instead of being cocky.

My question is about kissing. From my dates, in
the second or third date, I would kiss the girl
using your tips (e.g. the hair) but I am not
really sure I am getting a good *job* into kissing
a girl. Its not like I can leave a comment box
after the date… do you have any suggestions on how
to make a good and memorable kiss? You did say
that a first kiss with a girl is pretty much like
first impressions ;)

- From one of your many loyal fans

>>>MY COMMENTS:

This is a great question.

I'm going to share a little secret with you.

It's a secret that I talk about all the time...
in my newsletters... my book... my seminars... my
Advanced Program.

The secret is ANTICIPATION.

Anticipation is such an important concept when
it comes to "getting physical" with a woman.

I believe that it's important to incorporate it
into every part of your interactions with a
woman... really.

Now, if you really don't know how to kiss a
woman, then I have a recommendation:

START SLOW, THEN MIRROR WHAT SHE DOES.

Here's how to mix this strategy with
ANTICIPATION.

Let's say that you decide it's time to kiss
her. You use the "Kiss Test", and she's enjoying
it... so you lean over to kiss her.

Just as you start to kiss her... when you first
feel your lips touching hers... stop right there.
Brush your lips back and forth on hers a little
bit... then pull away without actually kissing
her.

Then smile at her.

You'll probably be sitting there thinking, "Why
the hell didn't I just kiss her?"

She'll probably be sitting there tingling all
over, and feeling like she wants to jump on you.

Next, lean back. Talk a little more.

A few minutes later, touch her hair again.

Then lean over to kiss her again. This time, go
VERY slowly... gently press your lips against
hers. Hold them there for a moment, and feel how
she responds.

If she kisses you the same way, then just stop,
lean back, and relax again for a few minutes.

The next time you kiss her, open your mouth
just a little bit, and see if she does the same.

Do this a couple of times.

At some point, she will probably start
"escalating" the kisses, because the anticipation
is just too much for her.

At this point, stop her. Push her away, and
smile.

MORE ANTICIPATION.

Just keep mirroring how she's kissing you as
things get more and more intense. This is a great
way to "learn" how to kiss... and she'll enjoy it,
because you'll be doing exactly what she likes!

By the way, if you'd like to learn how to both
SPARK and BUILD that magical thing that women call
"chemistry" and "sexual tension," then it's
important that you learn and MASTER the technique
that I call "Cocky Comedy."

Before you can get into building PHYSICAL
anticipation and taking things to a PHYSICAL
level, you must trigger ATTRACTION inside of
her...

And Cocky Comedy is the one single technique
that accomplishes this for you... and the best
part is that you can do it with your COMMUNICATION
ALONE.

No good looks, no buying dinners, and no giving
lavish gifts required (in fact, these things can
actually work against you).

And what's the best way to learn Cocky Comedy?

It's simple: Get yourself a copy of my new
Cocky Comedy CD/DVD program.

Listen as I and my guest teachers take you
"behind the scenes"... and teach you the magic
technique that guys who are NATURALLY good with
women use to create ATTRACTION.

It took me a massive amount of time and effort
to even DISCOVER this technique... and then years
to MASTER it...

And you can learn dozens and dozens of sure-
fire lines and comebacks with just a few hours of
fun listening.

In fact, check out this email that I got from a
guy who just got this program:

"Dear Double D,

Do you remember when you said that some guys "get
it" in a week and others in a year or more? Well I
was one of the "Year or More". Well two years,
three months, and 24 hours later I finally "get
it" and it happened right when I was about to give
up entirely.

Well let me give a little background on me. I was
that 1 in every 3 guys that are below average
looking, suffer from morbid obesity, 21,
generosity is a good thing, mom's advice for
picking up women is the best, and always have a
date every year or so. Now I AM that 1 in every
three guys that are below average looking, 21, and
suffer from morbid obesity. I did exactly what you
told me not to do. I just jumped in head first
into the Advanced and Mastery programs, negating
all the signs saying I should go back to the
beginning. I thought to myself "Hey I can just use
the pick up lines and some of this other stuff and
I'll be instantly successful with women." That
didn't work and I found my face getting very red
and my shirt getting very wet from women's
rejections.

