“New Breakthrough Discoveries In Science And Psychology Help You
Eliminate The
Anxiety, Nervousness, Self-Doubt And FEAR
That Are Destroying Your Chances With Women—
It's Time To FINALLY Overcome Your Fears,
Take Control Of Your Emotions, Learn To
Approach Women Easily To Start Conversations...
And Transform Yourself Into The
Powerful, Confident, Attractive Man That
Every Woman Is Desperately Looking For...”
If You're Ready To Finally Say Goodbye To The “Inner Game Challenges”
Like Insecurity, Fear, And Anxiety That Are Holding You Back From TRUE
Success With Women… This Will Be The Most Important Letter You Ever
Read…
Dear Friend,
Have you ever screwed up an important situation with a woman?
Be honest with me here.
I want to know...
... have you ever been talking to a woman you felt attracted to, and
gotten so nervous and uptight that you fumbled over your words... and she
just got bad vibrations from you and walked away...?
... have you ever been in a relationship with a wonderful woman, and
became emotionally insecure or dependent on her for YOUR own feeling of
well-being... to the point where you literally drove her away?
... have you ever seen a woman that you wanted to start a
conversation with... but your emotions started to go CRAZY at even the
THOUGHT of approaching her... and you just decided that it would be easier
to walk away than try to overcome your fear? (The worst part about this
one is that you probably beat yourself up for it mentally later on, and felt
even WORSE for the next several hours or days.)
... have you ever "lost your cool" around a woman that you really
liked... maybe it was an argument that got you upset, or something she did
that made you feel emotional or angry... and you let your emotions take
over... which made her lose interest in you?
... have you ever met a woman you really liked, and started to feel
emotionally attached to her BEFORE you even got to know her or went out
with her... and you had crazy feelings of jealousy about her being with
other men... even though she wasn't yours?
... have you ever felt like certain women could actually control your
emotions... from outside your body? You're going along in life, everything
is fine. Then you meet this particular woman, and you lose the ability to
control your own emotions... and you walk around for days or weeks
trying to get control of yourself... all the while knowing that being OUT of
control is making her LESS interested in you (but not being able to do a
damn thing about it)...?
Have you ever had one of these things happen to you?
If you're like I was when I first started working on my "Inner Game",
then you've been in one or more of these situations... probably MANY
TIMES.
And what's the WORST part about going through one of these things?
Well, if you ask me, the most PAINFUL part of it is that as you're going
through it, you always KNOW that it's YOU that's screwing things up!
It's not her.
It's not the situation.
It's not ANYTHING else.
It's YOU... and you know it. You could FEEL that you were out of control
of yourself and the situation, and you could FEEL that you were the one
who was screwing things up... because you just couldn't get CONTROL of
yourself.
And THAT'S the part that really sucks.
Why Is This So Hard?
After spending many years doing "self-help", and working to figure out
my own crazy mind and emotions, I started to wonder...
Why is this so HARD for most men?
I mean, it's challenging enough to get up and go to work everyday,
pay the bills, and keep the car running right... but that's only PART of life.
We ALSO have to deal with the things that we have going on INSIDE of
ourselves.
And the question that kept coming up for me was: Why is it so hard to
deal with these things we have going on INSIDE... like fear, anxiety, and
other psychological challenges?
Well, one of the answers that I came up with is interesting. And it's
something that I think might help YOU deal with some of these same
challenges....
The Big “Ah Ha!” That
Changed Everything For Me
The "answer" I'm about to tell you is simple... but it took me a LONG
time to figure it out. So take this as hard-earned wisdom... from one friend
to another.
When I started trying to solve my own problems, I would always tend
to focus on the PROBLEM itself.
Makes sense, right?
For instance, if I met a girl and liked her... and then I couldn't stop
myself from thinking about her or feeling crazy emotions for her... I would
do my best to CONTROL my emotions. I'd tell myself to calm down. I'd try
not to think about her. I'd do my best to distract myself.
In short, I tried to do things to deal with the problem... in the moment.
But what I found was that when it comes to "Inner Game" issues, if you
just deal with the problem in the MOMENT... you're not SOLVING the
problem itself. For instance, the NEXT time the same situation comes up, the
PROBLEM comes up again... and you have to play these mental games with
yourself AGAIN to "fix" it.
The real "Ah-Ha!" moment came for me when I had a simple
realization:
I realized that instead of trying to deal with each individual problem IN
THE MOMENT... I would get FAR better results if I got my Inner Game issues
handled BEFORE I HAD THE PROBLEM IN THE FIRST PLACE.
In other words, instead of dealing with my out-of-control emotions
after I already met a woman and I was already out of control... I needed to
make it so my emotions never got out of control IN THE FIRST PLACE.
That one simple shift in thinking changed my focus, took me in a
brand-new direction, and ultimately had a major effect on my long-term
success... and my success with women.
Fix The IMPORTANT Things
And The Other Things Will
“Fix Themselves”
This new mindset allowed me to see that most of my psychological
and emotional challenges were actually SIMILAR to each other... and I
realized that if I could fix a major emotional challenge, it would
AUTOMATICALLY solve a ton of other problems at the same time.
As you've probably noticed, Inner Game challenges can be very SIMILAR
to each other. You can actually group them into CATEGORIES...
I'm going to share MY list of Inner Game Categories with you. Read
through these, and see if this makes sense to you...
1. Irrational, Uncontrollable Fear
Many of the situations that guys screw up with women fit into the
category of "caused by fear". Here are some of the types of fear that us
guys experience... along with how I think they mess us up with women:
Fear of rejection. Here's the situation: You see a woman you'd like to
approach, and you start thinking about talking to her. All of a sudden, you
feel your throat get dry and your heart pounding. But it makes no sense.
There's no DANGER in the situation... but you're feeling FEAR. As you think
about it, you realize that you're afraid of her REJECTING you. And that fear
keeps you from starting a conversation.
Fear of embarrassment. As you're thinking of approaching that same
woman, you look around at the other people in the situation... and you
wonder "What would THEY think if I went over and talked to her... but she
REJECTED me..."?
Fear of someone else hurting you. Maybe you keep thinking about
talking to her, and you even come up with something clever to say... but
the more you think about it, the more you start to wonder "What if she has
a boyfriend? What if he's not here yet? What if he walks in and sees me
talking to his girlfriend, and gets upset? What if he HURTS me?"
Fear of loss. Here's one for you: Have you ever met a great woman, then
found yourself thinking about her all the time, and WONDERING if she
might be with another guy? You become afraid of losing something that
you don't even HAVE yet. So what did you do? Of course... you called her,
emailed her, and tried to "secretly" know what she was doing at all times.
And what happened? She got creeped out, and stopped seeing you.
So what do all of these have in common? FEAR, that's what. And guess
what? If you address the FEAR directly, you can overcome ALL of these AT
THE SAME TIME.
2. Constant Anxiety
Anxiety about not being able to attract a woman. One of the worst
anxieties a man can have is this feeling of loneliness combined with a
nagging anxiety about not being able to attract a woman. If you've ever
been there, then you know EXACTLY what I'm talking about. It's as if you
can't stop thinking about the fact that you DON'T have a woman... and you
worry that you may NEVER be able to find one.
Anxiety about whether or not the woman you want is interested in
you, or if she's interested in someone else. When you meet a woman
you like, your first instinct is to figure out if she's "available". Looking for
clues, thinking about it, and trying to figure this out can lead to a mental
game that often causes a lot of internal tension and anxiety for us guys.
Anxiety about all the complex events in your life and relationships
becoming unmanageable. Nowadays, life is COMPLEX. There are so many
"moving parts". If one thing fails, then it could screw up a lot of other
things. And the challenges that come from meeting and dating women are
often the "straw that broke the camel's back".
Anxiety about something bad happening at any moment. I'm not going
to talk a lot about this one, but if you experience it, then you KNOW what
I'm talking about. And it's a pain in the ass.
3. Immaturity
You can't "handle" situations that bother you... they get to you too
much... and they haunt you. We all have situations that come up in life
that "get to us". But if you're like me and many other men, then you know
what it's like to feel like things just "get to you" a little TOO much. When
you can't handle "normal" situations... then you probably have a problem.
Going into a rage or tizzy when you don't get "your way". As we grow
up, we might stop screaming and crying in public when we don't get "our
way", but that doesn't mean that the problem has completely gone away.
If you've experienced getting upset when you don't get what you want,
then this is an area that you need to fix... and soon.
Wanting what you want when you want it, and not accepting reality.
As kids, we used to fantasize about having things go exactly the way we
wanted them to... and being able to change reality just by THINKING about
it. As we grow up, we don't entirely give this up. If you tend to not want to
accept the reality around you, then I honestly believe this is limiting you...
and you need to do something about it.
And what do these three issues have in common? They're all connected
to MATURITY... a process that can be LEARNED (and quickly, if you know
how).
4. Unpredictable Emotional Turmoil
Thoughts or events that trigger strong emotions. Emotions are
interesting things. It often seems like they just "come out of nowhere". And
when the strong emotions come, they can COMPLETELY take over. Have you
ever screwed up a situation in your life, work, or relationships because you
got too emotional? Even worse, did it happen because you couldn't
CONTROL your emotions?
Emotions that distract you from being productive. Have you ever
noticed that when you're feeling intense emotions, it's almost IMPOSSIBLE
to focus on anything else? Strong emotions take over your entire
experience, and even take over your THOUGHTS. If you don't know how to
control strong, persistent emotions, you often wind up not being able to
get ANYTHING done.
Events outside of you triggering emotions. We might call this one "being
a small boat in a storm at sea". If events that are OUTSIDE of you often
trigger STRONG emotions, then you've probably realized that YOU'RE NOT
IN COMPLETE CONTROL of yourself. This can be pretty upsetting all by itself.
Well, the good news is that you CAN learn how to control your emotions...
and you can learn to "disconnect" your intense emotional responses from
things that happen outside of you.
5. Other People Controlling You And Your Life
Others know how to push your buttons, and you don't know how to
stop it. Have you ever felt like someone else had a "remote control" for
your life and emotions? Somehow, they just know how to "push your
buttons", and get whatever they want from you? Get this: It's YOU that's
giving them control. And if you're tired of this, then YOU need to learn how
to TAKE BACK THE CONTROL of yourself and your life (And I want to teach
you exactly how to do this... because taking control of your life will have
an INSTANT impact on your success with women).
Feeling low self-esteem combined with resentment because others are
"running the show" of your life. If you've experienced this situation
where you feel like other people control your life, then you most likely
ALSO felt some negative emotions about it. When you're out of control, you
KNOW that something is wrong. And it makes you feel bad about yourself.
This is a "negative spiral" that just gets worse and worse. The more you let
others control you, the worse it gets. It MUST stop.
Allowing someone else to control you because you think it will get you
what you want. This is a DEAL KILLER when it comes to success with
women. Us guys LOVE to try to please women by letting them control us.
The problem, of course, is that when a woman actually GETS control, that's
when her ATTRACTION STOPS. If you want to solve this particular problem,
then you must literally change the way you THINK... and change your
emotional responses.
6. Never Getting An “Instruction Manual” For
Your Mind And Emotions
Wanting to understand and learn how your mind and emotions work,
but thinking that it might be "dumb". When you first learn about "self-
help", a common response is to think that it's kind of stupid or ridiculous.
But one of the funny things about being human is that we don't come with
"instruction manuals". And worse, we are COMPLEX. I believe that if you
want to become EFFECTIVE in life... and if you want to have SUCCESS in life,
you MUST learn how your mind and emotions work. You MUST overcome
this feeling that it's "dumb" to improve yourself.
Not knowing where to start, and not wanting to get a degree in
psychology to learn. I can remember when I first started learning about
psychology, behavior, and emotions. Man, did it ever seem COMPLICATED. I
actually took some psychology classes when I was younger... just to try to
figure out MY OWN screwed-up mind. One of the big challenges when
you're working to improve yourself is: "Where do I start?" And the other is
"How do I learn all this stuff without spending YEARS in college?" In a
minute, I'm going to tell you exactly where to start... and exactly how to
solve all of these challenges RAPIDLY... no college degree required.
Not having a place where you can get all the information you need.
Finally, if you've been working to improve yourself at all, you've noticed
that no one has really put together an entire "system" for learning how to
improve yourself in the area of "psychological and emotional health". This
was one of my own biggest challenges... there just wasn't a "complete"
system for addressing all of my problems. Well, fortunately that is a
problem that is in the PAST...
7. Wanting To Get Help, But Not Being Able
To ASK For It, And Not Knowing Where
To Turn...
Maybe the biggest "Inner Game" challenge of all is realizing that you
NEED help... wanting to GET help... but just not being able to ask for it... and
not knowing where to turn for it.
Men are proud. We don't want anyone else to know that we're out of
control... hurting... or desperate. We don't want to ask for help. We don't
even like the THOUGHT of asking for help.
Even more, this stuff that I'm talking about is complex. When you're
having an Inner Game problem, the problem itself takes over your
awareness... and sometimes makes it seem like the problem won't ever go
away...
Well, there's good news here.
The good news is that I've been working on this set of problems
MYSELF for a long time... many years, in fact.
And along my path I met an expert in the area of "Inner Game
Psychology" that opened up a new world to me. In a minute, I'm going to
tell you about him, and how I think his cutting-edge concepts and
techniques can help you ELIMINATE your Inner Game challenges...
The REAL REASON Why Some Men Will Always Fail With Women–
And What To Do About It...
Remember the movie “Raiders Of The Lost Ark”… that cool old Harrison
Ford movie?
Do you remember what Indiana Jones was doing for most of the
movie?
He wasn't looking for the ARK ITSELF… no.
He was looking for the thing that had the INSTRUCTIONS that would
help him find the Ark …
Remember that funny metal thing with the crystal in the middle that
he put on the stick in the “map room”?
Indiana Jones knew that if he could find the thing that told him where
the Ark was, the rest would be EASY.
There was another twist in the movie as well.
There was a bad guy in the movie who had burned his hand trying to
grab the metal disk with the instructions on it. He had an imprint of the
metal disk on his hand from the burn.
In the movie, they used the imprint from his hand to build a replica of
the metal disk… hoping it would be “good enough” to help them locate the
Ark.
The problem?
They only had ONE SIDE of the disk to work with. They didn't know
that there were instructions on the OTHER SIDE.
As a result, they were looking in the wrong place, and not finding the
Ark at all.
So why is this important? And why am I going on and on about this
movie?
Because this is EXACTLY what most men are going through with
women and dating.
They have only part of the information that they need, and they're
trying to make it work on that alone.
This is like trying to drive a car without an engine.
No matter how much you shine it… and how many cool parts you stick
on there… it's not going anywhere.
No way.
No amount of “hard work” is going to get it running if you don't have
the right stuff under the hood.
Since I first wrote “Double Your Dating” a little over 4 years ago, I've
seen a lot of guys making this mistake.
It's the very same mistake I made when I was first trying to learn all of
this.
I see them trying to solve their problems with techniques… when they
have problems that can never be solved with techniques.
From firsthand experience and from teaching others, I've learned that a
technique will almost never work for a guy that doesn't have his Inner
Game issues handled.
For instance, I'd teach a guy a great “opening line” to start a
conversation with any woman anywhere… but he'd come back to me and
tell me that he just couldn't do it. I'd say “what do you mean?” and he'd
say that for some reason, he didn't even TRY it.
The problem was bigger than having the line.
In fact, having the line only made things WORSE for the guy… because
now he had what he THOUGHT he needed… but it STILL didn't work. He
only became more frustrated and depressed… and started feel bad about
HIMSELF.
Your “Missing Link” To
Dating Success…
I'm about to tell you something that you already know…
I think you ALREADY KNOW far more than the average guy about how
to be successful with women.
In fact, you probably know more about this than most guys who are
“naturally” good with women.
You already know the “tricks”… and what you need to do to be
successful. But things just aren't working for you the way you wish they
would…
And… I think that you KNOW that the problem isn't that you need more
techniques.
You have that part of the “map” down.
I think you realize that the problem is something BIGGER.
Something more intense.
Something more personal… and more difficult to face.
I also think you know that if and when you DO tackle and defeat this
problem… and get this “other side” handled once and for all… you WILL
achieve the success with women---and in life---that you were born to
have.
And I think you realize by now that this isn't going to happen by itself.
The problem isn't going to “solve” itself… the pieces aren't going to just
“fall into place”… and you will NOT have the success with women you are
looking for unless you DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.
The bad news is that this is never easy.
In fact… for most men it is next to impossible … and sadly… most go
their entire lives without ever handling their issues and achieving the
success they deserve.
I'll say it again:
MOST MEN GO THEIR ENTIRE LIVES WITHOUT HAVING THE SUCCESS WITH
WOMEN THEY DESERVE.
Fortunately, it DOESN'T have to be this way for YOU.
How To Smash Through
The “Internal B.S.” That Is
Holding You Back From
Success With Women–
Fast And Forever...
If you're ready to finally get your Inner Game "handled"… and say
“GOODBYE” to the problems and issues that have sabotaged you with
women your entire life… I have some fantastic news for you…
Remember the guy I mentioned who is an expert helping men fix their
Inner Game issues? Let me tell you about him...
To start with, he's a world- renowned psychiatrist who specializes in
helping guys overcome and eliminate the inner issues that are sabotaging
their success with women. And he's come up with a "unified theory" of all
of the different ideas in the world of Psychology and Behavior.
After many years of reading psychology and “self-help” books, I've
always thought that someone needed to create a “best of the best” of what
was out there…
But I couldn't find anything that even began to “put it all together”.
One day I was doing a live seminar in Chicago, and a one of the guys at
the program walked up to me at a break and started a conversation.
As it turned out, he was an "M.D." who had been creating a “unified
theory of psychology” over the past several years.
He had been featured on CNN, in USA Today, and in The Wall Street
Journal… just to name a few.
