Monday, October 11, 2010

The 4 Reasons Why Women Reject Men

“New Breakthrough Discoveries In Science And Psychology Help You
Eliminate The
Anxiety, Nervousness, Self-Doubt And FEAR
That Are Destroying Your Chances With Women—
It's Time To FINALLY Overcome Your Fears,
Take Control Of Your Emotions, Learn To
Approach Women Easily To Start Conversations...
And Transform Yourself Into The
Powerful, Confident, Attractive Man That
Every Woman Is Desperately Looking For...”
If You're Ready To Finally Say Goodbye To The “Inner Game Challenges”
Like Insecurity, Fear, And Anxiety That Are Holding You Back From TRUE
Success With Women… This Will Be The Most Important Letter You Ever
Read…
Dear Friend,
Have you ever screwed up an important situation with a woman?
Be honest with me here.
I want to know...
... have you ever been talking to a woman you felt attracted to, and
gotten so nervous and uptight that you fumbled over your words... and she
just got bad vibrations from you and walked away...?
... have you ever been in a relationship with a wonderful woman, and
became emotionally insecure or dependent on her for YOUR own feeling of
well-being... to the point where you literally drove her away?
... have you ever seen a woman that you wanted to start a
conversation with... but your emotions started to go CRAZY at even the
THOUGHT of approaching her... and you just decided that it would be easier
to walk away than try to overcome your fear? (The worst part about this
one is that you probably beat yourself up for it mentally later on, and felt
even WORSE for the next several hours or days.)
... have you ever "lost your cool" around a woman that you really
liked... maybe it was an argument that got you upset, or something she did
that made you feel emotional or angry... and you let your emotions take
over... which made her lose interest in you?
... have you ever met a woman you really liked, and started to feel
emotionally attached to her BEFORE you even got to know her or went out
with her... and you had crazy feelings of jealousy about her being with
other men... even though she wasn't yours?
... have you ever felt like certain women could actually control your
emotions... from outside your body? You're going along in life, everything
is fine. Then you meet this particular woman, and you lose the ability to
control your own emotions... and you walk around for days or weeks
trying to get control of yourself... all the while knowing that being OUT of
control is making her LESS interested in you (but not being able to do a
damn thing about it)...?
Have you ever had one of these things happen to you?
If you're like I was when I first started working on my "Inner Game",
then you've been in one or more of these situations... probably MANY
TIMES.
And what's the WORST part about going through one of these things?
Well, if you ask me, the most PAINFUL part of it is that as you're going
through it, you always KNOW that it's YOU that's screwing things up!
It's not her.
It's not the situation.
It's not ANYTHING else.
It's YOU... and you know it. You could FEEL that you were out of control
of yourself and the situation, and you could FEEL that you were the one
who was screwing things up... because you just couldn't get CONTROL of
yourself.
And THAT'S the part that really sucks.
Why Is This So Hard?
After spending many years doing "self-help", and working to figure out
my own crazy mind and emotions, I started to wonder...
Why is this so HARD for most men?
I mean, it's challenging enough to get up and go to work everyday,
pay the bills, and keep the car running right... but that's only PART of life.
We ALSO have to deal with the things that we have going on INSIDE of
ourselves.
And the question that kept coming up for me was: Why is it so hard to
deal with these things we have going on INSIDE... like fear, anxiety, and
other psychological challenges?
Well, one of the answers that I came up with is interesting. And it's
something that I think might help YOU deal with some of these same
challenges....
The Big “Ah Ha!” That
Changed Everything For Me
The "answer" I'm about to tell you is simple... but it took me a LONG
time to figure it out. So take this as hard-earned wisdom... from one friend
to another.
When I started trying to solve my own problems, I would always tend
to focus on the PROBLEM itself.
Makes sense, right?
For instance, if I met a girl and liked her... and then I couldn't stop
myself from thinking about her or feeling crazy emotions for her... I would
do my best to CONTROL my emotions. I'd tell myself to calm down. I'd try
not to think about her. I'd do my best to distract myself.
In short, I tried to do things to deal with the problem... in the moment.
But what I found was that when it comes to "Inner Game" issues, if you
just deal with the problem in the MOMENT... you're not SOLVING the
problem itself. For instance, the NEXT time the same situation comes up, the
PROBLEM comes up again... and you have to play these mental games with
yourself AGAIN to "fix" it.
The real "Ah-Ha!" moment came for me when I had a simple
realization:
I realized that instead of trying to deal with each individual problem IN
THE MOMENT... I would get FAR better results if I got my Inner Game issues
handled BEFORE I HAD THE PROBLEM IN THE FIRST PLACE.
In other words, instead of dealing with my out-of-control emotions
after I already met a woman and I was already out of control... I needed to
make it so my emotions never got out of control IN THE FIRST PLACE.
That one simple shift in thinking changed my focus, took me in a
brand-new direction, and ultimately had a major effect on my long-term
success... and my success with women.
Fix The IMPORTANT Things
And The Other Things Will
“Fix Themselves”
This new mindset allowed me to see that most of my psychological
and emotional challenges were actually SIMILAR to each other... and I
realized that if I could fix a major emotional challenge, it would
AUTOMATICALLY solve a ton of other problems at the same time.
As you've probably noticed, Inner Game challenges can be very SIMILAR
to each other. You can actually group them into CATEGORIES...
I'm going to share MY list of Inner Game Categories with you. Read
through these, and see if this makes sense to you...