I got your Cocky Comedy program a few days ago. I
listened it back to back probably eleven times and
I still wasn't getting it. Well, last Friday I
tried again using the new lines I had learned but
I still found my shirt wet. I got very upset. Now
I am not talking hissy fit upset, I am talking
"it's go time" upset. I decided to go and blow off
some steam. I had heard that a new coffee shop was
opening up. I thought why not can't hurt anything
more. No more than about two minutes after me
entering the shop, a feisty definite 10 redhead
walks in. I got up to try. I got behind her in
line and looked at her thinking what could I say.
She caught me looking and said "It's not polite to
stare, you know." I snapped back with "Then why
are you staring." "I am not." she said. I then
mocked it, gave her the name Kid, then she was
putty in my hand. I asked for email and then said
"You know you're probably just going to stare at
my picture the entire time online. Why don't you
give me you number as well?" She wrote it down and
slammed the piece of paper in my hand. "There,
happy. Now be here at 7:00 next week." I said "No
you be at Starbucks at 7:30 next week. And I'll
think about joining you." "Think about it..?" she
said in a kind of cooing voice. I said dominantly
"Think about it!"

I never in all my life felt like that. And I could
never have done this without your help thanks
Double D. I'll let you know how everything works
out.

Thanks in MS, DA"

>>>MY COMMENTS:

...lol, I guess that will teach him to start
from the beginning and learn the basics first.

Anyway, this program will teach you the one
skill you can learn FAST... that will help you
meet more women and create more attraction NOW.

I'll even send it to you to check out for a
month with ZERO risk. I'm absolutely convinced
that it will help you succeed with more women
INSTANTLY.

If you don't like it, just send it back and
don't pay anything... NO JOKE.

Monday, July 20, 2009

The Key To Making Her Laugh "With You" Not AT You

Have you ever noticed that "funny guys" tend to
fall into two categories:

1) Dorky Funny - The type of guy that a woman
laughs AT (not WITH)

2) Confident Funny - The type of guy that not only
makes women laugh, but makes women laugh in a way
that ATTRACTS them

...?

So what's the DIFFERENCE between these two
types of guys?

Why is it that women find some guys "dorky"
even though they're LAUGHING?

What causes that "key difference"... where a
woman is laughing WITH you and not AT you?

More importantly, how can you actually USE
humor to create ATTRACTION?

As you already know from reading these
newsletters, I've developed a technique that I
call "Cocky & Funny"... and it is like MAGIC when
it comes to creating a powerful attraction with
women.

I have gotten so many questions about how to
use this technique, that I actually took the time
to create an entire AUDIO/VIDEO program on the
topic.

I call the program "Cocky Comedy" - and it's
the most powerful education available on how to
use humor to create attraction.

Did you know that MOST laughter is NOT in
response to something that's funny?

It's true.

Think about most of the things that people
laugh at... things like the weather... or like a
common experience... or a million other things...
NONE of which are FUNNY.

Laughter is not about humor. Not USUALLY, at
least.

Laughter is about TENSION and RELEASING
tension.

And I'd like to teach you how to create and
release tension... in a way that is both CHARMING
and FUNNY to women... and how to do this in a way
that makes conversations easy and natural... and
that ultimately creates a POWERFUL attraction.

Inside this program, I'll also teach you
different Cocky & Funny "lines" for every type of
situation with women - so you'll be prepared for
ANYTHING.



I really believe that this program can help you
create powerful attraction with women.

I'll talk to you again soon.