And here's where it got REALLY interesting…
He went on to tell me that he had taken the best of science and
condensed it down into simple systems for dealing with Inner Game issues
like anxiety, anger, depression, courage, confidence, and self-esteem… and
had turned this “master theory” into a simple system any man could use to
fix his “inner game issues”… and create the life he wants for himself.
We shook hands, and that was the beginning of my friendship with
“Dr. Paul”.
The Start Of Something Big...
Over the next several months, Dr. Paul and I had several interesting
conversations.
I was a bit skeptical about what he had told me during our brief
meeting. Frankly… it sounded a little too good to be true.
But at the same time, he definitely had my interest… and I had found
out more about the system he had created.
Well… during our first real conversation I quickly realized that Dr. Paul
wasn't just some guy writing theories on his kitchen table.
Everything he was doing was backed by REAL SCIENCE… it was on the
cutting edge of psychology… and it was truly amazing stuff.
I came to find out he had actually PATENTED his system… and had
ALREADY used the system to help over 4,000 people in one-on-one clinical
situations.
I can't even begin to tell you how excited I was. I have been studying
psychology for a lot of years… and I had been looking for a system like this
for a LONG time…
And something else you should know about Dr. Paul: He's not your
average “shrink”.
He's a normal, single guy just like you and me.
He's always out of the town trying out new things… and dates some of
the most interesting and attractive women around.
His real-world experience and scientific expertise makes for an
unbeatable combination… the guy is an intellectual powerhouse… and
whether we were talking about psychology, science, or attracting women…
I found myself learning something new every time I talked to him.
We quickly made plans to do an interview for my “Interviews With
Dating Gurus” monthly interview series… and I brought him on as a
featured guest speaker at my next live program.
The feedback I received from guys on what he had to say was nothing
short of phenomenal. Dr. Paul has a unique way of taking complex
psychological concepts and turning them into easy-to-understand methods
that a 3rd grader could understand and implement… and nearly every one
who heard what he had to say was blown away.
I knew at that point that we had to do something BIGGER.
I've always known that a guy's inner game is the single most
important factor in his success with women... and also the most difficult to
fix.
I had wanted to do a program to help guys get their inner game
together for a long time. But even with all of the knowledge I had acquired
in 10 years of studying psychology and behavior... I felt that something
was missing.
I wanted to find a way for guys to get this handled FAST... and it just
didn't exist.
But that all changed when I met Dr. Paul and was introduced to his
system. I asked him to do a live program with me to help guys get their
DEEP inner issues handled... and he said "yes".
A Life-Changing Breakthrough
In Behavioral Science
We decided to call the program, “Deep Inner Game”.
We spent weeks preparing, and then two solid days presenting step-
by-step ways for overcoming limiting beliefs, destructive emotions, and
once-uncontrollable fears… and demonstrating exactly how to build a
powerful self-image, strong self-esteem… and giving you step-by-step,
easy to use tools to fixing your inner issues QUICKLY and PERMANENTLY.
What resulted is a program that is the very first of its kind.
It's designed to completely reprogram every area of a man's mind for
MASSIVE success with women... no matter what condition a guy is in... or
how deeply he is affected by the problems of his past.
Fortunately, we had the "cameras rolling" during the presentation, and
we turned the live presentation into a fantastic combination CD/DVD
program that is going to blow your mind... and CHANGE your mind forever.
In this ground-breaking program you'll learn how the use the
"operating system of the human mind" to pinpoint the specific problems
that are ruining your chances with women... and figure out EXACTLY how to
fix them quickly.
You'll learn how to take the bad experiences from your past and spin
them into positive points of reference... and you'll use these points to give
your the strength to ALWAYS do exactly the right things with women in
the future...
What's unique about this program is its use of VISUAL AIDS...
Dr. Paul has created the first entirely visual system of psychology to
solve deep problems... and he'll show you how to expel your inner
psychological demons, and replace them with a powerful, solid confidence
that all women notice and respond to... simply by following his easy-to-
read charts and graphs.
Going through this program is like upgrading your brain with the latest
in "dating" and "confidence" software. Fear, anxiety, depression,
nervousness, loneliness, anger, and frustration will quickly become a thing
of the past. Every part of your dating life will begin to run more smoothly...
you'll feel like you are on "auto-pilot" as you make all of the right moves
with a woman every time.
The amazing thing about Dr. Paul's system is that it gives scientifically
accurate and measurable results—that you can COUNT on.
If you've tried EVERYTHING and you can't get a grip on what your
problem is and how to solve it... this program is especially for YOU.
If you're feeling like you don't have any control over your dating life...
or if you're feeling used and manipulated... or powerless, trapped and
hopeless... this will show you how to break free from these chains and take
control of your life back... and start commanding power and respect from
all you come in contact with.
If you've had difficulty with rejection or breaking up with a woman in
the past, this program will show you how to patch those holes with
confidence and strength... and take your self-esteem to a level you never
thought possible.
If you're suffering from depression, or just a little bummed out about
how things have been going for you lately... you'll learn how to snap
yourself into "success mode" and take on a contagious, optimistic attitude...
you'll see each new day as an opportunity to try out your newfound skills
and meet more and more attractive women.
Most psycho-analysts take 4 years to perform this kind of work and
make these changes in someone's life... but with Dr. Paul's revolutionary
methods, you'll learn all of the tools you need to be your own personal
success coach in literally hours.
You'll learn how to sync up both sides of your brain to get maximum
results quickly... and accelerate your skills in ANY area of your life.
And that's just a very small sample of what this technology will do for
you.
Here are a few of the other things you'll learn inside this exciting
program:
How to patch up the holes in your self-esteem FOR GOOD and build a
rock-solid foundation of confidence that all women “feel” when they're
around you
Why human nature can actually PREVENT you from having success with
women… and what you absolutely must do to overcome your “bad
programming” and start living the life you were born to live
A 2-step exercise to identifying exactly how you are letting women
control your actions so you can eliminate their influence and be YOUR
OWN person (Which in turn will cause you to attract women like crazy)
Do you ever feel like you are just too “nice” or sensitive, or have a hard
time saying “no”? Here's a simple technique you can use when you FEEL
this happening to clear your head and make the right choice
A simple change in your attitude that will prevent a woman from ever
trying to take control of your life
Do you find that the women you are REALLY interested in seem to LOSE
interest in you after a few dates? Here's why… (It's a surprisingly easy
fix… once you know the reason)
A brand new scientifically proven way to permanently break free from
depression and sadness… no matter how severe… and replace it with
feelings of happiness and contentment
How to conquer you emotional energy and give yourself the ability to
turn any uncomfortable feeling into positive energy that motivates you
to succeed
A detailed, recipe-like way to build self-esteem that works every single
time (The secret is in the step-by-step process, which you'll learn in
detail)
A simple psychological trick to conquer anger and anxiety and never
again be a slave to your emotions
How to become your own life coach and guide yourself to success
without needing the help of anyone else
An almost magical way to break your stubborn destructive habits
quickly, easily, and permanently… and replace them with constructive
habits that FORCE you to become successful
How avoid letting the emotions you feel when you meet a really special
woman cause you to make stupid mistakes that scare her away (If
you've ever had problems keeping around the “keepers”, it's probably
because you didn't do this one simple thing)
How to eliminate all possibility of another person “pulling your strings”
and take total control of your emotional and internal states… no matter
what the situation
A step-by-step exercise to pin-point your 3 biggest inner issues
(including those you are afraid to admit to yourself) and defeat them
from the inside out… no matter how long they've been troubling you or
how deep they are buried in your mind
A common misunderstanding that traps 99% of all men in a state of low
self-esteem forever… that is surprisingly easy to turn around (When you
know the secret)
A proven way to “block” a woman from effecting your emotions in a
negative way so YOU are always in charge of the way you feel
A step-by-step plan to pull your self out of any depressed state–no
matter how severe–that actually works (And gives you PERMANENT
results)
How to initiate yourself into manhood and rid yourself of the needy
“boy” inside of you that is subconsciously RUINING your game with
women
How to quickly get over the pain of a bad breakup and stop letting it
affect your current actions with women NOW… even if it's been haunting
you for months
How to transform stress, anger and anxiety into SELF-ESTEEM
A relieving way to “forgive yourself” for past mistakes and bad
experiences and turn them into learning experiences overnight
The one word clue that instantly tells you that you are thinking a
defeating thought (Identifying these times is the key to maintaining high
self-esteem)
What to do if you're a guy who takes the pain of rejection to heart (A
step-by-step method to create a stone-cold confidence that no woman
can phase)
How to eliminate the “up and down” rollercoaster of success and failure
that usually comes with learning a new skill and create a path of
CONSISTENT results
A simple 5-second thing you can do every single day to “stair-step” your
psychological growth and boost your self-esteem and confidence—one
notch at a time
How to avoid beating yourself up over things you KNOW you should let
slide off your back
A FASCINATING way to increase your natural “intuitive” abilities with
women… practically overnight… so you do the things that make her feel
MORE attracted to you subconsciously
A detailed guide to the operating system of the human mind (When you
know exactly how your mind works you can make it do exactly what
you want it to do)
A secret your therapist will never tell you that allows you to fix your
inner “issues” the very first time you try… FOR GOOD (If every patient
new this they'd be out of business... )
Proven tools to build a charismatic inner presence that women notice
A scientific way to achieve TRUE happiness by aligning the 4 parts of
your psychology (This simple exercise makes it a breeze… and you can
use it again and again to keep yourself on track)
A psychiatrist's secret way to “read” a woman's personality so fast you'll
feel like you cheated! (Now you'll know exactly what type of person she
is within 5 minutes of meeting her...)
A scientific method of solving psychological problems using simple charts
that works every time for any type of problem… not matter how serious
How to create a special tool for yourself that will recharge you with
powerful emotional strength when you are down
A way to analyze and adjust your behavior with a woman on the spot…
without slowing yourself down (This guarantees you always do the
things that INCREASE her attraction to you)
How to create your own unique identity and personality and attract
women to the REAL you
A lesson from a famous performing artist you can use to transform
yourself from a “regular” person into a powerful masculine figure that
people notice
3 easy-to-acquire personal elements that when put together give you an
instant foundation of mature masculine power
The big mistake men make that gives all of their power to a woman
(Once you do this you can NEVER get it back)
Exactly how to be “mysterious” - the pieces of information you can keep
from a woman that will drive her crazy with curiosity and make her
PURSUE YOU to find out more
An easy-to-follow psychological “treasure map” you can use to find the
richness of life that has been out of your reach for so many years
How to create instant trust with a woman by telling her “no” at the right
times
A simple change in thinking that will instantly put you back in control of
your life… and… turn your life into an exciting adventure that keeps
getting better and better!
A brand new scientific method to eliminate stress… quickly and
permanently
The big mistake men make that steers them into things they KNOW are
bad for them… again and again
An exercise to determine when you are burning energy and wasting
your strength on things you cannot control... so you can instead focus
your resources on attracting more women
How to create a unique identity for yourself that women notice (Your
uniqueness is one of your biggest assets in attracting women... here's
how to use it to your advantage)
The real reason why so many men don't know who they really are
(Here's how to break through the B.S. that has been forced upon you and
start living your life for YOU)
How to impress a woman with your character by being “picky”
How to make any “technique” you learn a permanent part of you
in the shortest amount of time humanely possible
How to turn a bad response from a woman into a GOOD THING (Use this
to permanently eliminate rejection from your life)
How to use the “economics of psychology” to get people to do what you
want while creating a win-win situation for all parties involved
How to create a powerful “aura of energy” that blocks others from
sapping your power… and… attracts those that will charge you up
The secrets of a fulfilling and loving relationship - what must happen to
keep BOTH OF YOU from screwing it up
How to eliminate the life-sucking trap of co-dependence in a relationship
(Most don't realize this is single biggest cause of break-ups)
How to be independent in a relationship in a way that makes a woman
more attracted to you instead of scaring her off
How to create and live in YOUR OWN powerful reality (This will make
you optimistic and energized no matter how bad the situation is around
you)
The BIG DIFFERENCE between nice guys that DO attract women and nice
guys that DON'T… and how to use your natural kindness to give you a
distinct advantage over the “jerks” and the “bad boys”
Why your brains can actually be your worst enemy when it comes to
doing the things that make women want you (Here's how to use your
analytical ability to zero in on what makes her tick and please her like no
other man can)
A way to avoid “losing your cool” when a woman does something you
don't agree with that 99% of men never figure out on there own (The
best part is that she will respect you and find you MORE attractive every
time it happens)
The mistake “left-brained” men make that leads them to fail with
women more often than “right-brained” men (The good news is that this
is an easy fix)
How to blend your intellect with your “street smarts” and develop a
powerful “sixth sense” for knowing the specific things that will attract a
particular woman
A secret of master test-takers that helps you internalize new ideas and
techniques twice as fast… so you achieve your goals with women in half
the time
A simple way to PERMANENTLY eliminate “dry spells” from your life that
most men miss entirely
How to throw away the “lines”, “tricks” and gimmicks that only take you
so far with women and develop a powerful INNER FORCE that
magnetically attracts women to the REAL YOU
How to identify exactly what you must do to achieve your goals AND
what might get in the way so there is no possible way you can fail
A powerful exercise to break free of any “inner demons” that have
haunted you since childhood - fast and forever (Unfortunately most
people will go their entire lives without REALLY eliminating the things
that prevent them from true success)
Why much of your unhappiness is caused by things that really shouldn't
affect you… and how to remedy it in mere seconds
A step-by-step plan to mastering anger and calming your nerves quickly
and easily in any situation
A mature “comeback” to say to a woman that is rude to you that shoots
straight through to her psychological core and makes her instantly regret
her bad manners
A way to handle your anger that actually builds character and confidence
An easy 1-step cure for anxiety that works any time you need it
The surefire psychological “recipe” you can use to break any addiction
quickly (If you suffer from addiction of ANY FORM you NEED to hear this)
A proven way to overcome approach anxiety and shyness that works
BETTER (and is much safer) than any prescription drug
A powerful exercise to completely eliminate your “secret excuse” that is
keeping you from becoming the confident person you KNOW you should
be
How to use a fake foreign accent to drive a woman crazy
A scientific way to supercharge your Cocky Comedy skills OVERNIGHT
How to size up a woman instantly and tell her EVERYTHING about herself
(She'll think you're a psychic genius!)
Fantastic sets of stories and tools you can use to help others solve their
own personal issues (Your friends, family, and the women you meet will
look up to you when you learn these)
A step-by-step method to eliminate your desire to please others and
start living for yourself (and attract more women in the process)
How to reprogram yourself to find and attract exactly the type of
woman that is right for you—physically and emotionally
Why most men are forced to “take what they can get” when it comes to
women… and how you can defy the odds and attract quality women on
a consistent basis
The reason why some men always attract women with emotional
problems—and what to do about it...
A step-by-step “in the field” exercise to cure approach anxiety FAST… so
you'll never again hesitate when you see a woman you want to meet
A way to overcome your fear of conflict so no one on earth can push you
around
What your dreams REALLY mean—how to use your own secret
subconscious signals to identify and improve the parts of your life that
are most important to your success with women
How to turn yourself into an ATTRACTION MACHINE by imprinting the
process of attracting women on your nerves, muscle fibers, brain cells,
and every part of your physical and mental being
How to train your brain to reject future problems from creeping in so
nothing can ever break your powerful new emotional state
How to get rid of deep internal issues without years of therapy...
How to build your self confidence by SEEKING OUT rejection
A fantastic “direct” approach you can use to easily start up a conversation
with a group of beautiful women
A great way to give yourself an instant energy boost any time of day
that is far better (and healthier) than caffeine
How to appear confident to women before you actually have your inner
game together (This will help you gain experience and dates while
you're learning)
REAL Stories From A Guy Who
Has “Been There”...
This program wouldn't be complete without some other unique
perspectives... and to put the "icing on the cake"... I invited another friend of
mine who has overcome some serious inner game issues of his own to
share his secrets...
My friend has "been there"... and he's a tremendous example of what
you can accomplish by getting this area of your life handled. He's been able
to lose over 125 lbs. in under one year by mastering his emotions and
anxiety... and in this riveting presentation he'll show you how you can use
the strategies he used to "shed the weight" to overcome any problem YOU
might be facing.
Prepare to be shocked and delighted... this man is truly something else,
and what you will learn from him will stick with you forever.
Here's just a few of the things he shared:
How to completely shut off the “inner voices” that talk you in failing
when approaching a new woman
A way to eliminate the deadly “mind virus” of comparing yourself to
others and start living for YOU
A hilarious way to turn things around when a woman comments on
another man's looks (You'll be encouraging her to look at other men
when you learn this!)
What to do when you even THINK another man might try to steal your
woman in a nightclub
A lesson from martial artists that will make you literally immune to
rejection, and enable you to get enormous amounts of new knowledge
from every failure you make
How to break the ugly curse of “victim mentality” and remove the stress
from your life that is preventing you from having success with women
The secrets my friend used to SMASH THROUGH his inner B.S. and lose over
125 lbs... that you can use to conquer any obstacle that is standing
between you and the women you want
The real reason why a woman doesn't return your phone calls (It's a
simple “fix” when you know the secret)
Do you ever get nervous when it's time to dance with a woman? Here's
a great “escape” that works every time… and… keeps YOU looking good
in her eyes
How to get over any “big fear” you may have (Such as public speaking,
karaoke, or not being able to dance)… even those you never thought you
would be able to eliminate
How to reprogram your subconscious so you feel you DESERVE to be with
an attractive women (If you don't do this you'll subconsciously give her
the upper hand in your relationship)
The FAST WAY to really let go of your past and give yourself a clean slate
on life (Real advice from someone who's done it)
As you can see... this program is a powerhouse of priceless knowledge. I
can't tell you how excited I am to bring this cutting-edge technology to
you.
It is important to note that this program is NOT “therapy”.
