Saturday, January 14, 2012
What a girl wants (if you've been dating)
If you've been dating a girl for about two weeks now, and you've already kissed more than once, try something else as well: hold your girl. Girls do enjoy a good make out session and then some, but afterward, and during those times when you are over each others' houses, they just want to snuggle a little bit. Spooning might seem weird and unmanly, blah blah blah, but it really can make a girl feel appreciated if you just hold her in your arms while watching that movie on the sofa. And when you're together elsewhere, try holding her hand from time to time as well. Even if it does nothing for you and you don't really enjoy it, it will make your girl feel especially important and loved. And they will more than likely return the favor, a little more boldly if you catch my drift, next time
How to get her to say "yes" to a date
This is just from personal experience. I always say yes to a guy who's asking me out if he seems like a safe, honest fellow. I don't like smooth-talkers or cutey-cute lines. Those guys come off as decievers. WE LIKE HONESTY. IF YOU'RE NERVOUS, IT'S OK!!! Girls don't mind if a guy is nervous to ask her out; it's actually quite flattering and cute. Even if he's a complete stranger! You can say something like:
"Hi, my name is ____. What's yours? Um, I normally don't do this, and I know you don't know me, and this might seem alittle out-of-the-blue but...um... I think you're really pretty, and I was wondering if you'd like to go to a movie/dinner/whatever sometime..."
Then you exchange numbers.
Last time a guy asked me out like that, I was quite charmed at his honesty. He was communicating to me that although he's alittle bit scared to put himself out on the line like that, he found me attractive enough and worth it enough to take the risk! WE GIRLS LOVE THAT! WE LOVE BEING WORTH A RISK!
Think about it! It's sort of a big ego-stroke knowing that a guy thinks you're so cool, he's alittle intimidated by you.
Cmon girls, admit it. You like to be put on a pedistal, right? And isn't it SOOOOO CUTE when a guy's alittle shy of you? How cute is it when he blushes?
Guys. Be honest. There is nothing wrong with feelings; girls LOVE vulnerablility. It makes us put our guard down. Show your true feelings (even the non-glamourous ones), and I'm telling you she'll melt.... I would!!
"Hi, my name is ____. What's yours? Um, I normally don't do this, and I know you don't know me, and this might seem alittle out-of-the-blue but...um... I think you're really pretty, and I was wondering if you'd like to go to a movie/dinner/whatever sometime..."
Then you exchange numbers.
Last time a guy asked me out like that, I was quite charmed at his honesty. He was communicating to me that although he's alittle bit scared to put himself out on the line like that, he found me attractive enough and worth it enough to take the risk! WE GIRLS LOVE THAT! WE LOVE BEING WORTH A RISK!
Think about it! It's sort of a big ego-stroke knowing that a guy thinks you're so cool, he's alittle intimidated by you.
Cmon girls, admit it. You like to be put on a pedistal, right? And isn't it SOOOOO CUTE when a guy's alittle shy of you? How cute is it when he blushes?
Guys. Be honest. There is nothing wrong with feelings; girls LOVE vulnerablility. It makes us put our guard down. Show your true feelings (even the non-glamourous ones), and I'm telling you she'll melt.... I would!!
tips to help keep a girl
1. Keep your promises!!! if you say ur gonna call her on Wensday call her on Wensday even if it kills u!
2. Be honest, girls hate being lied to
3. Tell her exactly how you feel dont hold back; she'll love it
4. If she seems tired kiss her and say shes beautiful
5. Trust that she will be faithful to you
6. When you go in for the first kiss go SLOW dont scare her
7. Anything romantic you want to say to her dont say it over the phone or email say it to her in person it will mean so much more to her
8. When you want to tell her I love you, say it to her while looking into her eyes
9. Hug her from behind with your arms around her waist
10. Tip her chin up with your finger to kiss her
11. Be romantic for no reason
12. Understand that shes not always going to agree with you
13. Don't cling to her, she wants independence.
2. Be honest, girls hate being lied to
3. Tell her exactly how you feel dont hold back; she'll love it
4. If she seems tired kiss her and say shes beautiful
5. Trust that she will be faithful to you
6. When you go in for the first kiss go SLOW dont scare her
7. Anything romantic you want to say to her dont say it over the phone or email say it to her in person it will mean so much more to her
8. When you want to tell her I love you, say it to her while looking into her eyes
9. Hug her from behind with your arms around her waist
10. Tip her chin up with your finger to kiss her
11. Be romantic for no reason
12. Understand that shes not always going to agree with you
13. Don't cling to her, she wants independence.
26 Things That A Perfect Guy in LOVE Would Do
1. Know how to make you smile when you are down .
2. Try to secretly smell your hair , but you always notice.
3. Stick up for you, but still respects your independence.
4. Give you the remote control during the game.
5. Come up behind you and put his arms around you.
6. Play with your hair .
7. His hands always find yours.
8. Be cute when he really wants something.
9. Messages u a lot.
10. Dance with you, even if he feels like a dork.
11. Never run out of love. 12. Be funny, but know how to be serious.
13. Realize he's being funny when he needs to be serious. 14. Be patient when you take forever to get ready.
15. React so cutely when you hit him and it actually hurts.
16. Smile a lot.
17. Plans a romantic date full of cheesy things he wouldn't normally like to do,
just because he knows it means a lot to you.
18. Appreciate you. 19. Help others out. 20. Drive 5 hours just to see you for 1. 21. Always gives you a peck on the cheek when you depart from each
others company, even when his friends are watching.
22. Sing, even if he can't.
23. Have a creative sense of humor.
24. Stare at you.
25. Call for no reason.
26. Quit smoking, chewing, drinking, or drugs - just because he loves u that much to quit it.if he cant then help him in quitting by slowly reducing the amount he does usually.
2. Try to secretly smell your hair , but you always notice.
3. Stick up for you, but still respects your independence.
4. Give you the remote control during the game.
5. Come up behind you and put his arms around you.
6. Play with your hair .
7. His hands always find yours.
8. Be cute when he really wants something.
9. Messages u a lot.
10. Dance with you, even if he feels like a dork.
11. Never run out of love. 12. Be funny, but know how to be serious.
13. Realize he's being funny when he needs to be serious. 14. Be patient when you take forever to get ready.
15. React so cutely when you hit him and it actually hurts.
16. Smile a lot.
17. Plans a romantic date full of cheesy things he wouldn't normally like to do,
just because he knows it means a lot to you.
18. Appreciate you. 19. Help others out. 20. Drive 5 hours just to see you for 1. 21. Always gives you a peck on the cheek when you depart from each
others company, even when his friends are watching.
22. Sing, even if he can't.
23. Have a creative sense of humor.
24. Stare at you.
25. Call for no reason.
26. Quit smoking, chewing, drinking, or drugs - just because he loves u that much to quit it.if he cant then help him in quitting by slowly reducing the amount he does usually.
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