Your Friend,
Ogan Michael

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

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Finally, I just want your perspective on this
situation. Last night, I approached a hot girl,
about an 8, on campus who's very popular. Let's
just say I was overconfident and lost my frame of
reference and things didn't go to well, in fact I
looked like a loser and I was talking a about a
bunch of bs. Now my concern is she'll probably
tell all her friends, and since I see them
everyday, it's gonna be weird. What can I guy do
in this situation to save his rep? Are there any
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feel rejection, I knew it was my approach and
nothing personal. Thanks for everything.

You Da Man!!

B who needs more practice - T.O


>>>MY COMMENTS:

You've brought up some great points, and an
excellent question, too...

First of all, great job with the first girl.

You didn't let her looks turn you into a wuss, you
busted her balls, and you demonstrated that you
were in control of the situation... and of
yourself.

You took what I teach and APPLIED it, and your
results show that.

Nice.

With the second girl, you did something POWERFUL
that 95% of guys don't do.

When you had a little setback, rather than taking
it personally, you chalked it up to using the
wrong "approach."

Most guys in this situation would have said to
themselves, "See, I knew I was a loser. I just got
lucky with the first girl. I knew this stuff
wouldn't work. Nothing will help me..."

But you didn't.

BRAVO.

Yes, you got overconfident and lost focus.

No biggie.

You know where you made your mistake, and I'm sure
with the next woman you'll do things differently.

Now, as far as the second girl telling her friends
about how you approached her and making it "weird"
for you at school, all I have to say is...

It's all in your head.

Play it off like it was no big deal to YOU, and it
won't be a big deal to THEM.

You can't control what they talk about, and
really, it's none of your business.

The most important thing is to get the lesson, and
that's what you already did.

Forget about worrying what she says to her
friends, or what they think of you.

Remember the idea of "Internal Focus Of Control"
I share in my Advanced Dating Program?

Focus on what YOU can control, not on THEM, and
you'll continue to attract a ton of women... and
high quality ones, too.

You mentioned my Advanced Dating Techniques
Program, and I want to say a little something
about it...

It took me YEARS to figure out and unlock the
"program" women have that tells them who to be
attracted to, and who to be REPELLED by.

For a long time, I was great at hitting a woman's
"don't-date-this-needy-loser-in-a-million-years"
button.

Not good.

So I read every book on the topic that I could
get my hands on... and I went to seminars.

Some things worked... some of the time.

But my results were inconsistent at best.

But then - I had a BREAKTHROUGH.

It happened when I started hanging out with guys
who were MASTERS at meeting women and building
attraction.

What these guys were doing didn't make sense...
but they were always surrounded by beautiful
women.

So I knew that whatever they were doing - no
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I convinced them to share with me how they
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They gave me "coaching" on how I was communicating
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coaching. I needed to re-tool everything I was
doing.)

But then things started to click for me.

Situations I would normally blow... like
approaching an attractive woman for the first
time... became situations where I got a number
and a date.

The kinds of girls who I'd NEVER get a second date
with...became girls I'd see over and over again...
and some became long-term girlfriends.

Over the next several years I continued to refine
my approach, journal my learnings, and take my
skills to a level where some of my old coaches
began looking to ME for advice.

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And here's a little bonus:

In the program I talk about the best places to
take women on dates... where you can have fun and
not spend a lot of MONEY.

With the economy the way it is, the last thing you
need to do is waste a bunch of your cash on
expensive dates...especially when you don't have
to.

Here's a secret most men will never know:

The amount of money you spend on a date has
NOTHING to do with the level of attraction a
woman feels for you.

Don't get me wrong - if you're a gazillionaire
and you're with a woman who is strictly looking
for a sugar daddy, and you whisk her off on your
private jet to Paris and lavish her with expensive
jewelry... sure, she's going to go out with you
again.

But that's an extreme case.

What's more common is this:

You meet a woman you like, and you feel pressure
to buy her flowers, take her to a nice restaurant,
buy drinks...and you end up spending more money
than you should have.

Worse yet, at the end of the date, you have that
sinking feeling in your stomach that she's just
not into you....

Then you realize:

The money you spent made NO DIFFERENCE.