It's also NOT one of those “motivational” programs designed to “pump
you up”…
While I AM a fan of those types of programs… I've found that most
don't produce permanent, lasting change.
Most importantly… no other self-help program on the market addresses
the specific “inner game” issues that are keeping you from becoming
successful with women.
This program is an actual SCIENTIFIC METHOD for pinpointing and
eliminating the things that are holding you back from success… and
unleashing the powerful, attractive man that is hidden inside of you.
If you're struggling with some issues that are holding you back from
success with women, this program will show you how to completely
banish them from your system FOR GOOD… and you will start to see results
the same day you go through it.
Every psychological problem has a solution, and you'll be able to solve
yours with the tools in this program.
If you're already on the path to success and you just need a little
boost… this program will blast you up to a level you may have not even
considered was possible… by quickly helping you transform yourself into
the type of powerful, confident man that women can't help but notice.
But don't get me wrong… this program is NOT for everybody...
How Can You Know If
This Program Is For You?
If you have the type of women that are “your type” chasing you
around and becoming addicted to you, you might not need it.
If you don't have any anxiety, lack of self-esteem, or fear of women…
and you never hit a dry spell, it might not be for you.
If you don't have any problems when you are “in the moment”… and
you always do the right thing when it counts (especially with the women
you are REALLY interested in), you probably don't need it.
On the other hand, there are certain “chronic” problems men have that
don't EVER “just go away”…
Read through the list below… and if you find that you have
experienced ANY ONE of these problems, I highly recommend you grab this
program now.
However… if while reading through this list you realize that you have
experienced more than one of these “chronic diseases” that are almost
impossible to shake… you NEED to get this program immediately:
If you've ever been in a situation with a woman and known exactly
what to do … but in the moment, your emotions took over and you
screwed it up…
If you feel that if you run out of “lines” and “techniques” you'll have no
way to attract a woman…
If you thought being with a woman was the answer to your problems,
but once you were with one you still had problems.
If you've ever felt that if you found a great woman all of your problems
would be solved… but secretly worry that those very same problems are
what is preventing you from finding a woman in the first place…
If you have ever learned an awesome “line” or “technique”… but for
some reason it didn't work for YOU.
If you want to turn your “hit and miss” success with women into
massive, CONSISTENT success.
If you feel like you are “almost there”… but you just can't get it
completely together…
If you've learned ideas and known they would work… but you couldn't
even TRY OUT what you learned because you were too afraid…
If you've tried Cocky and Funny, and you could FEEL that it worked for a
minute… but didn't know where to go from there… and you choked from
fear or nervousness.
If you know what to do with a woman… but you always screw it up “in
the moment” because of fear, nerves, etc.
If you've ever been able to attract a woman initially with techniques…
but she eventually lost interest… and you didn't know what to do to
keep her…
If you have ever felt like nothing you did would fix the problems you
have… because they're just bigger than anyone would think…
If you've ever felt like you couldn't share what's REALLY going, because
you were worried that anyone that you told might laugh at you…
Monday, October 11, 2010
Sunday, October 10, 2010
How To "Stop" A Woman On The Street
“An Open Letter To Every Man Who Has Ever Been Afraid
To Approach An
Attractive Woman…”
Dear Friend,
I would like to admit something to you.
And I do mean that I want to “admit” something…
because I kept this a secret for many years of my life… and I
couldn’t bring myself to admit it to ANYONE.
I have an automatic, deep, gut level FEAR of approaching
women.
This fear didn’t come from “rejection” from women.
It’s not because I approached a woman and had
something bad happen.
In fact, one of the reasons I found it so hard to admit this
problem to anyone was the simple fact that I COULDN’T
EXPLAIN IT.
I can remember a time in my life where I’d see a woman
that I wanted to meet… and it felt as if there was a foot-thick
wall of glass between me and her. It was as if there was a
PHYSICAL BARRIER preventing me from walking over and
talking to her.
At one point in my life, I started to wonder if I was
CRAZY.
I could be standing there, looking at the girl I wanted to
talk to… and be READY TO DO IT… but when I “started” to
move in that direction, I felt something stop me.
I guess it just seemed so DAMN STRANGE… I thought
other people would think that I was mentally disturbed if I
talked about it.
Who ever heard of someone feeling like something was
PHYSICALLY stopping them from simply walking up and
talking to another person?
Well, if you’re reading this right now, then I’m guessing
that you know EXACTLY what I’m talking about here.
And the REASON you know is because you have had a
SIMILAR experience.
At least there are TWO of us that are crazy. That’s
comforting, huh?
The “Moment Of Truth”
As you already know, I spent a few years of my life
REALLY educating myself… working on this problem… and
figuring out how to overcome it.
The more time I’ve spent working on this particular
“approaching women” problem, the more I’ve come to realize
an important insight:
This moment… the moment when you see a woman
that you’d like to meet… and you consider it… and then what
you do RIGHT THEN … is actually a “Moment Of Truth”.
It’s a Moment Of Truth in terms of WHO YOU ARE.
This moment tells a story.
It tells the story of how well you understand yourself…
how well you understand women… how well you
understand the “mating process”…
It also largely impacts and even DETERMINES THE
OUTCOMES of the potential relationship you’re going to have
with that woman.
So much is condensed into these very short moments in
your life. And so much is impacted by these moments.
If you really have this particular “moment” mastered, it
has a massive impact on your overall life.
Think for a minute… think about how your life would be
DIFFERENT if you were a MASTER of this moment…
How would you FEEL? What would be different about
your ability to control your emotions?
How would you ACT? What would be different about the
way you’d behave… and what would be different about how
other people PERCEIVED you?
How would your success with women be different? And
how would that affect other areas of your life?
The bottom line is that if you invest the time and effort
to master this “Moment Of Truth”, it will change your life. It
MUST change your life.
“The Most Dangerous Mistakes
Men Make When It Comes To
Approaching Women”
I have spent literally YEARS learning how to overcome
my own fear and shyness… and learning how to approach
women in different situation. I have also spent YEARS
teaching other men how to overcome THEIR fear and
shyness … and teaching them how to successful approach
women, start conversations, and create ATTRACTION with
women.
I would like to “boil down” the top mistakes that men
make when it comes to approaching women… and then I’d
like to teach you STEP BY STEP how to overcome ALL of these
mistakes … and create MASSIVE success for yourself with
women.
Here are the biggest mistakes when it comes to
approaching women:
MISTAKE #1: Not Knowing How To Deal
With Fear And Shyness
We are ALL afraid.
That’s right. ALL of us are afraid.
In life, we all have fears… and it’s up to each of us as
individuals to either choose to overcome those fears… or
choose to let those fears run our lives.
For most of us guys, we experience intense fear and
shyness when it comes to APPROACHING women that we
don ’t know.
Here’s the part that’s a “pain in the ass”: When you're
experiencing fear and shyness, it feels like you’re the ONLY
ONE IN THE WORLD who has EVER felt this way.
The feeling can be SO intense, that it seems IMPOSSIBLE
that anyone else could POSSIBLY have a “case” as bad as you.
Know what I mean?
I laugh when I think about it, actually.
I have spent many, many hours in situations… looking at
a woman that I’d like to approach… but just not being able to
do it.
Then, later… after it’s all over… I think BACK to the
situation… and shake my head because I just couldn’t figure
out how to overcome my own FEAR… and just TALK TO HER.
The desperation that resulted from these situations was
intense. It was embarrassing. It was DEMORALIZING. It sucked.
As a man, one of the worst feelings you can have is that
something is making you feel like LESS than a man. And this
was one of those situations for me.
I’m kind of hard-headed sometimes. Maybe I like
punishment more than others… or maybe I just like to beat
my head against the wall longer than most.
In any event… I didn’t give up.
Even though I was going through this experience over
and over… of seeing a woman I wanted to meet… feeling fear
and apprehension… not being able to get up the nerve to go
talk to her… then thinking about it for hours (or days) after it
happened… I just wouldn’t let go.
I became determined to “crack the code” on this one.
Well, one of the big “ah ha!” moments I had was the
SIMPLE act of learning that I WASN’T ALONE.
Just like it takes some “nerve” to approach a woman, it
ALSO takes nerve to ADMIT when you’re having challenges in
life.
And one of the things I learned about my “fear of
approaching women” was that instead of being “abnormal”, I
was actually TYPICAL.
Imagine that.
Here I was thinking that I was emotionally retarded…
and then I find out that MOST guys have this same issue… and
it's just as intense for THEM as it is FOR ME!
Misery loves company… as they say. I guess that just
LEARNING I wasn’t alone was enough to really encourage me.
But then I learned something even MORE important
while I was learning how to overcome my own fears: I
learned that MANY OTHER GUYS had figured out how to
OVERCOME this “fear and shyness issue”… which led me to my
next “ah ha!” moment:
If they can do it, then so can I.
And I’ll tell you something right now: SO CAN YOU. And if
you’re open-minded and willing to do a little work on your
part, then I’d like to show YOU how to do it…
MISTAKE #2: Expecting The Worst
I have spent a lot of years reading Psychology and “Self
Help” books… and listening to audio programs… and going to
seminars…
I’ve also spent a tremendous amount of time “testing
out” the ideas that I’ve learned in these various books and
programs.
As a result of all this “trying stuff out”, I’ve come to the
realization that EXPECTATIONS play a very important part in
RESULTS in life.
People who always expect bad things to happen… wind
up having a lot of bad things happen to them.
People who only expect good things… wind up having a
lot of good things happen.
Is this Voodoo? Am I talking about freaky New Age ideas
that have no basis in reality of any kind?
No.
I’ve never tried Voodoo, by the way… but if you have,
and it works, let me know. I’m always looking for new ideas
that WORK!
OK, back to the point…
I believe that the REASON why expectations are so
powerful has to do with the part of your mind that
psychologists refer to as the “unconscious mind”. Some call it
the “subconscious mind”.
This is the part of your mind that’s “always on”… but it’s
working “behind the scenes”.
Have you ever been walking along… or driving… and
you sensed danger out of the corner of your eye… and before
you knew it, you INSTANTLY responded to avoid the danger?
Things like this happen to us all the time… but we don’t
really THINK about what’s happening in moments like these.
The reality is that when we go through an experience
like this, there are “miracles” happening inside of us.
In an instant, before we have time to “think” about
what’s happening, our entire mind and body have “taken
over” and moved us out of the way of harm.
If you take just one aspect of one of these situations, the
PHYSICAL MOVEMENTS, and examine it… you’ll find that more
is going on than “meets the eye”.
In order for your mind to perceive the danger, realize
that it IS danger, figure out how to respond, then get the
body to actually MOVE in away that gets you out of the path
of danger … requires a MASSIVE amount of “computing
power”.
Fortunately for you, all of the “computations” are being
done outside of your “conscious” awareness.
But WHERE is it all being done? How is it that you
“know” what to do… and you even DO it… before you
“realize” what’s going on?
It’s all being done in this part of your mind that I’m
talking about. It’s all happening on the UNCONSCIOUS level.
Now, think about THIS for a minute:
Most men who have problems approaching women
have one peculiar thing in common: They are all EXPECTING
negative outcomes from the approach.
And they also have a SECOND thing in common: They
don’t CONSCIOUSLY REALIZE that all of their expectations are
negative.
If you take time to ask, or you stop to think about how
it happens for YOU, I think you’ll realize that when you think
about approaching a woman, your UNCONSCIOUS mind starts
to INSTANTLY think about all the NEGATIVE things that might
happen.
In fact, for most guys, this “negative expectation
program” literally TAKES OVER… and they CAN’T EVEN IMAGINE
a positive outcome.
This“negative expectation” thing is kind of a bitch, by
the way.
It’s painful… and it’s not easy to change…
UNLESS, that is… you know HOW.
You’ve learned one of the most important pieces of the
puzzle for changing: AWARENESS.
Now that you KNOW about it, you can start to AFFECT
IT…
Now you need to learn some specific techniques to
REVERSE this thinking… and begin to expect POSITIVE things to
happen when you approach women…
MISTAKE #3: Making The WRONG First Impression
Another important think I learned about approaching
women is actually something pretty OBVIOUS, when you
think about it:
Attractive women are “approached”… one way or
another… CONSTANTLY.
Women who are attractive are approached in a hundred
different ways every day.
Sometimes it’s a co-worker walking by her desk and
smiling “too many times” a day…
Sometimes it’s a guy holding a door open a little too
long, just hoping to start a conversation…
Sometimes it’s a random email from a guy she doesn’t
know telling her that he saw her picture online and thinks
she ’s beautiful…
Sometimes it’s a friend who keeps sharing his “feelings”
for her…
And the more she’s approached (both subtly and not so
subtly), the more she develops a powerful “radar system”
that alerts her to a man’s intentions.
Most men don’t realize that their lame attempts to get a
woman’s attention are HURTING them. They don’t realize that
the things they’re doing are actually giving her a NEGATIVE
impression… and making it so that it’s almost IMPOSSIBLE for
her to be attracted.
You’ve probably heard me say that “Women aren’t
attracted to Wussies!”.
It’s true, by the way.
Let me ask you a couple of questions:
1) How many chances do you get to make a first
impression on a woman?
2) What impression do most men give off when they
approach a woman?
Right, the WUSSY impression.
And women have such a finely-tuned “Wussy Radar”
system, that’s I’ve actually given it a NAME… I call it WUSS-
DAR.
If the impression you make on a woman is that you’re a
WUSSY, then it really doesn’t MATTER if you’ve learned to
overcome your fear of approaching her… because she’s not
going to feel any ATTRACTION for you ANYWAY.
You can train for ten years and become the fastest
runner in the world… but if you start off the race running in
the WRONG DIRECTION it’s going to be pretty hard to WIN.
So remember: When you approach a woman, make sure
the IMPRESSION she’s getting is one that triggers ATTRACTION.
There are a lot of specific ways to create this impression,
and I’ll tell you some of them right now…
BUT REMEMBER: DON’T GIVE HER THE IMPRESSION THAT
YOU’RE A WUSSY.
MISTAKE #4: Seeking Her Approval Or Acceptance
If I could go around the world, and take ALL of the
situations that happened today where a man approached a
woman that he was interested in dating … and then
summarize and “condense” them into ONE “scene”, it would
have an easy-to-recognize theme…
It would be a man who’s nervous and shy… who is
trying to FIRST get the woman to LIKE AND ACCEPT HIM.
For most guys, they have it in their mind that they need
to get what psychologists call “approval”.
They think that the most important thing is that she LIKE
him.
Here’s what it looks like to the woman…
It’s like a guy is walking up with a big sign on his
forehead that reads: “I want you to think that I’m a nice,
sweet, caring, considerate man… and I would do almost
anything to make you like and accept me”.
And guess what?
IT DOESN’T WORK.
It never works.
Well, let me correct myself…
You will never win the lottery.
You MIGHT actually win the lottery… but you probably
won’t.
And you MIGHT get a woman to feel attracted to her by
working to get her attention and approval…
But you probably won’t.
I think I’ve made my point.
Using the “kiss her ass and hope she likes me” strategy is
a loser. It does not trigger attraction. It never will.
Hugh Hefner and Brad Pitt will probably write to me to
disagree… and then I’ll stand corrected.
But for regular guys like you and me, it ain’t gonna
happen.
ATTRACTION is triggered by a TOTALLY DIFFERENT
message.
It’s created by a man who knows how to TRIGGER the
attraction when he approaches… not by the man who HOPES
it will happen if he’s a NICE, SWEET, WONDERFUL GUY.
In short, DON’T SEEK HER APPROVAL OR ACCEPTANCE.
She’ll smell the Inner Wuss coming out, and she’ll shut
you down faster than you can say “I touch myself”.
MISTAKE #5: Thinking You Need To Be
“Original And Creative”
Answer this question:
When you see an attractive woman that you’d like to
meet… and you start thinking about how to approach her and
start a conversation… what’s the FIRST thing you think of to
SAY to her?
As you know, it can be TORTURE to try to come up with
what to say.
This torture, of course, is SELF-INFLICTED.
And there’s a common “theme” at the root of this “self
torture”.
This theme is that when we see a woman that we’d like
to meet, we tend to think to ourselves, “I need to come up
with something ORIGINAL and CREATIVE to say to her”.
Why do we do this?
Because we DON’T want to come across as insincere… or
even CHEESY.
So we look at her… try to notice something about her…
maybe try to come up with some kind of original
compliment … or creative humor.
Here’s the problem:
That attractive woman has men looking at her ALL DAY…
EVERY DAY.
And they’re all thinking the SAME THING.
From HER perspective, every guy is walking up to her
and saying one of the SAME FEW THINGS.
The irony is that in our desire and attempt to be
ORIGINAL…we wind up saying essentially the SAME THING as
the last hundred guys…
And TO HER, it comes across in EXACTLY THE WRONG
WAY.
The“original, sincere, real” compliment we give her is
just like the last bazillion she got…
And you just become one more “link” in the “mental
sausage chain” in her mind.
Really.
So what’s the solution?
The solution is to LEARN what to say when you start a
conversation with women. Learn how the PROS do it… so you
can get an UNDERSTANDING of what actually WORKS.
Only after you’ve learned from several experts… and
then used their methods in the REAL WORLD… should you try
to be “creative and original”.
MISTAKE #6: Not Having An ARSENAL
Of Techniques “At The Ready”
You may have noticed that the mistakes I’ve been
talking about have little or nothing to do with “pick up lines”
and “techniques”.
Why is this?
It’s pretty simple, really…
If you have all these other issues handled, then good
“pick up lines” and other techniques are like GUNPOWDER.
They’re INCREDIBLY powerful.
If you DON’T have these other issues handled, the best
techniques in the world can’t help you.
So, STEP ONE is to get these other issues handled.
Step TWO is to then learn the very best opening lines
and other techniques… so you have “proven systems” for
approaching women and starting conversations in ANY
situation.
Until now, there’s been nowhere to go for the solutions
to ANY of these problems.
Now there’s a place where you can learn to overcome
and CONQUER all of these different problems… PLUS get an
intensive training on all of the best step-by-step techniques
and “pick up lines” for every possible situation…
Now YOU Can Learn To
Approach A Woman In Any Situation…
And Never Worry About
“What COULD Have Been…”
Ever Again…
If you’re ready to finally kiss your fears of walking up to
women goodbye---and give yourself the priceless skill of
being able to approach any woman in any situation… spark
her attraction for you INSTANTLY… and leave with her
wanting you… I have some exciting news for you…
I’ve spent the last few months putting together a brand
new, one-of-a-kind program on “Approaching Women And
Starting Conversations”… and it’s finally ready to rock.
This program is NOT designed to simply educate you on
the ins and outs of approaching women… and it’s NOT just
going to give you a few great lines and techniques…
What this program IS designed to do is completely
IMPLANT the skill of approaching women into your game,
brain, and personality… and make it a PERMANENT part of
you.
We start with the INNER game…
In the beginning, I’ll show you WHY men have such a
hard time approaching women… why your adrenaline starts
pumping when you see an attractive women you want to
meet … why your brain is trained to create excuses NOT to
approach… and why you can’t ever think of the right thing to
say “when it counts”…
We’ll tackle each one of these problems HEAD ON… and
permanently eliminate each one of them from your system…
one by one.
From there… we move on to the TACTICS…
Did you know that one simple change to the angle of
your body when you approach a woman will TRIPLE the
chances of her giving you a chance?
You’ll learn this in the program (in only 30 seconds, in
fact…) along with DOZENS of other little tricks that---when
applied---practically FORCE a woman to respond positively to
you …
I’ll also show you how to stand out from every other
man that has ever walked up to her… even if you DON’T have
something “original” to say… and how to read a woman’s
signals FAST so you know when she WANTS you to
approach … the exact time when you SHOULD approach… and
when you shouldn’t waste your time.
And that’s just the beginning…
From there… we move on to the WORDS.
In this program you’re going to learn literally hundreds
of KILLER, word-for-word opening lines to start conversations
with women …
You’ll learn ways to approach women in EVERY
situation… from the bar to the beach to the bank… and of
course… easy ways to approach bartenders, cashiers,
waitresses, exotic dancers… woman who are “on the job”,
and women who are on the go and wouldn’t usually stop to
talk to ANYBODY.
I’m also going to share with you some of my “universal”
lines that work in practically ANY situation. I’m talking about
my “secret weapons” that I’ve never shared anywhere else…
for a selfish reason:
They are just TOO GOOD… and I wanted to keep them for
myself!
But what the heck… I’m going to share them with you
here (so long as you promise not to use them in or around the
city of Los Angeles … I’m only half joking here!)
I’m also going to show you what to say NEXT.
The approach is only the beginning… and it’s important
that you know how to transistion into an interesting
conversation smoothly … have a woman EXCITED about giving
you her primary phone number and email address… or get
her to drop whatever she’s doing to hang out with you right
then and there.
To Approach An
Attractive Woman…”
Dear Friend,
I would like to admit something to you.
And I do mean that I want to “admit” something…
because I kept this a secret for many years of my life… and I
couldn’t bring myself to admit it to ANYONE.
I have an automatic, deep, gut level FEAR of approaching
women.
This fear didn’t come from “rejection” from women.
It’s not because I approached a woman and had
something bad happen.
In fact, one of the reasons I found it so hard to admit this
problem to anyone was the simple fact that I COULDN’T
EXPLAIN IT.
I can remember a time in my life where I’d see a woman
that I wanted to meet… and it felt as if there was a foot-thick
wall of glass between me and her. It was as if there was a
PHYSICAL BARRIER preventing me from walking over and
talking to her.
At one point in my life, I started to wonder if I was
CRAZY.
I could be standing there, looking at the girl I wanted to
talk to… and be READY TO DO IT… but when I “started” to
move in that direction, I felt something stop me.
I guess it just seemed so DAMN STRANGE… I thought
other people would think that I was mentally disturbed if I
talked about it.
Who ever heard of someone feeling like something was
PHYSICALLY stopping them from simply walking up and
talking to another person?
Well, if you’re reading this right now, then I’m guessing
that you know EXACTLY what I’m talking about here.
And the REASON you know is because you have had a
SIMILAR experience.
At least there are TWO of us that are crazy. That’s
comforting, huh?
The “Moment Of Truth”
As you already know, I spent a few years of my life
REALLY educating myself… working on this problem… and
figuring out how to overcome it.
The more time I’ve spent working on this particular
“approaching women” problem, the more I’ve come to realize
an important insight:
This moment… the moment when you see a woman
that you’d like to meet… and you consider it… and then what
you do RIGHT THEN … is actually a “Moment Of Truth”.
It’s a Moment Of Truth in terms of WHO YOU ARE.
This moment tells a story.
It tells the story of how well you understand yourself…
how well you understand women… how well you
understand the “mating process”…
It also largely impacts and even DETERMINES THE
OUTCOMES of the potential relationship you’re going to have
with that woman.
So much is condensed into these very short moments in
your life. And so much is impacted by these moments.
If you really have this particular “moment” mastered, it
has a massive impact on your overall life.
Think for a minute… think about how your life would be
DIFFERENT if you were a MASTER of this moment…
How would you FEEL? What would be different about
your ability to control your emotions?
How would you ACT? What would be different about the
way you’d behave… and what would be different about how
other people PERCEIVED you?
How would your success with women be different? And
how would that affect other areas of your life?
The bottom line is that if you invest the time and effort
to master this “Moment Of Truth”, it will change your life. It
MUST change your life.
“The Most Dangerous Mistakes
Men Make When It Comes To
Approaching Women”
I have spent literally YEARS learning how to overcome
my own fear and shyness… and learning how to approach
women in different situation. I have also spent YEARS
teaching other men how to overcome THEIR fear and
shyness … and teaching them how to successful approach
women, start conversations, and create ATTRACTION with
women.
I would like to “boil down” the top mistakes that men
make when it comes to approaching women… and then I’d
like to teach you STEP BY STEP how to overcome ALL of these
mistakes … and create MASSIVE success for yourself with
women.
Here are the biggest mistakes when it comes to
approaching women:
MISTAKE #1: Not Knowing How To Deal
With Fear And Shyness
We are ALL afraid.
That’s right. ALL of us are afraid.
In life, we all have fears… and it’s up to each of us as
individuals to either choose to overcome those fears… or
choose to let those fears run our lives.
For most of us guys, we experience intense fear and
shyness when it comes to APPROACHING women that we
don ’t know.
Here’s the part that’s a “pain in the ass”: When you're
experiencing fear and shyness, it feels like you’re the ONLY
ONE IN THE WORLD who has EVER felt this way.
The feeling can be SO intense, that it seems IMPOSSIBLE
that anyone else could POSSIBLY have a “case” as bad as you.
Know what I mean?
I laugh when I think about it, actually.
I have spent many, many hours in situations… looking at
a woman that I’d like to approach… but just not being able to
do it.
Then, later… after it’s all over… I think BACK to the
situation… and shake my head because I just couldn’t figure
out how to overcome my own FEAR… and just TALK TO HER.
The desperation that resulted from these situations was
intense. It was embarrassing. It was DEMORALIZING. It sucked.
As a man, one of the worst feelings you can have is that
something is making you feel like LESS than a man. And this
was one of those situations for me.
I’m kind of hard-headed sometimes. Maybe I like
punishment more than others… or maybe I just like to beat
my head against the wall longer than most.
In any event… I didn’t give up.
Even though I was going through this experience over
and over… of seeing a woman I wanted to meet… feeling fear
and apprehension… not being able to get up the nerve to go
talk to her… then thinking about it for hours (or days) after it
happened… I just wouldn’t let go.
I became determined to “crack the code” on this one.
Well, one of the big “ah ha!” moments I had was the
SIMPLE act of learning that I WASN’T ALONE.
Just like it takes some “nerve” to approach a woman, it
ALSO takes nerve to ADMIT when you’re having challenges in
life.
And one of the things I learned about my “fear of
approaching women” was that instead of being “abnormal”, I
was actually TYPICAL.
Imagine that.
Here I was thinking that I was emotionally retarded…
and then I find out that MOST guys have this same issue… and
it's just as intense for THEM as it is FOR ME!
Misery loves company… as they say. I guess that just
LEARNING I wasn’t alone was enough to really encourage me.
But then I learned something even MORE important
while I was learning how to overcome my own fears: I
learned that MANY OTHER GUYS had figured out how to
OVERCOME this “fear and shyness issue”… which led me to my
next “ah ha!” moment:
If they can do it, then so can I.
And I’ll tell you something right now: SO CAN YOU. And if
you’re open-minded and willing to do a little work on your
part, then I’d like to show YOU how to do it…
MISTAKE #2: Expecting The Worst
I have spent a lot of years reading Psychology and “Self
Help” books… and listening to audio programs… and going to
seminars…
I’ve also spent a tremendous amount of time “testing
out” the ideas that I’ve learned in these various books and
programs.
As a result of all this “trying stuff out”, I’ve come to the
realization that EXPECTATIONS play a very important part in
RESULTS in life.
People who always expect bad things to happen… wind
up having a lot of bad things happen to them.
People who only expect good things… wind up having a
lot of good things happen.
Is this Voodoo? Am I talking about freaky New Age ideas
that have no basis in reality of any kind?
No.
I’ve never tried Voodoo, by the way… but if you have,
and it works, let me know. I’m always looking for new ideas
that WORK!
OK, back to the point…
I believe that the REASON why expectations are so
powerful has to do with the part of your mind that
psychologists refer to as the “unconscious mind”. Some call it
the “subconscious mind”.
This is the part of your mind that’s “always on”… but it’s
working “behind the scenes”.
Have you ever been walking along… or driving… and
you sensed danger out of the corner of your eye… and before
you knew it, you INSTANTLY responded to avoid the danger?
Things like this happen to us all the time… but we don’t
really THINK about what’s happening in moments like these.
The reality is that when we go through an experience
like this, there are “miracles” happening inside of us.
In an instant, before we have time to “think” about
what’s happening, our entire mind and body have “taken
over” and moved us out of the way of harm.
If you take just one aspect of one of these situations, the
PHYSICAL MOVEMENTS, and examine it… you’ll find that more
is going on than “meets the eye”.
In order for your mind to perceive the danger, realize
that it IS danger, figure out how to respond, then get the
body to actually MOVE in away that gets you out of the path
of danger … requires a MASSIVE amount of “computing
power”.
Fortunately for you, all of the “computations” are being
done outside of your “conscious” awareness.
But WHERE is it all being done? How is it that you
“know” what to do… and you even DO it… before you
“realize” what’s going on?
It’s all being done in this part of your mind that I’m
talking about. It’s all happening on the UNCONSCIOUS level.
Now, think about THIS for a minute:
Most men who have problems approaching women
have one peculiar thing in common: They are all EXPECTING
negative outcomes from the approach.
And they also have a SECOND thing in common: They
don’t CONSCIOUSLY REALIZE that all of their expectations are
negative.
If you take time to ask, or you stop to think about how
it happens for YOU, I think you’ll realize that when you think
about approaching a woman, your UNCONSCIOUS mind starts
to INSTANTLY think about all the NEGATIVE things that might
happen.
In fact, for most guys, this “negative expectation
program” literally TAKES OVER… and they CAN’T EVEN IMAGINE
a positive outcome.
This“negative expectation” thing is kind of a bitch, by
the way.
It’s painful… and it’s not easy to change…
UNLESS, that is… you know HOW.
You’ve learned one of the most important pieces of the
puzzle for changing: AWARENESS.
Now that you KNOW about it, you can start to AFFECT
IT…
Now you need to learn some specific techniques to
REVERSE this thinking… and begin to expect POSITIVE things to
happen when you approach women…
MISTAKE #3: Making The WRONG First Impression
Another important think I learned about approaching
women is actually something pretty OBVIOUS, when you
think about it:
Attractive women are “approached”… one way or
another… CONSTANTLY.
Women who are attractive are approached in a hundred
different ways every day.
Sometimes it’s a co-worker walking by her desk and
smiling “too many times” a day…
Sometimes it’s a guy holding a door open a little too
long, just hoping to start a conversation…
Sometimes it’s a random email from a guy she doesn’t
know telling her that he saw her picture online and thinks
she ’s beautiful…
Sometimes it’s a friend who keeps sharing his “feelings”
for her…
And the more she’s approached (both subtly and not so
subtly), the more she develops a powerful “radar system”
that alerts her to a man’s intentions.
Most men don’t realize that their lame attempts to get a
woman’s attention are HURTING them. They don’t realize that
the things they’re doing are actually giving her a NEGATIVE
impression… and making it so that it’s almost IMPOSSIBLE for
her to be attracted.
You’ve probably heard me say that “Women aren’t
attracted to Wussies!”.
It’s true, by the way.
Let me ask you a couple of questions:
1) How many chances do you get to make a first
impression on a woman?
2) What impression do most men give off when they
approach a woman?
Right, the WUSSY impression.
And women have such a finely-tuned “Wussy Radar”
system, that’s I’ve actually given it a NAME… I call it WUSS-
DAR.
If the impression you make on a woman is that you’re a
WUSSY, then it really doesn’t MATTER if you’ve learned to
overcome your fear of approaching her… because she’s not
going to feel any ATTRACTION for you ANYWAY.
You can train for ten years and become the fastest
runner in the world… but if you start off the race running in
the WRONG DIRECTION it’s going to be pretty hard to WIN.
So remember: When you approach a woman, make sure
the IMPRESSION she’s getting is one that triggers ATTRACTION.
There are a lot of specific ways to create this impression,
and I’ll tell you some of them right now…
BUT REMEMBER: DON’T GIVE HER THE IMPRESSION THAT
YOU’RE A WUSSY.
MISTAKE #4: Seeking Her Approval Or Acceptance
If I could go around the world, and take ALL of the
situations that happened today where a man approached a
woman that he was interested in dating … and then
summarize and “condense” them into ONE “scene”, it would
have an easy-to-recognize theme…
It would be a man who’s nervous and shy… who is
trying to FIRST get the woman to LIKE AND ACCEPT HIM.
For most guys, they have it in their mind that they need
to get what psychologists call “approval”.
They think that the most important thing is that she LIKE
him.
Here’s what it looks like to the woman…
It’s like a guy is walking up with a big sign on his
forehead that reads: “I want you to think that I’m a nice,
sweet, caring, considerate man… and I would do almost
anything to make you like and accept me”.
And guess what?
IT DOESN’T WORK.
It never works.
Well, let me correct myself…
You will never win the lottery.
You MIGHT actually win the lottery… but you probably
won’t.
And you MIGHT get a woman to feel attracted to her by
working to get her attention and approval…
But you probably won’t.
I think I’ve made my point.
Using the “kiss her ass and hope she likes me” strategy is
a loser. It does not trigger attraction. It never will.
Hugh Hefner and Brad Pitt will probably write to me to
disagree… and then I’ll stand corrected.
But for regular guys like you and me, it ain’t gonna
happen.
ATTRACTION is triggered by a TOTALLY DIFFERENT
message.
It’s created by a man who knows how to TRIGGER the
attraction when he approaches… not by the man who HOPES
it will happen if he’s a NICE, SWEET, WONDERFUL GUY.
In short, DON’T SEEK HER APPROVAL OR ACCEPTANCE.
She’ll smell the Inner Wuss coming out, and she’ll shut
you down faster than you can say “I touch myself”.
MISTAKE #5: Thinking You Need To Be
“Original And Creative”
Answer this question:
When you see an attractive woman that you’d like to
meet… and you start thinking about how to approach her and
start a conversation… what’s the FIRST thing you think of to
SAY to her?
As you know, it can be TORTURE to try to come up with
what to say.
This torture, of course, is SELF-INFLICTED.
And there’s a common “theme” at the root of this “self
torture”.
This theme is that when we see a woman that we’d like
to meet, we tend to think to ourselves, “I need to come up
with something ORIGINAL and CREATIVE to say to her”.
Why do we do this?
Because we DON’T want to come across as insincere… or
even CHEESY.
So we look at her… try to notice something about her…
maybe try to come up with some kind of original
compliment … or creative humor.
Here’s the problem:
That attractive woman has men looking at her ALL DAY…
EVERY DAY.
And they’re all thinking the SAME THING.
From HER perspective, every guy is walking up to her
and saying one of the SAME FEW THINGS.
The irony is that in our desire and attempt to be
ORIGINAL…we wind up saying essentially the SAME THING as
the last hundred guys…
And TO HER, it comes across in EXACTLY THE WRONG
WAY.
The“original, sincere, real” compliment we give her is
just like the last bazillion she got…
And you just become one more “link” in the “mental
sausage chain” in her mind.
Really.
So what’s the solution?
The solution is to LEARN what to say when you start a
conversation with women. Learn how the PROS do it… so you
can get an UNDERSTANDING of what actually WORKS.
Only after you’ve learned from several experts… and
then used their methods in the REAL WORLD… should you try
to be “creative and original”.
MISTAKE #6: Not Having An ARSENAL
Of Techniques “At The Ready”
You may have noticed that the mistakes I’ve been
talking about have little or nothing to do with “pick up lines”
and “techniques”.
Why is this?
It’s pretty simple, really…
If you have all these other issues handled, then good
“pick up lines” and other techniques are like GUNPOWDER.
They’re INCREDIBLY powerful.
If you DON’T have these other issues handled, the best
techniques in the world can’t help you.
So, STEP ONE is to get these other issues handled.
Step TWO is to then learn the very best opening lines
and other techniques… so you have “proven systems” for
approaching women and starting conversations in ANY
situation.
Until now, there’s been nowhere to go for the solutions
to ANY of these problems.