A much better strategy is to get an education on
what it takes to make a woman feel a gut-level
attraction to you... NO EXPENSIVE DATES REQUIRED.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

How To Meet Women For Free

In a moment, I'm going to share how you
can meet as many women as you want, any
time you want, for FREE...

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And best of all, you don't have to go
out to do it.

But first, a reality check:

You have to be living in a cave not to see
that we live in BIZARRE and UNSTABLE
economic times.

I'll save you the depressing statistics from
Wall Street, the mortgage crisis, etc.

Just turn on your TV if you want the latest.

During times like these, meeting women can
get downright EXPENSIVE.

Here's a typical situation:

You want to meet women, so you call up some
buddies and you all go out to a club.

You pay more money than you should just to
get IN the place.

Then you pay ridiculously high prices for
drinks (I'm talking $10 cocktails here...
brutal...)

Cover charges, drinks... it all adds up FAST.

And when the club shuts down at the end of
the night, if you don't have at least a few
numbers and dates lined up, then all that money...
and all that TIME... is a complete WASTE.

Not good.

Luckily, there's a better way - and it's getting
even better by the SECOND...

I recently read an article that talked about the
fact that during these crazy economic times,
there's a certain type of business that is
BOOMING...

If you guess online dating sites, nice job...

Apparently membership is up more than 16%
at sites like Date.com, Matchmaker.com, etc.

More people than ever are going online to meet
up.

(Looks like those horrific cover charges and
over-priced drinks are forcing people to stay
home... and sit in front of their computers.)

Hmmm... let's see...

More people online = more WOMEN online.

That's right.

If there's ever been a time to get online to meet
women, that time is NOW.

Online dating sites are FLOODED with
women who are in the same economic mess we
all are in - they don't want to waste money
going out to meet men - especially when they
get hit on by losers night after night.

Now, I wish I could say all you have to do
is go online, send a few emails, and you'll have
attractive and intelligent women respond to you.

Unfortunately, it doesn't work that way.

The fact is, most guys who go online work real
hard... write a ton of emails to women... and
get NO RESULTS.

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That's how I was when I first started.

But then I made friends with a guy who had a
"system" he used to meet women online, whenever
he wanted.

He showed me how he did it - and showed
me pictures of the beautiful women he had
met online - and I was HOOKED.

I took what he shared, worked with it for
several months, and came up with my own
hybrid system for meeting as many women
online as I wanted to, AT WILL.

A lot of people don't know this, but as of
this writing, my last 2 serious girlfriends
I met online.

I've met and dated models, actresses, dancers,
artists, intellectual women... and everything in
between... all ONLINE.

Stop banging your head against the wall - and
stop punching a hole in your wallet - by going
out in search of women at the typical places
(places that are DESIGNED to separate you from
your money).

Instead, save your cash, stay home, and learn how
to meet as many women as you like from the
comfort of your home computer.

And get this -

Many sites have trials and offers where you
can see what kind of women are on a site BEFORE
you bust out your credit card.

Some even let you use the site free for 7 days
- or even a month...

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Saturday, March 7, 2009

Are You AFRAID Of Women? Read This...

What prevents men from being successful with
women?

Well, the list goes on and on... but one of the
elements that TOPS the list is FEAR.

There are many different situations that make
men feel fear, but I'd like to talk about some of
the most common ones... and what to do about them.

First of all, I'd like you to be honest for a
moment about this topic.

Do you ever feel FEAR when it comes to women
and dating?

Have you ever seen a woman that you'd really
like to meet, but you started to feel fear and
didn't do anything about it?

Or maybe you were on a date and you wanted to
kiss a woman... but you felt too afraid because
you didn't want to make a mistake and screw up
your chances?

Or maybe you even got a woman's phone number,
but you were too afraid to call back because you
didn't know how to start off the conversation or
ask her out?

Cummon, seriously...

Have you ever been sitting there with the phone
in your hand, dialing a woman's number, but you
had to hang up because you were just too nervous
to even talk to her...?