Now there’s a place where you can learn to overcome
and CONQUER all of these different problems… PLUS get an
intensive training on all of the best step-by-step techniques
and “pick up lines” for every possible situation…
Now YOU Can Learn To
Approach A Woman In Any Situation…
And Never Worry About
“What COULD Have Been…”
Ever Again…
If you’re ready to finally kiss your fears of walking up to
women goodbye---and give yourself the priceless skill of
being able to approach any woman in any situation… spark
her attraction for you INSTANTLY… and leave with her
wanting you… I have some exciting news for you…
I’ve spent the last few months putting together a brand
new, one-of-a-kind program on “Approaching Women And
Starting Conversations”… and it’s finally ready to rock.
This program is NOT designed to simply educate you on
the ins and outs of approaching women… and it’s NOT just
going to give you a few great lines and techniques…
What this program IS designed to do is completely
IMPLANT the skill of approaching women into your game,
brain, and personality… and make it a PERMANENT part of
you.
We start with the INNER game…
In the beginning, I’ll show you WHY men have such a
hard time approaching women… why your adrenaline starts
pumping when you see an attractive women you want to
meet … why your brain is trained to create excuses NOT to
approach… and why you can’t ever think of the right thing to
say “when it counts”…
We’ll tackle each one of these problems HEAD ON… and
permanently eliminate each one of them from your system…
one by one.
From there… we move on to the TACTICS…
Did you know that one simple change to the angle of
your body when you approach a woman will TRIPLE the
chances of her giving you a chance?
You’ll learn this in the program (in only 30 seconds, in
fact…) along with DOZENS of other little tricks that---when
applied---practically FORCE a woman to respond positively to
you …
I’ll also show you how to stand out from every other
man that has ever walked up to her… even if you DON’T have
something “original” to say… and how to read a woman’s
signals FAST so you know when she WANTS you to
approach … the exact time when you SHOULD approach… and
when you shouldn’t waste your time.
And that’s just the beginning…
From there… we move on to the WORDS.
In this program you’re going to learn literally hundreds
of KILLER, word-for-word opening lines to start conversations
with women …
You’ll learn ways to approach women in EVERY
situation… from the bar to the beach to the bank… and of
course… easy ways to approach bartenders, cashiers,
waitresses, exotic dancers… woman who are “on the job”,
and women who are on the go and wouldn’t usually stop to
talk to ANYBODY.
I’m also going to share with you some of my “universal”
lines that work in practically ANY situation. I’m talking about
my “secret weapons” that I’ve never shared anywhere else…
for a selfish reason:
They are just TOO GOOD… and I wanted to keep them for
myself!
But what the heck… I’m going to share them with you
here (so long as you promise not to use them in or around the
city of Los Angeles … I’m only half joking here!)
I’m also going to show you what to say NEXT.
The approach is only the beginning… and it’s important
that you know how to transistion into an interesting
conversation smoothly … have a woman EXCITED about giving
you her primary phone number and email address… or get
her to drop whatever she’s doing to hang out with you right
then and there.
3 Secrets Of Meeting Women Online
“Why Most Men FAIL With Online Dating... And What To Do
About It...”
Dear Friend,
Most guys who try online dating FAIL miserably.
Online dating SEEMS like a great idea… doesn't it?
You sit down at your computer, logon to the online
dating website, and start emailing all kinds of hot babes…
with no fear of “rejection” or confrontation. And then they
email you back, get to know “the real you”, build a
relationship in a friendly, low-key way, and eventually go
out on a date…
Wouldn't it be GREAT if that was how it actually
worked?
Well, if you've actually TRIED online dating, then you
KNOW it's not like that AT ALL.
In fact, if you've tried it out, then you know that it can
actually be MORE challenging than meeting women in the
“real world”.
Why is this?
Well, for starters, it's this way because almost EVERY GUY
is thinking this same “ideal fantasy” about online dating. And
the online dating companies aren't exactly “downplaying”
how difficult it is to REALLY meet women online.
But there's another reason… a more IMPORTANT reason…
Let me ask you something…
Have you ever been to an “average” bar or nightclub?
You know the kind I'm talking about. It's just OK… the booze
is cheap, the music is predictable, and the people are all
pretty boring.
But at every one of those places, there's always a HOT
girl or two. She's the one that everyone is looking at… and
the one that all the guys want to talk to…
And guess what? All the guys ARE talking to her.
To the point where she is both enjoying the attention a
little… AND also getting annoyed at them… because they're
so THE SAME.
So with this in mind, guess what it's like to be an
attractive woman with an ad on an online dating website?
Right. It's TEN TIMES worse.
It's common for a woman to get fifty or even a
HUNDRED responses from men in a SINGLE DAY.
And just like the hot woman in the bar, the attractive
woman with the online profile is experiencing one
predictable, boring, lame introduction after another…
“Hi, you're really beautiful. How about I take you out to
your favorite restaurant, then to a movie. I'd like to get to
know you better…”
“I realize that I'm probably not your type, but I thought
I'd try anyway. If you'd give me a chance, I'd show you that
I'm the nicest guy you could ever want…”
“Hello, read my profile and let me know if you're
interested…”
Microsoft should build a feature into Windows that
actually reaches out and BITCH SLAPS any man that types
these words in response to a woman's online dating profile.
Anyway, you get the point.
Attractive women are SMOTHERED by responses from
boring, predictable, lame guys who communicate low self-
esteem and approval seeking indicators. It's sad.
It Doesn't Have To Be This Way!
All that said, I have been able to meet MANY attractive
women online. In fact, as I write this, I met my last two long-
term girlfriends online.
I've met and dated models, actresses, dancers… artists…
intellectual women… and everything in between…
consistently and successfully… all online.
I taught myself to TYPE by chatting with women online.
And I perfected my “Cocky & Funny” technique talking to
women… you guessed it… online.
The question is:
Why is it that I have been able to have consistent
success with online dating, while most guys spend hours and
hours trying to find “the key”, only to fail?
That's what I'd like to share with you…
How I Developed A SYSTEM That Got Me One Date After
Another With Interesting, Attractive, Intelligent Women…
I can remember when I first decided to get this part of
my life called “women and dating” handled…
I have to admit something to you. I never even
CONSIDERED online dating as a “real” way to meet women.
One day, a new friend of mine was telling me about his
“system” for meeting women on the internet. He wanted me
to come over to his house, so he could show me.
Well, when I got there, and he started showing me his
“system”, I was BLOWN AWAY. It was one of the most
ingenious things I'd ever seen. It was like a MACHINE.
He showed me how he looked at different types of
profiles, how he selected women, how he started
conversations with them… and how he tracked and recorded
his conversations with them. I felt like I was sitting in the
presence of a genius… and I was.
But the REAL miracle of his system wasn't the
“machine”… it was the WOMEN HE WAS DATING.
He showed me pictures of BEAUTIFUL women he had
met online and dated… he told me the stories (and even
showed me the actual conversations!) of meeting them…
Wow.
I now had the evidence I needed that online dating
COULD work… and expanding on what he taught me, I went
to work to create success for MYSELF.
I made many discoveries over the next several months.
I learned how to chat with women online, and TAKE
ADVANTAGE of the fact that online conversations are about
one TENTH the speed of normal conversations.
I paid careful attention to the different types of
communication that men and women use online… and I
developed systematic approaches to starting conversations,
creating attraction, getting phone numbers… and even
getting dates RIGHT ON THE COMPUTER.
A new world was open to me, and I took advantage of
it.
I learned a couple of very important concepts while I
was developing my system…
If you want to be successful meeting women online, you
need to understand two KEY things:
1. You must not do what every other guy is doing
2. You must find a system that works, and STICK WITH IT
Just like the “real world”, there are common, predictable
PATTERNS of behavior that happen consistently.
If you're an attractive woman who has a profile online,
the responses you're getting from men are PAINFULLY
predictable.
HINT: If you'd like to give yourself a GREAT education
that costs NOTHING, then get one of your attractive female
friends to put up a “free trial” online dating profile, and then
look at the responses she gets during the FIRST DAY or two.
You'll be floored at how LAME the introductions are.
You'll laugh… you'll shake your head… you'll actually get
MORE CONFIDENCE as well. Trust me, it's a great “science
experiment”, and every guy should do it.
One of the most IMPORTANT things for you to notice as
you're reading through the responses and introductions that
guys send in… is how THE SAME they are.
Take note, and DON'T DO what all those guys are doing!
After you've learned what NOT to do, it's time to
develop a SYSTEM that works predictably and consistently…
One of the MAJOR mistakes that men make meeting
women in the “real world” is something that I like to call the
“Originality Paradox”. Basically, men try to be “original”
when they approach women… they want to say something
“unique and special”. Well, the problem is that most guys
STILL say the SAME THINGS!
While we're trying to be “original”, we don't stop to
think about the fact that all the other guys who tried to be
original earlier that day probably said the SAME THINGS. Duh.
As it turns out, saying a “canned line” to a woman on the
street will often work better than something “unique and
original”.
Online it's the same way… only MORE so
So many guys are contacting the attractive women…
with the SAME INTRODUCTIONS… that you must do something
DIFFERENT.
And, fortunately, doing something that's “canned”
usually works MUCH better than writing something “unique
and different and special”.
The 4 Keys To “Automating”
The Process Of Online Dating... And
Meeting More Women Every Single Month Than Most Men
Meet All Year...
Wouldn't it be nice to know that anytime you felt like it,
you could simply jump online and score yourself a date with
an interesting, attractive woman... with almost ZERO effort on
your part?
Well... let me tell ya... when you have your system in
place, it really is just that easy.
The only real “work” involved is developing the system
itself.
And as you probably know if you have ever joined a
dating site in the past... it's not an easy task.
Starting from scratch, it can take YEARS of trial and error,
and a little luck... and that's if you ever figure it out...
But fortunately... this doesn't have to be the case for
YOU.
I want to give you the details of my “paint by the
numbers” system to easily and methodically meet one hot
woman after another on any dating site, social network, or
chat group... regardless of whether or not you are good
looking or photogenic... and even if you flunked English class.
The skills required can be broken down into 4 basic
categories. Mastery of just one of these categories will give
you a distinct advantage over the other men who are trying
to meet women online... but only when you master all 4
does the REAL magic begin to happen...
Upon learning the skills I'm about to share with you, you
will have the ability to go onto any dating site, social
network, or anywhere else... and essentially cast a “magic
net” that pulls every attractive woman that signs up
DIRECTLY TO YOU.
Here's how they break down:
1. How To Craft Killer Emails That FORCE A Woman
To Read Them And Respond
As you now know... attractive women who post profiles
on dating sites get DOZENS... even HUNDREDS of emails every
day.
Even a woman who doesn't post her photo will typically
get TEN or more...
The bottom line is that you need to do THREE things to
have chance with her:
Strike Fast - With so many emails coming in every day,
attractive women get overwhelmed FAST... often “giving up”
on the whole thing because it is so time consuming to weed
through them all. Eventually they either delete their profiles,
or simply forget about it altogether.
What does this mean to you?
You must STRIKE FAST—and preferably FIRST—in order
to get an attractive woman to respond.
Fortunately, it's EASY when you know how...
Stand Out - Have I mentioned that attractive women—
and even unattractive women— get A LOT of emails from
men?
If you don't stand out in a BIG way, you'll be lucky if
your email even gets opened... let alone replied to.
Think about it: If you received 100 emails tomorrow...
and you were pretty damn sure that 99% of them said
exactly the same thing... how many of them would YOU
open? You'd probably go through 5-10... hoping for
something that caught your attention.. and then give up. This
is what attractive women do as well.
But if one email has a subject line that JUMPS OUT at
her... you better believe she is readying that one first...
MOVE HER To Respond - As you know... in the “real
world”, simply asking a woman if you are “her type” is NOT
going to get her to “like you”.
Nor is telling her that you think the two of you would
be good together.
You need to spark ATTRACTION... and make her WANT IT.
The same holds true for online dating... TIMES TEN.
Simply asking a woman to “check out your profile” is not
going to get her to write you back...
Nor is telling her that you think the two of you have
something in common, or that you would be a good match.
Just like the “real world”... you need to generate
emotion. You need to MOVE HER to respond.
The good news is that doing this online is actually
EASIER than in “real life”.
You can choose your words carefully... and don't have to
worry about “stumbling” or freezing up.
It's as simple as taking a proven formula and
customizing it to fit and attract the woman you want... and in
a moment, I'll show you how to do just that...
2. How To Design Your Profile To MAGNETICALLY
Attract The Type And Quality Of Women You Want
So now that you've caught her attention with your
email, the very FIRST thing she is going to do is check out
your profile.
And guess what?
If your profile sucks... your great email just became
WORTHLESS.
On the other hand... a strong profile will not only get a
woman to write you back... it will also get a woman to write
you FIRST.
A great profile is a PRICELESS ASSET.
Think of it like owning a vending machine...
You can simply place your machine in an area where
people want snacks... and it will sit there and MAKE YOU
MONEY, 24/7.
A great profile works the same way...
Put it in a place where women want dates (like ANY or
even ALL of the dating sites)... and it will sit there and GET
YOU WOMEN... 24/7!
Do you see what I'm getting at here?
And here's the best part...
Unlike a vending machine that has competition from
convenience stores and other machines around it... when you
use the secrets I'm going to share with you, your profile will
be the VERY BEST on the block.
Think of it like being the only guy in your high school
who drove a FERRARI...
That's right my friend...
ALL the ladies are coming to you!
With so many clueless men out there, it really is that
simple. I'm going to show you how to put your profile on
STEROIDS... everything from proven sequences of photos that
spark interest and curiosity... to the hidden psychological
triggers that make a woman feel like she would be CRAZY not
to email you, or to respond to one of yours.
3. “Legal Hacks” That Work On Any Dating Site To
Stack The Odds UNFAIRLY In Your Favor...
Ah yes... one of my personal favorites...
There are many, many little tricks you can use to “rig the
system” on a dating site... and 99.9% of men have NO IDEA
that they even exist...
For example, there is a free and easy way to get your
profile to THE VERY TOP of the search results... putting you in
front of the eyes of the most women possible... which, of
course... gets YOU more emails than anyone else...
There are also ways to track down those ULTRA HOT
women that you just don't see when you are out on the
town... and lots of them at that...
And that's just the beginning...
As you can imagine, not all gorgeous women join dating
sites... BUT... there ARE several other “secret spots” on the
web that many do frequent. Do you know what they are...
and how to use them to meet women like crazy? Guess
what... 99.9% of men DON'T EITHER... but you're about to find
out (Of course... the very best part about these untapped
goldmines is that there is ZERO competition...)
Can you say “easy money”?
4. How To Turn Responses Into Phone Numbers,
Phone Numbers Into Dates, And Dates Into
Intimate Relationships... And Develop Your Own
“Perpetual Dating Machine” That Lands You One
Woman After Another... With Surprisingly Little
Work On Your Part...
It never surprised me that many of my friends who
were the BEST at meeting women in “the real world” seemed
to have NO LUCK with meeting women online... and quickly
gave up.
The fact is that if you don't know what you're doing...
meeting women online is a BITCH.
Forget about all of the 1000 other guys competing for
the woman you want... and the fact that you can't use all of
the same weapons that you have in real life to distinguish
yourself and create attraction...
Even when you DO finally get a woman's attention and
get her interested in you... getting her to actually meet up
with you and making something happen is an entirely
different story...
The reason is that online dating is DIFFERENT.
It requires an entirely different set of skills than meeting
women in more traditional ways.
You have to go about getting phone numbers
differently... and when you're on the phone with a woman
you've met online, you have to handle the conversation
differently than you normally would if you want to get her
to actually meet up with you...
And even when you do end up getting together, it's a
very different ballgame.
Expectations are high, and barriers are even higher.
Most men are far too lazy to put in the time to learn the
differences and make things work for them... and I don't
blame them... it's not easy.
But the guys I do know that eventually figured this stuff
out—myself included—have discovered something very
interesting...
We've discovered that meeting and dating a woman
from the online world is actually FAR EASIER than meeting a
woman the “regular way”... because everything is so
SYSTEMATIC.
Since you are meeting each woman in essentially the
same way... with the same variables and circumstances... it's
fairly simple to develop a successful “routine” that works
nearly every time.
For example, I have one very successful friend who has a
“standard email” he sends to get the conversation started...
then a follow-up email that gets a woman to send him her
phone number right away!
Since all of the women he talks to get basically the same
information about him before the phone call, he noticed that
many of them ask the same questions when he rings them
up...
Over time he figured out how to handle the first call in a
way that removes a woman's concerns and gets her EXCITED
about meeting up with him... and screens her to make sure
SHE is legit.
Because the phone conversation is very similar each
time... the actual meeting itself usually starts off the same
way...
My friend has figured out ways to lead the date in the
direction he wants to go... and get a woman turned on for
him FAST.
The fact is that once you have a “routine” like this down
for yourself, meeting women online becomes almost TOO
EASY.
It's plain to see why some of the guys I know that are
good at this are now too lazy to even leave the house to
meet women. I mean heck... unless they were looking for a
challenge, why would they?
And now... I want to show you how YOU can do the
same...
Your “Secret Weapon” For
Online Dating Success
Now for the REALLY good news...
I've just put the finishing touches on a revolutionary
new program designed to quickly teach any man how to use
the internet to successfully meet and date DOZENS of new,
attractive women each and every month.
This program is the very first of its kind... and I want you
to be one of the very FIRST to have it...
It's going to allow you to skip all of the hard work... and
show you how to create your own unique system for getting
responses from women, getting women to give your their
phone numbers quickly, handling that crucial first phone call
(including exactly what to say), great places to meet that
almost guarantee things go well... and proven ways to build
attraction with the women you meet FAST.
And that's just the start... it only gets BETTER from there...
Here are just a few of the other things you'll learn:
My secret method for tracking down and meeting those
very… VERY attractive women that you'd NEVER meet in
“the real world” (Yes… you CAN find them online… IF you
know where to look!)
A special trick that makes meeting ULTRA attractive
women EASIER online than in real life
How to use the web to keep women in other cities HOT for
you until you come to visit (Follow this tip and you'll never
have to pay for a hotel room again… seriously.)
How to use the internet to line up 4 times as many dates in
one month than you ever would be able to “the old way”
How to SPY on your competition online… find out exactly
what they're doing… and use it against them to make
yourself a woman's first choice
An almost “too easy” way to make your profile stand out
from every other profile on the site (The beauty of this
trick is that it flies “under the radar”… so you won't have to
worry about other guys figuring it out and copying you...)
Some women are online only for the ego-boost of a man's
attention. Here are 4 easy and discrete ways to find out if
she is REALLY interested in meeting… or just wasting your
time
The 9 different types of places you can meet women
online… and how to take advantage of each AT THE SAME
TIME to meet dozens of women (Dating sites are only the
beginning… my other 8 secret spots may be even better!)
A simple tip to get your profile to the VERY TOP of the
search results… so you are the FIRST guy every woman
sees when they do a search!
6 things you must AVOID in an online chat… if you want to
ever talk to her again, that is…
A few simple sentences to add to your profile that increase
the amount of women that email you FIRST by 50%
“Tension With Text” - How to build intense sexual tension
in an online chat or email conversation… and have her
picturing the two of you being intimate before you ever
even meet…
How to use Cocky Comedy to create emails that are
impossible to NOT respond to… along with specific phrases
to weave into your profile that almost FORCE a woman to
write…
The exact amount of time you should wait to respond to a
text or an email from a woman
How to make her think you are talking to a lot women
online… so she works twice as hard to COMPETE for your
attention
4 great ways to bust on a woman during an IM
conversation that let her know you will be “cool” when
you finally meet in real life
How to “steal her game” – a great way to send “mixed
signals” to a woman that pique her curiosity… so she
thinks about you 24/7
The big mistake most guys make when evaluating a
woman's profile that causes them to write an email that
she WILL NOT respond to (Here's how to pick out the
things that WILL get her attention and exactly what to say
when you drop her a line…)
How to find women in your area that are online at the
same time you are… and “pick up girls” LIVE without ever
leaving the house!
How to make her WORRY that you just want to be friends
(This is what “naturals” do in “real life” to get a woman to
push for more… and it works just as well online.)
The simple sentence to add to the bottom of your
outgoing emails that make a woman TWICE as likely to
respond
What to do when she doesn't respond to one of your
emails… here's how to write her again in a way that
DOESN'T look desperate and nearly ALWAYS gets a
response
A way to hide any “flaws” you may have without being
dishonest or deceitful
A behind-the-scenes look at what REALLY goes on in a sexy
woman's online mailbox (That's right… I had an attractive
friend of mine set up a profile on a popular dating site…
and we're going to “spill the dirt” on what the competition
is REALLY up to. Prepare to be shocked and amused….
names have been changed to protect the guilty!)
The “Fatal Flaw” 99% of guys make when emailing a
woman that reveals their ugly insecurities and leads a
woman to think they are using a dating site because they
are DESPERATE
A complete head-to-toe profile evaluation – We'll go
through the good, the bad, and the ugly… and show you
the simple secrets that can improve your profile
DRAMATICALLY… section by section
The one fact a man should NEVER reveal about himself
online (All sites feature this as one of their “standard”
questions… so you better know what it is)
The DANGER of posting a picture of you with another
woman (A certain type will make her think you are a
“player”… and another makes her see you as a “trying to
hard” LOSER. Here's the exact type of picture that makes
her see you as a PRIZE CATCH and almost guarantees she'll
respond to you.)
How to add a “bad boy element” to your profile that
arouses feelings of sexual excitement in every woman
who reads it
Examples of screen names that work well… and those that
turn a woman OFF
A proven profile “theme” that works every time (Base your
wording around this simple concept and women will see
you as DARING, ADVENTUROUS… and SEXY.)
The process an attractive woman goes through when
evaluating a man's profile – what she looks for FIRST… and
the clues that tell her whether or not you are someone she
should meet
Secrets of writing profiles that SELL—stolen from the direct
marketing world—that turn your profile into a “super
salesman” that talks almost ANY woman who reads it into
contacting you IMMEDIATELY
The stupid but easily avoidable mistakes men make in
their profiles that make them appear to be uneducated,
disorganized, and in some cases… retarded (I'm only half
joking here!)
How to hint at the fact that you are “relationship material”
and increase the amount of emails you get from QUALITY
women
Word-for-word profile descriptions you can practically CUT
AND PASTE into yours and improve your luck online
INSTANTLY
The ways women test men online – How to pass each
one… and how to flip things around so she feels obligated
to pass YOUR tests!
And that's just what you'll learn from ME...
Online Dating ADDICTS Break Their Silence To Show YOU
Why They Will Never Again Have To Leave The House To
Meet An Attractive Woman...
It's safe to say that only about 1% of the men in the
world of online dating are successful... and the rest are
wasting their time...
To put the icing on the cake, I invited a few friends to
speak at this program that—I'll confess—are MUCH BETTER at
this stuff than I am...
These guys have this stuff down to a science... two of the
guys you'll hear from get so many dates through the internet
that they no longer leave the house to meet women—EVER.
They have enough problems as it is handling all of the phone
numbers they get in their inboxes everyday. (I don't suggest
you take it this far... but hey... to each their own!)
Here are just a few of the killer tactics they'll show you
that will give you a definitive advantage over all of the
“clowns” that are competing (or so they think) for the
women you want:
The “Ugly Man's” 7-Step Guide To The Personals – A
proven system my not-so-handsome friend developed
that breaks all the rules and gets him date after date
with hot, sexy, attractive women he would NEVER have
a chance with in real life!
Why looking arrogant is sometimes the BEST approach
online… and how to do it in a way that attracts women
instead of putting them off
What you can put up INSTEAD of your picture that will
actually get you A LOT MORE responses (This is the first step
in my not-so-handsome friend's secret formula… and it's
PURE GENIUS.)
A conversation starter to use with a woman who has a hat
on in her profile pic
A fun and easy way to get a woman to respond to you by
issuing a CHALLENGE she can't resist
What to say to a woman who HASN'T filled out her profile
(It's frustrating when a woman looks good in her pictures
but gives you NOTHING to comment on besides her looks.
Here's a funny line to get things started that instantly
separates you from the ass-kissers she's USED to dealing
with…)
What to do if she brings up sex in your email
conversations (YES, this is a test… and you'll run into it
often. Fortunately it's an easy one to pass when you do
this.)
A secret to use when posting a picture that makes a
woman think you are someone important or famous
My friend's awesome routine for turning that FIRST phone
call into a date that works every time… saving you WEEKS
of “back and forth” on the telephone
How to set up your date so it goes well, and ENDS GREAT…
every time
A simple body language tweak to use when you meet that
makes her work for your attention… AND makes her feel
good about the way the date went after it's over because
she feels she had to “win you over”
Should you bring your friends with you on your date with
a woman? The answer will surprise you… and you'll use
this new tactic on EVERY date you make
A surefire way to get her back to your place the very first
time you hang out!
A fun and deadly accurate personality analysis game that
enables you to tell her secrets about herself that even her
best friends don't know … (This is one of THE FASTEST and
MOST EFFECTIVE ways to bond with a woman that I have
ever heard… and I can't wait to try it out myself!)
The 7 most common mistakes guys make the first time
they email a woman (In real life, you could afford to make
a couple of these mistakes… but in the online game JUST
ONE of these will RUIN YOU. Write this stuff down…)
The 7 “psychological triggers” to use in your emails to
women that will TRIPLE the amount of responses you get
back… AND the quality of the responses themselves
A hilarious email to send out when a woman DOESN'T
respond to your first effort that gets a response from
practically any woman with a pulse…
The absolute best thing to mention about a woman's
profile when writing her for the first time
How to tell when it's time to ask a woman for her phone
number (WARNING: Wait too long and you'll end up as a
PEN PAL… but ask too soon and you could scare her
away…)
The exact words to use when actually ASKING for the digits
An awesome line to use when emailing a woman who
describes her “type” as someone different than YOU
5 words to put at the end of every email you send out that
set you apart from the DESPERATE men she is used to
hearing from
What you MUST do differently when writing to a woman
in her 30's vs. a woman in her 20's… IF you want her to
respond…
What you must do in your very first communication to a
woman in order to keep the upper hand (This smooth
move allows YOU to keep the power… even though you're
the one making the first move…)
The 3 categories women put men in… and what you can
do to get her to see YOU as her first choice
An awesome answering machine message that gets a call
back every time… often in minutes…
The complete, step-by-step system another friend of
mine has used to get literally DOZENS of women from
dating sites to show up at his doorstep “ready to go”…
(I'm totally serious here… this guy has women FLYING IN
to see him from all over the country … EVERY WEEKEND.
Now, for the first time… he shares exactly how he does
it… and how YOU can duplicate his “patented” system
and NEVER have to leave the house to get a date again!)
How to get a woman you meet that ISN'T your type to set
you up with her sexy friends! (The best part about this is
she will feel great about making the connection and not
jealous…)
How to get women from around the country to FLY IN to
meet you without spending a dime
The 4 types of pictures you should have… and the 1 picture
you MUST have if you want a woman to feel comfortable
enough to come over to your place
A proven caption to put under one of your photos that gets
a woman to think of you in a sexual way
The exact profiles and emails of perhaps the most
successful, most experienced online dater in the world…
Here for you to STEAL and start using yourself (It doesn't
matter to him… he'll just write more. The best part is that
YOU will learn to do the same so you can write your OWN
powerful emails that NO ONE else is using… and fit your
personality to a “T”)
How to set up a date with a woman in a city you are
visiting… and get her to pick you up from the airport…
Why many women are MORE COMFORTABLE meeting you
at your house than at a public place… IF you set it up
right…
How to write an ad that women think is “too good to be
true”… forcing them to write just to find out if you are “the
real deal” (Imagine how excited they are when you write
back…)
How to create an archive of YOUR OWN cut and paste
emails for every situation you will possibly run into… and
eliminate 95% of the “work”
Why you should IGNORE what a woman says she is
looking for in her profile… and what to look at instead
What you should do the very first time you see a woman
you meet online to set the stage for a great date
What to do when you need to STOP the flow of women
coming in (I realize this sounds crazy, but my friend
actually has problems with women writing and calling him
too often and even showing up at his house…)
2 great profile headlines that JUMP OFF THE PAGE (Use
either one of these to double or triple the amount of
women who check you out)
How to use lines and phrases from romance novels as
hidden sexual triggers in your profile… so that a woman
gets turned on simply by reading it!
A way to be PICKY in your descriptions that increases the
amount of women that write you… and makes them try
harder to make you like them
Secret profile and email tricks that create an air of mystery
about you to the women you are communicating with… so
they just HAVE to meet you in person (Curiosity is your
biggest weapon in getting women to actually meet up …
and my friend will show you exactly how to use it)
How to get a woman to give you her phone number
the second time you email her (This trick is GOLDEN…
and will fill your inbox with more phone numbers than
you know what to do with. I honestly can't believe he's
giving it away!)
A big photo no-no that nearly all men miss that ruins any
chance of a woman contacting him first (Since you'll know
what it is, you'll have a HUGE advantage)
My friend's tested 6-step process to crafting your own
powerful “intro” email that grabs attention and MOVES a
woman to respond to YOU and no one else
What to say to a woman who has bad grammar or spelling
in her profile
An awesome email subject line that gets her to open your
letter FIRST nearly every time
3 questions you can ask a woman in the first email that
make her feel like it is personalized… even if you send the
same letter to DOZENS of women a day
How to use a “Call To Action” at the end of your emails that
convinces her that she must reply FAST
The percentage of women that should be responding to
your emails if you're doing it right
A sneaky marketing trick to use in your subject line that
TRIPLES the chance of her opening your letter
How to playfully “punish” a woman who doesn't give you
her number in a way that makes her feel foolish for not
giving it to you… and quickly changes her mind…
way to start off your first phone conversation with a
woman that guarantees the call will be a SUCCESS
The 2 days when you should NEVER schedule your first
meeting with a woman, and why
3 funny nicknames to call a woman that you will use ALL
THE TIME
The exact day of the week to email a woman if you want
the absolute BEST chance of getting a response (My friend
has a marketing background, and actually tested emailing
women on different days and tracked the results!)
to say when you email one of the those really hot women
you KNOW are getting DOZENS a day—basically any
woman who has bikini pictures up— and get her to
respond back!
A way to know instantly if a woman is “bigger” than she
appears
A tricky way to get a woman to write you back even if she
isn't a paying member of the site (IMPORTANT… because
most women are not )
And much, much more...
As you can see, my friends and I have packed all of our
crafty secrets into this program... and I do mean ALL of them.
Are we nervous about sharing our secrets with the
world... and possibly creating competition for ourselves?
Absolutely not.
While there is PLENTY of “cut and paste” material in this
program that you can simply grab and send to women to get
responses, phone numbers and dates, the real beauty of this
program are the PRINCIPLES and TACTICS.
Take a few hours to learn these, and you will have
exactly what it takes to quickly create YOUR OWN powerful
system for meeting women online—based around YOUR
OWN personality and lifestyle—that attracts exactly the
kinds of women that you want. Again and again and again...
It's easy when you know how...
Why Meeting Women Online Is
EASIER Than In “Real Life”...
And How To Take Advantage Of It...
I'm not kidding when I say that meeting and dating a
woman from the online world can be MUCH EASIER than in
“real life”... once you know what you're doing.
Here's why:
Reason #1: The Web Is A REJECTION FREE Place To Hone
Your Skills
If you're looking to hone your skills for meeting and
interacting with women in “real life”... the web is the
ULTIMATE training ground.
It's literally a “dating simulator”—you can practice your
skills with DOZENS of real live women every day, and find out
exactly what works and what doesn't—WITHOUT
experiencing the painful rejection you'd have to face
otherwise.
I can't even begin to tell you how much the web has
helped me personally to improve my skills with women...
I used to get really shy and nervous when it came time
to approach a woman on the street... but interacting with
DOZENS and DOZENS of women online built my confidence to
the point where it just wasn't an issue...
It also didn't hurt that the internet also filled my
calendar with dates, which was quite a serious confidence
booster in itself...
And as I mentioned before, the web was also where I
REALLY perfected my Cocky Comedy skills...
With unlimited opportunities to try out new things, it
was easy for me to figure out the types of things that make
women laugh... and how to building attraction FAST. I'm sure
you'll discover the same.
And one of the really cool things about interacting with
women online is that you can TAKE YOUR TIME when
responding to them.
You can carefully plan out what you want to say until
you have it exactly right... and you won't have to worry
about tripping over yourself because you are nervous or
flustered...
Because of this simple fact alone I've seen many guys
who are too shy to approach women in real life EXCEL on the
web... because they don't let themselves get in the way of
their success.
The same may hold true for you...
Reason #2: The Web Is The ONLY Place Where Women
Approach YOU Constantly
How many times in your life has an attractive woman
approached YOU because she was interested in getting to
know you?
If you're like most guys, you can probably count on one
hand. And that's if you're lucky...
But on the web, it's an entirely different story...
When you use the secrets in this program, you'll
probably (realistically) received 2 or 3 unsolicited emails PER
DAY from women who want to find out more about you.
Some will be from women who aren't your type---and
that's ok---because chances are you'll also receive notes from
about 2 or 3 women each week that are what you are
looking for... and sometimes BETTER.
That rounds out to about 10 a month... and even if you
only end up meeting 3 of them in person (a no-brainer
considering the skills you'll have, and that they approached
YOU first) that's almost one new hot date EACH WEEK... with
next to no effort on your part!
Try going to a bar, nightclub or anywhere else and
getting the same results.
Unless you're tending the bar, it just isn't happening.
Combine that with all of the women you'll meet that
you emailed first, and you can see just how wild and exciting
this can get...
Reason #3: The Competition Is Weak!
Here's another thing that is VERY interesting---and very
good news for us---about the whole online dating world...
The competition is PATHETIC.
Guys who normally WOULD be competition for you in
“the real world” often consider themselves “too cool” to
meet a woman on the web... so they never even try.
And those who do try will usually jump on, send out a
few emails... and quickly write the whole thing off when
they don't get any responses back.
They never take the time to figure out what works...
because it's easier for them to go back to what they know.
Hey, I don't blame them...
So what's left?
A bunch of ASSCLOWNS that can't meet women in real
life OR online... and only make YOU look better with their
unoriginal---and sometimes even offensive---letters and
profiles.
And what does this mean for you?
This means that you have a great shot at those ultra-
desirable women that other guys might be able to “out-
game” you for in real life. Now YOU will be the one that
stands head and shoulders above the rest with your
awesome profile and clever communication skills.
I'm going to show you how to make the internet your
secret spot... where YOU have the advantage over the
“naturals” and everyone else... and where YOU get your pick
of the women you want.
It's a great feeling.
Reason #4: The Supply Is UNLIMITED... And You Have The
Resources To Take Advantage Of It
As I write this right now there are TENS OF MILLIONS of
women on online dating sites... and guess what?
They are ALL single and looking!
Now in real life this would be useless---even if you were
tossed into a stadium full of models, you could realistically
only talk to 20 or 30 of them in a night...
But on the web, things are different.
You can easily talk to DOZENS of these women at a time.
Once you get your “system” down, you can “scale up”
and join other dating sites... and multiply your opportunities
each time you do.
You're not limited to those you see out on the town or
those you meet through your circle of friends... you can meet
women from all over your state, country, or even the world.
You'll never again worry about being lonely while traveling...
simply search for ladies in the city you want to meet and line
up some dates while you are there.
And if you're as good as some of my friends that you'll
hear from... a ride to your hotel from the airport!
My friends aren't kidding when they say they have to
take their profiles DOWN every once in awhile to “stop the
flow”.
If you want to meet a lot of women FAST... or date
several women at once... this is the way to do it.