Or out on a date with a woman, and you wanted
to kiss her, but you got so nervous at the thought
that you just decided it would be better to forget
the whole idea and hope for the best...?

Me too. Many times, in fact.

By the way, it's not exactly FUN to admit that
you're afraid of things.

I'm sure you know that most guys would rather
admit in public that they were unsure about their
sexual orientation than that they were afraid of
women.

Of course, this unwillingness to admit that you
have a problem IN THE FIRST PLACE only makes
matters worse...

If you don't admit that you have the problem,
then it's hard to get help and answers to it.

Well, the good news is that you're not alone.

Almost every guy I've known (including myself)
has dealt with this issue MANY TIMES with women.

So, STEP 1 is to GET OVER IT. Get over your
need to deny that you're afraid. Just admit that
you're afraid, and come to grips with the fact
that you're human...

STEP 2 is to admit that you'd like to get this
particular area of your life handled.

STEP 3 is to DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.

Once you realize that it's not that big of a
deal, then the improvement can start. On the other
hand, if you just stay in denial about it, you'll
probably just look for new tricks and techniques
to use on women... which, of course, won't lead to
any REAL improvement.


I personally think that one of the biggest
causes of fear when it comes to situations with
women is:

PUTTING TOO MUCH IMPORTANCE ON WHAT THE WOMAN
THINKS OF YOU AND WHAT HAPPENS IN THAT PARTICULAR
SITUATION.

To put it in different words, most guys don't
take action because they're afraid that they'll
screw up, or that the woman or others around will
judge them.

The REAL problem though is that this whole
process has become AUTOMATIC, and it happens
INSTANTLY the moment most guys see a woman that
they'd like to meet. Before they even have a
chance to think about the situation rationally,
they've become nervous, insecure, and upset.

I'm sure you know EXACTLY what I'm talking
about.

As humans, we have these incredible minds and
bodies, but sometimes they get wired up in ways
that aren't exactly useful for the situations that
we find ourselves in. Worse, sometimes our
cultures, families, or peer groups teach us ways
of thinking that just aren't useful at all for
what we'd like to accomplish.

Here's something that I realized a few years
ago when I was learning for myself how to be
successful with women...

I thought about this idea that I was having
this instant, automatic fear in different
situations with women, and that what I was really
thinking was "I don't want to screw this up" and
"I don't want her to think that I'm a dork"...

And all of a sudden something dawned on me:

IT DOESN'T MATTER.

It doesn't matter what happens, and it doesn't
matter what she thinks of me.

I realized that the fears I was experiencing
were more from PROGRAMMING than from reality.

So, I started to remind myself as often as
possible that the fear wasn't happening because
there was any kind of danger... and that my
objective in a particular situation wasn't to have
it turn out perfect, IT WAS TO LEARN.

Think about the difference between doing
something because it's important vs. doing
something in order to LEARN.

So, for instance, if I saw a woman that I
wanted to meet... instead of thinking, "OK, I have
to say something charming and original so she'll
like me... and if I screw up I'm going to be
embarrassed" - I began to think things like, "I'm
going to learn how to get a woman's phone number
within a few minutes of meeting her... and part of
learning this is going to be trying a lot of
different things that probably aren't going to
work... but in the end, it's all going to even out
because I'm going to have the SKILL that I want."

See the difference?

Well, let me tell you, that change in attitude
made a HUGE impact on my success. I was willing to
do and try things that I never would have tried in
the past for fear of screwing up...

All because I had the attitude of "I'm going to
learn something from this and improve my skills...
and it doesn't matter what happens in THIS
PARTICULAR situation", I was able to improve very
rapidly.

And the more I began to apply this idea, the
more success I had in ALL areas with women... from
the first meeting, to getting them to go out with
me, to taking things to a physical level.

So do this:

Go out RIGHT NOW and start a conversation with
a woman.

I don't care if she's attractive or not.

But instead of having the objective of getting
a date, have the objective of LEARNING SOMETHING.

In fact, if you REALLY want to improve fast, go
spend a day starting conversations with women, but
make the commitment to NOT get any phone numbers
or dates all day.

In other words, no matter WHAT happens, you
can't date any of the women that you meet that
day.

See if you can just learn how to do a few
simple things like say, "Hi" to every woman that
walks by... how to maintain eye contact with women
until THEY look away... and how to end a
conversation "too soon" so she feels a natural
vacuum and tries to keep it going herself...

That's one good idea for dealing with your
fears.

If you'd like to read more of my personal
secrets for overcoming fear, including specific
mental exercises and physical drills, then I'd
recommend that you download a copy of my online
eBook "Double Your Dating". It's full of all my
very best thinking on this and many other subjects
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Your dearest,
Ogan Micheal

Sunday, March 1, 2009

HOW TO ACT AROUND A VERY ATTRACTIVE WOMAN

(This is going to be long, deal.) I am a
recovering wuss. Less than two months ago a 2 year
relationship finally ran itself into the ground.
Knowing what I know now I don't think would have
saved it, but I think it would have been more fun
while it lasted, and I would have gotten out a lot
sooner. Advice to other guys who are in
confusing transitional periods...focus on
yourself. Think about your life, what you're
doing, and where you are going. After being in a
long relationship, you forget what it's like to be
on your own and think about yourself. Being
directed and happy with your own life is the best
thing you can do for your love life. I've started
to "get it" and since the breakup I've been
hitting the gym every day, standing up straighter,
eating better, working harder, getting more
involved with my family, etc. My life is a LOT
busier now than it used to, and it feels great. It
also gives you a much different perspective on
women. This has already been covered quite a bit,
but it's true that this is a cycle. If you have
confidence in your life, women will respond very
positively on you, which gives you more confidence
in your love life. Acting picky (in a smart way)
about women is a self-fulfilling thought!
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Now my question. There's a girl I met about 6
months ago while I was still in that other
relationship...she's about a 9 in looks, and she
is the only girl I've ever met who I think might
actually be as smart as I am.
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She's very young though, and probably not very
experienced as far as relationships go. When we
first met, we talked for quite a while and it
turned out we share a LOT of obscure interests and
at the time she gave me her email AND phone number
without my asking for it. Somehow that didn't send
up the "she wants you" flag, as I was in dumbass
male wussy boy relationship mode. Well now I've
gotten back in touch with her. Her first response
was very positive, with comments like "I was
afraid you'd forgotten about little old me!" and
such. She also apologized for taking so long to
reply (it was only a few days) since she had been
on vacation. I figured there was never a better
time to try out c&f so I responded with "So what
are you going to do to make it up to me?" I had
never imagined I could be so bold, but it felt SO
right. You are absolutely right when you say that
c&f isn't game playing. It's what deep down inside
we are all supposed to be doing! Well, she
responded almost apologetically with a suggestion
that we could go out and then figure it out, and
she said maybe go to a movie or a particular
museum, or anything...I responded with (and here's
where my question starts) "hmm..sounds
tempting..how about all of the above?" She also
closed that email with "lots of love," Now at
this point, I fought HARD to stave off wussy boy
mode. I was thinking that the "nice" (wussy)
thing to do would be to also close with "lots of
love" or something along those lines. So instead,
I continued to bust on her as I had throughout the
email by responding to it with "hmm...again...lots
sounds tempting but.. how about all?"
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Now my question is this. These responses seem
like they might be wussy since they are
"admitting" at least indirectly that I feel
strongly about her and want to spend a lot of time
with her. However, they are a stark contrast to
the "oh yes, lets please go to a movie! I'm the
luckiest moron ever!" and "love," responses. To
generalize further, as long as you take a step
back and say what you want to say for yourself
(because it's what you want) and not what you
think they want to hear, is that good enough? I'm
reminded of the contrast you made between "Can I
take you out to dinner?" and "I'm going out to
dinner, you should join me."

MY POINT
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Ogan micheal