If you do date fairly regularly, but have a “dry spell”
every once in awhile... the women you meet online will “fill
in the blanks”... you won't have to worry about being
dateless ever again.
And as I mentioned before... if you're new to the whole
dating scene, this is the best place to start. You'll hone your
skills WHILE you are getting dates... instead of while you are
just trying.
Isn't that the way it SHOULD be?
Reason #5: You Can Meet High Quality Women You Simply
CANNOT Meet Anywhere Else
It's simple fact: I know more men who have met
“keepers” on the web than any other one single place...
myself included.
If you've spent any time at all going out and meeting
women, then you know that a woman of quality is a rare
thing indeed.
Many of the intelligent, attractive women who have it
together are over the bar scene... and your chances of
meeting a woman like that through your circle of friends is
slim.
Sure... you might bump into someone you like at a coffee
shop or grocery store... but why leave it up to chance?
If you are serious about finding a high quality woman to
have a great relationship with, the web is the best place to
start.
In general, the women you meet online AREN'T
superficial, don't play “head games”...and most importantly...
are LOOKING to meet a quality man like you.
And if you think you can't meet a woman who is
attractive online, you had best think again...
I've met several models, actresses, and dancers online...
and of course, many beautiful “regular” women as well. So
have my friends (I've seen them). And so will you.
So let's do the math:
An unlimited supply... of high quality women... with
ZERO competition... that approach YOU?
Hmm.
It's easy to see why online dating is the best thing
going... for a select few of us that is.
About It...”
Dear Friend,
Most guys who try online dating FAIL miserably.
Online dating SEEMS like a great idea… doesn't it?
You sit down at your computer, logon to the online
dating website, and start emailing all kinds of hot babes…
with no fear of “rejection” or confrontation. And then they
email you back, get to know “the real you”, build a
relationship in a friendly, low-key way, and eventually go
out on a date…
Wouldn't it be GREAT if that was how it actually
worked?
Well, if you've actually TRIED online dating, then you
KNOW it's not like that AT ALL.
In fact, if you've tried it out, then you know that it can
actually be MORE challenging than meeting women in the
“real world”.
Why is this?
Well, for starters, it's this way because almost EVERY GUY
is thinking this same “ideal fantasy” about online dating. And
the online dating companies aren't exactly “downplaying”
how difficult it is to REALLY meet women online.
But there's another reason… a more IMPORTANT reason…
Let me ask you something…
Have you ever been to an “average” bar or nightclub?
You know the kind I'm talking about. It's just OK… the booze
is cheap, the music is predictable, and the people are all
pretty boring.
But at every one of those places, there's always a HOT
girl or two. She's the one that everyone is looking at… and
the one that all the guys want to talk to…
And guess what? All the guys ARE talking to her.
To the point where she is both enjoying the attention a
little… AND also getting annoyed at them… because they're
so THE SAME.
So with this in mind, guess what it's like to be an
attractive woman with an ad on an online dating website?
Right. It's TEN TIMES worse.
It's common for a woman to get fifty or even a
HUNDRED responses from men in a SINGLE DAY.
And just like the hot woman in the bar, the attractive
woman with the online profile is experiencing one
predictable, boring, lame introduction after another…
“Hi, you're really beautiful. How about I take you out to
your favorite restaurant, then to a movie. I'd like to get to
know you better…”
“I realize that I'm probably not your type, but I thought
I'd try anyway. If you'd give me a chance, I'd show you that
I'm the nicest guy you could ever want…”
“Hello, read my profile and let me know if you're
interested…”
Microsoft should build a feature into Windows that
actually reaches out and BITCH SLAPS any man that types
these words in response to a woman's online dating profile.
Anyway, you get the point.
Attractive women are SMOTHERED by responses from
boring, predictable, lame guys who communicate low self-
esteem and approval seeking indicators. It's sad.
It Doesn't Have To Be This Way!
All that said, I have been able to meet MANY attractive
women online. In fact, as I write this, I met my last two long-
term girlfriends online.
I've met and dated models, actresses, dancers… artists…
intellectual women… and everything in between…
consistently and successfully… all online.
I taught myself to TYPE by chatting with women online.
And I perfected my “Cocky & Funny” technique talking to
women… you guessed it… online.
The question is:
Why is it that I have been able to have consistent
success with online dating, while most guys spend hours and
hours trying to find “the key”, only to fail?
That's what I'd like to share with you…
How I Developed A SYSTEM That Got Me One Date After
Another With Interesting, Attractive, Intelligent Women…
I can remember when I first decided to get this part of
my life called “women and dating” handled…
I have to admit something to you. I never even
CONSIDERED online dating as a “real” way to meet women.
One day, a new friend of mine was telling me about his
“system” for meeting women on the internet. He wanted me
to come over to his house, so he could show me.
Well, when I got there, and he started showing me his
“system”, I was BLOWN AWAY. It was one of the most
ingenious things I'd ever seen. It was like a MACHINE.
He showed me how he looked at different types of
profiles, how he selected women, how he started
conversations with them… and how he tracked and recorded
his conversations with them. I felt like I was sitting in the
presence of a genius… and I was.
But the REAL miracle of his system wasn't the
“machine”… it was the WOMEN HE WAS DATING.
He showed me pictures of BEAUTIFUL women he had
met online and dated… he told me the stories (and even
showed me the actual conversations!) of meeting them…
Wow.
I now had the evidence I needed that online dating
COULD work… and expanding on what he taught me, I went
to work to create success for MYSELF.
I made many discoveries over the next several months.
I learned how to chat with women online, and TAKE
ADVANTAGE of the fact that online conversations are about
one TENTH the speed of normal conversations.
I paid careful attention to the different types of
communication that men and women use online… and I
developed systematic approaches to starting conversations,
creating attraction, getting phone numbers… and even
getting dates RIGHT ON THE COMPUTER.
A new world was open to me, and I took advantage of
it.
I learned a couple of very important concepts while I
was developing my system…
If you want to be successful meeting women online, you
need to understand two KEY things:
1. You must not do what every other guy is doing
2. You must find a system that works, and STICK WITH IT
Just like the “real world”, there are common, predictable
PATTERNS of behavior that happen consistently.
If you're an attractive woman who has a profile online,
the responses you're getting from men are PAINFULLY
predictable.
HINT: If you'd like to give yourself a GREAT education
that costs NOTHING, then get one of your attractive female
friends to put up a “free trial” online dating profile, and then
look at the responses she gets during the FIRST DAY or two.
You'll be floored at how LAME the introductions are.
You'll laugh… you'll shake your head… you'll actually get
MORE CONFIDENCE as well. Trust me, it's a great “science
experiment”, and every guy should do it.
One of the most IMPORTANT things for you to notice as
you're reading through the responses and introductions that
guys send in… is how THE SAME they are.
Take note, and DON'T DO what all those guys are doing!
After you've learned what NOT to do, it's time to
develop a SYSTEM that works predictably and consistently…
One of the MAJOR mistakes that men make meeting
women in the “real world” is something that I like to call the
“Originality Paradox”. Basically, men try to be “original”
when they approach women… they want to say something
“unique and special”. Well, the problem is that most guys
STILL say the SAME THINGS!
While we're trying to be “original”, we don't stop to
think about the fact that all the other guys who tried to be
original earlier that day probably said the SAME THINGS. Duh.
As it turns out, saying a “canned line” to a woman on the
street will often work better than something “unique and
original”.
Online it's the same way… only MORE so
So many guys are contacting the attractive women…
with the SAME INTRODUCTIONS… that you must do something
DIFFERENT.
And, fortunately, doing something that's “canned”
usually works MUCH better than writing something “unique
and different and special”.
The 4 Keys To “Automating”
The Process Of Online Dating... And
Meeting More Women Every Single Month Than Most Men
Meet All Year...
Wouldn't it be nice to know that anytime you felt like it,
you could simply jump online and score yourself a date with
an interesting, attractive woman... with almost ZERO effort on
your part?
Well... let me tell ya... when you have your system in
place, it really is just that easy.
The only real “work” involved is developing the system
itself.
And as you probably know if you have ever joined a
dating site in the past... it's not an easy task.
Starting from scratch, it can take YEARS of trial and error,
and a little luck... and that's if you ever figure it out...
But fortunately... this doesn't have to be the case for
YOU.
I want to give you the details of my “paint by the
numbers” system to easily and methodically meet one hot
woman after another on any dating site, social network, or
chat group... regardless of whether or not you are good
looking or photogenic... and even if you flunked English class.
The skills required can be broken down into 4 basic
categories. Mastery of just one of these categories will give
you a distinct advantage over the other men who are trying
to meet women online... but only when you master all 4
does the REAL magic begin to happen...
Upon learning the skills I'm about to share with you, you
will have the ability to go onto any dating site, social
network, or anywhere else... and essentially cast a “magic
net” that pulls every attractive woman that signs up
DIRECTLY TO YOU.
Here's how they break down:
1. How To Craft Killer Emails That FORCE A Woman
To Read Them And Respond
As you now know... attractive women who post profiles
on dating sites get DOZENS... even HUNDREDS of emails every
day.
Even a woman who doesn't post her photo will typically
get TEN or more...
The bottom line is that you need to do THREE things to
have chance with her:
Strike Fast - With so many emails coming in every day,
attractive women get overwhelmed FAST... often “giving up”
on the whole thing because it is so time consuming to weed
through them all. Eventually they either delete their profiles,
or simply forget about it altogether.
What does this mean to you?
You must STRIKE FAST—and preferably FIRST—in order
to get an attractive woman to respond.
Fortunately, it's EASY when you know how...
Stand Out - Have I mentioned that attractive women—
and even unattractive women— get A LOT of emails from
men?
If you don't stand out in a BIG way, you'll be lucky if
your email even gets opened... let alone replied to.
Think about it: If you received 100 emails tomorrow...
and you were pretty damn sure that 99% of them said
exactly the same thing... how many of them would YOU
open? You'd probably go through 5-10... hoping for
something that caught your attention.. and then give up. This
is what attractive women do as well.
But if one email has a subject line that JUMPS OUT at
her... you better believe she is readying that one first...
MOVE HER To Respond - As you know... in the “real
world”, simply asking a woman if you are “her type” is NOT
going to get her to “like you”.
Nor is telling her that you think the two of you would
be good together.
You need to spark ATTRACTION... and make her WANT IT.
The same holds true for online dating... TIMES TEN.
Simply asking a woman to “check out your profile” is not
going to get her to write you back...
Nor is telling her that you think the two of you have
something in common, or that you would be a good match.
Just like the “real world”... you need to generate
emotion. You need to MOVE HER to respond.
The good news is that doing this online is actually
EASIER than in “real life”.
You can choose your words carefully... and don't have to
worry about “stumbling” or freezing up.
It's as simple as taking a proven formula and
customizing it to fit and attract the woman you want... and in
a moment, I'll show you how to do just that...
2. How To Design Your Profile To MAGNETICALLY
Attract The Type And Quality Of Women You Want
So now that you've caught her attention with your
email, the very FIRST thing she is going to do is check out
your profile.
And guess what?
If your profile sucks... your great email just became
WORTHLESS.
On the other hand... a strong profile will not only get a
woman to write you back... it will also get a woman to write
you FIRST.
A great profile is a PRICELESS ASSET.
Think of it like owning a vending machine...
You can simply place your machine in an area where
people want snacks... and it will sit there and MAKE YOU
MONEY, 24/7.
A great profile works the same way...
Put it in a place where women want dates (like ANY or
even ALL of the dating sites)... and it will sit there and GET
YOU WOMEN... 24/7!
Do you see what I'm getting at here?
And here's the best part...
Unlike a vending machine that has competition from
convenience stores and other machines around it... when you
use the secrets I'm going to share with you, your profile will
be the VERY BEST on the block.
Think of it like being the only guy in your high school
who drove a FERRARI...
That's right my friend...
ALL the ladies are coming to you!
With so many clueless men out there, it really is that
simple. I'm going to show you how to put your profile on
STEROIDS... everything from proven sequences of photos that
spark interest and curiosity... to the hidden psychological
triggers that make a woman feel like she would be CRAZY not
to email you, or to respond to one of yours.
3. “Legal Hacks” That Work On Any Dating Site To
Stack The Odds UNFAIRLY In Your Favor...
Ah yes... one of my personal favorites...
There are many, many little tricks you can use to “rig the
system” on a dating site... and 99.9% of men have NO IDEA
that they even exist...
For example, there is a free and easy way to get your
profile to THE VERY TOP of the search results... putting you in
front of the eyes of the most women possible... which, of
course... gets YOU more emails than anyone else...
There are also ways to track down those ULTRA HOT
women that you just don't see when you are out on the
town... and lots of them at that...
And that's just the beginning...
As you can imagine, not all gorgeous women join dating
sites... BUT... there ARE several other “secret spots” on the
web that many do frequent. Do you know what they are...
and how to use them to meet women like crazy? Guess
what... 99.9% of men DON'T EITHER... but you're about to find
out (Of course... the very best part about these untapped
goldmines is that there is ZERO competition...)
Can you say “easy money”?
4. How To Turn Responses Into Phone Numbers,
Phone Numbers Into Dates, And Dates Into
Intimate Relationships... And Develop Your Own
“Perpetual Dating Machine” That Lands You One
Woman After Another... With Surprisingly Little
Work On Your Part...
It never surprised me that many of my friends who
were the BEST at meeting women in “the real world” seemed
to have NO LUCK with meeting women online... and quickly
gave up.
The fact is that if you don't know what you're doing...
meeting women online is a BITCH.
Forget about all of the 1000 other guys competing for
the woman you want... and the fact that you can't use all of
the same weapons that you have in real life to distinguish
yourself and create attraction...
Even when you DO finally get a woman's attention and
get her interested in you... getting her to actually meet up
with you and making something happen is an entirely
different story...
The reason is that online dating is DIFFERENT.
It requires an entirely different set of skills than meeting
women in more traditional ways.
You have to go about getting phone numbers
differently... and when you're on the phone with a woman
you've met online, you have to handle the conversation
differently than you normally would if you want to get her
to actually meet up with you...
And even when you do end up getting together, it's a
very different ballgame.
Expectations are high, and barriers are even higher.
Most men are far too lazy to put in the time to learn the
differences and make things work for them... and I don't
blame them... it's not easy.
But the guys I do know that eventually figured this stuff
out—myself included—have discovered something very
interesting...
We've discovered that meeting and dating a woman
from the online world is actually FAR EASIER than meeting a
woman the “regular way”... because everything is so
SYSTEMATIC.
Since you are meeting each woman in essentially the
same way... with the same variables and circumstances... it's
fairly simple to develop a successful “routine” that works
nearly every time.
For example, I have one very successful friend who has a
“standard email” he sends to get the conversation started...
then a follow-up email that gets a woman to send him her
phone number right away!
Since all of the women he talks to get basically the same
information about him before the phone call, he noticed that
many of them ask the same questions when he rings them
up...
Over time he figured out how to handle the first call in a
way that removes a woman's concerns and gets her EXCITED
about meeting up with him... and screens her to make sure
SHE is legit.
Because the phone conversation is very similar each
time... the actual meeting itself usually starts off the same
way...
My friend has figured out ways to lead the date in the
direction he wants to go... and get a woman turned on for
him FAST.
The fact is that once you have a “routine” like this down
for yourself, meeting women online becomes almost TOO
EASY.
It's plain to see why some of the guys I know that are
good at this are now too lazy to even leave the house to
meet women. I mean heck... unless they were looking for a
challenge, why would they?
And now... I want to show you how YOU can do the
same...
Your “Secret Weapon” For
Online Dating Success
Now for the REALLY good news...
I've just put the finishing touches on a revolutionary
new program designed to quickly teach any man how to use
the internet to successfully meet and date DOZENS of new,
attractive women each and every month.
This program is the very first of its kind... and I want you
to be one of the very FIRST to have it...
It's going to allow you to skip all of the hard work... and
show you how to create your own unique system for getting
responses from women, getting women to give your their
phone numbers quickly, handling that crucial first phone call
(including exactly what to say), great places to meet that
almost guarantee things go well... and proven ways to build
attraction with the women you meet FAST.
And that's just the start... it only gets BETTER from there...
Here are just a few of the other things you'll learn:
My secret method for tracking down and meeting those
very… VERY attractive women that you'd NEVER meet in
“the real world” (Yes… you CAN find them online… IF you
know where to look!)
A special trick that makes meeting ULTRA attractive
women EASIER online than in real life
How to use the web to keep women in other cities HOT for
you until you come to visit (Follow this tip and you'll never
have to pay for a hotel room again… seriously.)
How to use the internet to line up 4 times as many dates in
one month than you ever would be able to “the old way”
How to SPY on your competition online… find out exactly
what they're doing… and use it against them to make
yourself a woman's first choice
An almost “too easy” way to make your profile stand out
from every other profile on the site (The beauty of this
trick is that it flies “under the radar”… so you won't have to
worry about other guys figuring it out and copying you...)
Some women are online only for the ego-boost of a man's
attention. Here are 4 easy and discrete ways to find out if
she is REALLY interested in meeting… or just wasting your
time
The 9 different types of places you can meet women
online… and how to take advantage of each AT THE SAME
TIME to meet dozens of women (Dating sites are only the
beginning… my other 8 secret spots may be even better!)
A simple tip to get your profile to the VERY TOP of the
search results… so you are the FIRST guy every woman
sees when they do a search!
6 things you must AVOID in an online chat… if you want to
ever talk to her again, that is…
A few simple sentences to add to your profile that increase
the amount of women that email you FIRST by 50%
“Tension With Text” - How to build intense sexual tension
in an online chat or email conversation… and have her
picturing the two of you being intimate before you ever
even meet…
How to use Cocky Comedy to create emails that are
impossible to NOT respond to… along with specific phrases
to weave into your profile that almost FORCE a woman to
write…
The exact amount of time you should wait to respond to a
text or an email from a woman
How to make her think you are talking to a lot women
online… so she works twice as hard to COMPETE for your
attention
4 great ways to bust on a woman during an IM
conversation that let her know you will be “cool” when
you finally meet in real life
How to “steal her game” – a great way to send “mixed
signals” to a woman that pique her curiosity… so she
thinks about you 24/7
The big mistake most guys make when evaluating a
woman's profile that causes them to write an email that
she WILL NOT respond to (Here's how to pick out the
things that WILL get her attention and exactly what to say
when you drop her a line…)
How to find women in your area that are online at the
same time you are… and “pick up girls” LIVE without ever
leaving the house!
How to make her WORRY that you just want to be friends
(This is what “naturals” do in “real life” to get a woman to
push for more… and it works just as well online.)
The simple sentence to add to the bottom of your
outgoing emails that make a woman TWICE as likely to
respond
What to do when she doesn't respond to one of your
emails… here's how to write her again in a way that
DOESN'T look desperate and nearly ALWAYS gets a
response
A way to hide any “flaws” you may have without being
dishonest or deceitful
A behind-the-scenes look at what REALLY goes on in a sexy
woman's online mailbox (That's right… I had an attractive
friend of mine set up a profile on a popular dating site…
and we're going to “spill the dirt” on what the competition
is REALLY up to. Prepare to be shocked and amused….
names have been changed to protect the guilty!)
The “Fatal Flaw” 99% of guys make when emailing a
woman that reveals their ugly insecurities and leads a
woman to think they are using a dating site because they
are DESPERATE
A complete head-to-toe profile evaluation – We'll go
through the good, the bad, and the ugly… and show you
the simple secrets that can improve your profile
DRAMATICALLY… section by section
The one fact a man should NEVER reveal about himself
online (All sites feature this as one of their “standard”
questions… so you better know what it is)
The DANGER of posting a picture of you with another
woman (A certain type will make her think you are a
“player”… and another makes her see you as a “trying to
hard” LOSER. Here's the exact type of picture that makes
her see you as a PRIZE CATCH and almost guarantees she'll
respond to you.)
How to add a “bad boy element” to your profile that
arouses feelings of sexual excitement in every woman
who reads it
Examples of screen names that work well… and those that
turn a woman OFF
A proven profile “theme” that works every time (Base your
wording around this simple concept and women will see
you as DARING, ADVENTUROUS… and SEXY.)
The process an attractive woman goes through when
evaluating a man's profile – what she looks for FIRST… and
the clues that tell her whether or not you are someone she
should meet
Secrets of writing profiles that SELL—stolen from the direct
marketing world—that turn your profile into a “super
salesman” that talks almost ANY woman who reads it into
contacting you IMMEDIATELY
The stupid but easily avoidable mistakes men make in
their profiles that make them appear to be uneducated,
disorganized, and in some cases… retarded (I'm only half
joking here!)
How to hint at the fact that you are “relationship material”
and increase the amount of emails you get from QUALITY
women
Word-for-word profile descriptions you can practically CUT
AND PASTE into yours and improve your luck online
INSTANTLY
The ways women test men online – How to pass each
one… and how to flip things around so she feels obligated
to pass YOUR tests!
And that's just what you'll learn from ME...
Online Dating ADDICTS Break Their Silence To Show YOU
Why They Will Never Again Have To Leave The House To
Meet An Attractive Woman...
It's safe to say that only about 1% of the men in the
world of online dating are successful... and the rest are
wasting their time...
To put the icing on the cake, I invited a few friends to
speak at this program that—I'll confess—are MUCH BETTER at
this stuff than I am...
These guys have this stuff down to a science... two of the
guys you'll hear from get so many dates through the internet
that they no longer leave the house to meet women—EVER.
They have enough problems as it is handling all of the phone
numbers they get in their inboxes everyday. (I don't suggest
you take it this far... but hey... to each their own!)
Here are just a few of the killer tactics they'll show you
that will give you a definitive advantage over all of the
“clowns” that are competing (or so they think) for the
women you want:
The “Ugly Man's” 7-Step Guide To The Personals – A
proven system my not-so-handsome friend developed
that breaks all the rules and gets him date after date
with hot, sexy, attractive women he would NEVER have
a chance with in real life!
Why looking arrogant is sometimes the BEST approach
online… and how to do it in a way that attracts women
instead of putting them off
What you can put up INSTEAD of your picture that will
actually get you A LOT MORE responses (This is the first step
in my not-so-handsome friend's secret formula… and it's
PURE GENIUS.)
A conversation starter to use with a woman who has a hat
on in her profile pic
A fun and easy way to get a woman to respond to you by
issuing a CHALLENGE she can't resist
What to say to a woman who HASN'T filled out her profile
(It's frustrating when a woman looks good in her pictures
but gives you NOTHING to comment on besides her looks.
Here's a funny line to get things started that instantly
separates you from the ass-kissers she's USED to dealing
with…)
What to do if she brings up sex in your email
conversations (YES, this is a test… and you'll run into it
often. Fortunately it's an easy one to pass when you do
this.)
A secret to use when posting a picture that makes a
woman think you are someone important or famous
My friend's awesome routine for turning that FIRST phone
call into a date that works every time… saving you WEEKS
of “back and forth” on the telephone
How to set up your date so it goes well, and ENDS GREAT…
every time
A simple body language tweak to use when you meet that
makes her work for your attention… AND makes her feel
good about the way the date went after it's over because
she feels she had to “win you over”
Should you bring your friends with you on your date with
a woman? The answer will surprise you… and you'll use
this new tactic on EVERY date you make
A surefire way to get her back to your place the very first
time you hang out!
A fun and deadly accurate personality analysis game that
enables you to tell her secrets about herself that even her
best friends don't know … (This is one of THE FASTEST and
MOST EFFECTIVE ways to bond with a woman that I have
ever heard… and I can't wait to try it out myself!)
The 7 most common mistakes guys make the first time
they email a woman (In real life, you could afford to make
a couple of these mistakes… but in the online game JUST
ONE of these will RUIN YOU. Write this stuff down…)
The 7 “psychological triggers” to use in your emails to
women that will TRIPLE the amount of responses you get
back… AND the quality of the responses themselves
A hilarious email to send out when a woman DOESN'T
respond to your first effort that gets a response from
practically any woman with a pulse…
The absolute best thing to mention about a woman's
profile when writing her for the first time
How to tell when it's time to ask a woman for her phone
number (WARNING: Wait too long and you'll end up as a
PEN PAL… but ask too soon and you could scare her
away…)
The exact words to use when actually ASKING for the digits
An awesome line to use when emailing a woman who
describes her “type” as someone different than YOU
5 words to put at the end of every email you send out that
set you apart from the DESPERATE men she is used to
hearing from
What you MUST do differently when writing to a woman
in her 30's vs. a woman in her 20's… IF you want her to
respond…
What you must do in your very first communication to a
woman in order to keep the upper hand (This smooth
move allows YOU to keep the power… even though you're
the one making the first move…)
The 3 categories women put men in… and what you can
do to get her to see YOU as her first choice
An awesome answering machine message that gets a call
back every time… often in minutes…
The complete, step-by-step system another friend of
mine has used to get literally DOZENS of women from
dating sites to show up at his doorstep “ready to go”…
(I'm totally serious here… this guy has women FLYING IN
to see him from all over the country … EVERY WEEKEND.
Now, for the first time… he shares exactly how he does
it… and how YOU can duplicate his “patented” system
and NEVER have to leave the house to get a date again!)
How to get a woman you meet that ISN'T your type to set
you up with her sexy friends! (The best part about this is
she will feel great about making the connection and not
jealous…)
How to get women from around the country to FLY IN to
meet you without spending a dime
The 4 types of pictures you should have… and the 1 picture
you MUST have if you want a woman to feel comfortable
enough to come over to your place
A proven caption to put under one of your photos that gets
a woman to think of you in a sexual way
The exact profiles and emails of perhaps the most
successful, most experienced online dater in the world…
Here for you to STEAL and start using yourself (It doesn't
matter to him… he'll just write more. The best part is that
YOU will learn to do the same so you can write your OWN
powerful emails that NO ONE else is using… and fit your
personality to a “T”)
How to set up a date with a woman in a city you are
visiting… and get her to pick you up from the airport…
Why many women are MORE COMFORTABLE meeting you
at your house than at a public place… IF you set it up
right…
How to write an ad that women think is “too good to be
true”… forcing them to write just to find out if you are “the
real deal” (Imagine how excited they are when you write
back…)
How to create an archive of YOUR OWN cut and paste
emails for every situation you will possibly run into… and
eliminate 95% of the “work”
Why you should IGNORE what a woman says she is
looking for in her profile… and what to look at instead
What you should do the very first time you see a woman
you meet online to set the stage for a great date
What to do when you need to STOP the flow of women
coming in (I realize this sounds crazy, but my friend
actually has problems with women writing and calling him
too often and even showing up at his house…)
2 great profile headlines that JUMP OFF THE PAGE (Use
either one of these to double or triple the amount of
women who check you out)
How to use lines and phrases from romance novels as
hidden sexual triggers in your profile… so that a woman
gets turned on simply by reading it!
A way to be PICKY in your descriptions that increases the
amount of women that write you… and makes them try
harder to make you like them
Secret profile and email tricks that create an air of mystery
about you to the women you are communicating with… so
they just HAVE to meet you in person (Curiosity is your
biggest weapon in getting women to actually meet up …
and my friend will show you exactly how to use it)
How to get a woman to give you her phone number
the second time you email her (This trick is GOLDEN…
and will fill your inbox with more phone numbers than
you know what to do with. I honestly can't believe he's
giving it away!)
A big photo no-no that nearly all men miss that ruins any
chance of a woman contacting him first (Since you'll know
what it is, you'll have a HUGE advantage)
My friend's tested 6-step process to crafting your own
powerful “intro” email that grabs attention and MOVES a
woman to respond to YOU and no one else
What to say to a woman who has bad grammar or spelling
in her profile
An awesome email subject line that gets her to open your
letter FIRST nearly every time
3 questions you can ask a woman in the first email that
make her feel like it is personalized… even if you send the
same letter to DOZENS of women a day
How to use a “Call To Action” at the end of your emails that
convinces her that she must reply FAST
The percentage of women that should be responding to
your emails if you're doing it right
A sneaky marketing trick to use in your subject line that
TRIPLES the chance of her opening your letter
How to playfully “punish” a woman who doesn't give you
her number in a way that makes her feel foolish for not
giving it to you… and quickly changes her mind…
way to start off your first phone conversation with a
woman that guarantees the call will be a SUCCESS
The 2 days when you should NEVER schedule your first
meeting with a woman, and why
3 funny nicknames to call a woman that you will use ALL
THE TIME
The exact day of the week to email a woman if you want
the absolute BEST chance of getting a response (My friend
has a marketing background, and actually tested emailing
women on different days and tracked the results!)
to say when you email one of the those really hot women
you KNOW are getting DOZENS a day—basically any
woman who has bikini pictures up— and get her to
respond back!
A way to know instantly if a woman is “bigger” than she
appears
A tricky way to get a woman to write you back even if she
isn't a paying member of the site (IMPORTANT… because
most women are not )
And much, much more...
As you can see, my friends and I have packed all of our
crafty secrets into this program... and I do mean ALL of them.
Are we nervous about sharing our secrets with the
world... and possibly creating competition for ourselves?
Absolutely not.
While there is PLENTY of “cut and paste” material in this
program that you can simply grab and send to women to get
responses, phone numbers and dates, the real beauty of this
program are the PRINCIPLES and TACTICS.
Take a few hours to learn these, and you will have
exactly what it takes to quickly create YOUR OWN powerful
system for meeting women online—based around YOUR
OWN personality and lifestyle—that attracts exactly the
kinds of women that you want. Again and again and again...
It's easy when you know how...
Why Meeting Women Online Is
EASIER Than In “Real Life”...
And How To Take Advantage Of It...
I'm not kidding when I say that meeting and dating a
woman from the online world can be MUCH EASIER than in
“real life”... once you know what you're doing.
Here's why:
Reason #1: The Web Is A REJECTION FREE Place To Hone
Your Skills
If you're looking to hone your skills for meeting and
interacting with women in “real life”... the web is the
ULTIMATE training ground.
It's literally a “dating simulator”—you can practice your
skills with DOZENS of real live women every day, and find out
exactly what works and what doesn't—WITHOUT
experiencing the painful rejection you'd have to face
otherwise.
I can't even begin to tell you how much the web has
helped me personally to improve my skills with women...
I used to get really shy and nervous when it came time
to approach a woman on the street... but interacting with
DOZENS and DOZENS of women online built my confidence to
the point where it just wasn't an issue...
It also didn't hurt that the internet also filled my
calendar with dates, which was quite a serious confidence
booster in itself...
And as I mentioned before, the web was also where I
REALLY perfected my Cocky Comedy skills...
With unlimited opportunities to try out new things, it
was easy for me to figure out the types of things that make
women laugh... and how to building attraction FAST. I'm sure
you'll discover the same.
And one of the really cool things about interacting with
women online is that you can TAKE YOUR TIME when
responding to them.
You can carefully plan out what you want to say until
you have it exactly right... and you won't have to worry
about tripping over yourself because you are nervous or
flustered...
Because of this simple fact alone I've seen many guys
who are too shy to approach women in real life EXCEL on the
web... because they don't let themselves get in the way of
their success.
The same may hold true for you...
Reason #2: The Web Is The ONLY Place Where Women
Approach YOU Constantly
How many times in your life has an attractive woman
approached YOU because she was interested in getting to
know you?
If you're like most guys, you can probably count on one
hand. And that's if you're lucky...
But on the web, it's an entirely different story...
When you use the secrets in this program, you'll
probably (realistically) received 2 or 3 unsolicited emails PER
DAY from women who want to find out more about you.
Some will be from women who aren't your type---and
that's ok---because chances are you'll also receive notes from
about 2 or 3 women each week that are what you are
looking for... and sometimes BETTER.
That rounds out to about 10 a month... and even if you
only end up meeting 3 of them in person (a no-brainer
considering the skills you'll have, and that they approached
YOU first) that's almost one new hot date EACH WEEK... with
next to no effort on your part!
Try going to a bar, nightclub or anywhere else and
getting the same results.
Unless you're tending the bar, it just isn't happening.
Combine that with all of the women you'll meet that
you emailed first, and you can see just how wild and exciting
this can get...
Reason #3: The Competition Is Weak!
Here's another thing that is VERY interesting---and very
good news for us---about the whole online dating world...
The competition is PATHETIC.
Guys who normally WOULD be competition for you in
“the real world” often consider themselves “too cool” to
meet a woman on the web... so they never even try.
And those who do try will usually jump on, send out a
few emails... and quickly write the whole thing off when
they don't get any responses back.
They never take the time to figure out what works...
because it's easier for them to go back to what they know.
Hey, I don't blame them...
So what's left?
A bunch of ASSCLOWNS that can't meet women in real
life OR online... and only make YOU look better with their
unoriginal---and sometimes even offensive---letters and
profiles.
And what does this mean for you?
This means that you have a great shot at those ultra-
desirable women that other guys might be able to “out-
game” you for in real life. Now YOU will be the one that
stands head and shoulders above the rest with your
awesome profile and clever communication skills.
I'm going to show you how to make the internet your
secret spot... where YOU have the advantage over the
“naturals” and everyone else... and where YOU get your pick
of the women you want.
It's a great feeling.
Reason #4: The Supply Is UNLIMITED... And You Have The
Resources To Take Advantage Of It
As I write this right now there are TENS OF MILLIONS of
women on online dating sites... and guess what?
They are ALL single and looking!
Now in real life this would be useless---even if you were
tossed into a stadium full of models, you could realistically
only talk to 20 or 30 of them in a night...
But on the web, things are different.
You can easily talk to DOZENS of these women at a time.
Once you get your “system” down, you can “scale up”
and join other dating sites... and multiply your opportunities
each time you do.
You're not limited to those you see out on the town or
those you meet through your circle of friends... you can meet
women from all over your state, country, or even the world.
You'll never again worry about being lonely while traveling...
simply search for ladies in the city you want to meet and line
up some dates while you are there.
And if you're as good as some of my friends that you'll
hear from... a ride to your hotel from the airport!
My friends aren't kidding when they say they have to
take their profiles DOWN every once in awhile to “stop the
flow”.
If you want to meet a lot of women FAST... or date
several women at once... this is the way to do it.
If you do date fairly regularly, but have a “dry spell”
every once in awhile... the women you meet online will “fill
in the blanks”... you won't have to worry about being
dateless ever again.
And as I mentioned before... if you're new to the whole
dating scene, this is the best place to start. You'll hone your
skills WHILE you are getting dates... instead of while you are
just trying.
Isn't that the way it SHOULD be?
Reason #5: You Can Meet High Quality Women You Simply
CANNOT Meet Anywhere Else
It's simple fact: I know more men who have met
“keepers” on the web than any other one single place...
myself included.
If you've spent any time at all going out and meeting
women, then you know that a woman of quality is a rare
thing indeed.
Many of the intelligent, attractive women who have it
together are over the bar scene... and your chances of
meeting a woman like that through your circle of friends is
slim.
Sure... you might bump into someone you like at a coffee
shop or grocery store... but why leave it up to chance?
If you are serious about finding a high quality woman to
have a great relationship with, the web is the best place to
start.
In general, the women you meet online AREN'T
superficial, don't play “head games”...and most importantly...
are LOOKING to meet a quality man like you.
And if you think you can't meet a woman who is
attractive online, you had best think again...
I've met several models, actresses, and dancers online...
and of course, many beautiful “regular” women as well. So
have my friends (I've seen them). And so will you.
So let's do the math:
An unlimited supply... of high quality women... with
ZERO competition... that approach YOU?
Hmm.
It's easy to see why online dating is the best thing
going... for a select few of us that is.
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