1. Irrational, Uncontrollable Fear
Many of the situations that guys screw up with women fit into the
category of "caused by fear". Here are some of the types of fear that us
guys experience... along with how I think they mess us up with women:
Fear of rejection. Here's the situation: You see a woman you'd like to
approach, and you start thinking about talking to her. All of a sudden, you
feel your throat get dry and your heart pounding. But it makes no sense.
There's no DANGER in the situation... but you're feeling FEAR. As you think
about it, you realize that you're afraid of her REJECTING you. And that fear
keeps you from starting a conversation.
Fear of embarrassment. As you're thinking of approaching that same
woman, you look around at the other people in the situation... and you
wonder "What would THEY think if I went over and talked to her... but she
REJECTED me..."?
Fear of someone else hurting you. Maybe you keep thinking about
talking to her, and you even come up with something clever to say... but
the more you think about it, the more you start to wonder "What if she has
a boyfriend? What if he's not here yet? What if he walks in and sees me
talking to his girlfriend, and gets upset? What if he HURTS me?"
Fear of loss. Here's one for you: Have you ever met a great woman, then
found yourself thinking about her all the time, and WONDERING if she
might be with another guy? You become afraid of losing something that
you don't even HAVE yet. So what did you do? Of course... you called her,
emailed her, and tried to "secretly" know what she was doing at all times.
And what happened? She got creeped out, and stopped seeing you.
So what do all of these have in common? FEAR, that's what. And guess
what? If you address the FEAR directly, you can overcome ALL of these AT
THE SAME TIME.
2. Constant Anxiety
Anxiety about not being able to attract a woman. One of the worst
anxieties a man can have is this feeling of loneliness combined with a
nagging anxiety about not being able to attract a woman. If you've ever
been there, then you know EXACTLY what I'm talking about. It's as if you
can't stop thinking about the fact that you DON'T have a woman... and you
worry that you may NEVER be able to find one.
Anxiety about whether or not the woman you want is interested in
you, or if she's interested in someone else. When you meet a woman
you like, your first instinct is to figure out if she's "available". Looking for
clues, thinking about it, and trying to figure this out can lead to a mental
game that often causes a lot of internal tension and anxiety for us guys.
Anxiety about all the complex events in your life and relationships
becoming unmanageable. Nowadays, life is COMPLEX. There are so many
"moving parts". If one thing fails, then it could screw up a lot of other
things. And the challenges that come from meeting and dating women are
often the "straw that broke the camel's back".
Anxiety about something bad happening at any moment. I'm not going
to talk a lot about this one, but if you experience it, then you KNOW what
I'm talking about. And it's a pain in the ass.
3. Immaturity
You can't "handle" situations that bother you... they get to you too
much... and they haunt you. We all have situations that come up in life
that "get to us". But if you're like me and many other men, then you know
what it's like to feel like things just "get to you" a little TOO much. When
you can't handle "normal" situations... then you probably have a problem.
Going into a rage or tizzy when you don't get "your way". As we grow
up, we might stop screaming and crying in public when we don't get "our
way", but that doesn't mean that the problem has completely gone away.
If you've experienced getting upset when you don't get what you want,
then this is an area that you need to fix... and soon.
Wanting what you want when you want it, and not accepting reality.
As kids, we used to fantasize about having things go exactly the way we
wanted them to... and being able to change reality just by THINKING about
it. As we grow up, we don't entirely give this up. If you tend to not want to
accept the reality around you, then I honestly believe this is limiting you...
and you need to do something about it.
And what do these three issues have in common? They're all connected
to MATURITY... a process that can be LEARNED (and quickly, if you know
how).
4. Unpredictable Emotional Turmoil
Thoughts or events that trigger strong emotions. Emotions are
interesting things. It often seems like they just "come out of nowhere". And
when the strong emotions come, they can COMPLETELY take over. Have you
ever screwed up a situation in your life, work, or relationships because you
got too emotional? Even worse, did it happen because you couldn't
CONTROL your emotions?
Emotions that distract you from being productive. Have you ever
noticed that when you're feeling intense emotions, it's almost IMPOSSIBLE
to focus on anything else? Strong emotions take over your entire
experience, and even take over your THOUGHTS. If you don't know how to
control strong, persistent emotions, you often wind up not being able to
get ANYTHING done.
Events outside of you triggering emotions. We might call this one "being
a small boat in a storm at sea". If events that are OUTSIDE of you often
trigger STRONG emotions, then you've probably realized that YOU'RE NOT
IN COMPLETE CONTROL of yourself. This can be pretty upsetting all by itself.
Well, the good news is that you CAN learn how to control your emotions...
and you can learn to "disconnect" your intense emotional responses from
things that happen outside of you.
5. Other People Controlling You And Your Life
Others know how to push your buttons, and you don't know how to
stop it. Have you ever felt like someone else had a "remote control" for
your life and emotions? Somehow, they just know how to "push your
buttons", and get whatever they want from you? Get this: It's YOU that's
giving them control. And if you're tired of this, then YOU need to learn how
to TAKE BACK THE CONTROL of yourself and your life (And I want to teach
you exactly how to do this... because taking control of your life will have
an INSTANT impact on your success with women).
Feeling low self-esteem combined with resentment because others are
"running the show" of your life. If you've experienced this situation
where you feel like other people control your life, then you most likely
ALSO felt some negative emotions about it. When you're out of control, you
KNOW that something is wrong. And it makes you feel bad about yourself.
This is a "negative spiral" that just gets worse and worse. The more you let
others control you, the worse it gets. It MUST stop.
Allowing someone else to control you because you think it will get you
what you want. This is a DEAL KILLER when it comes to success with
women. Us guys LOVE to try to please women by letting them control us.
The problem, of course, is that when a woman actually GETS control, that's
when her ATTRACTION STOPS. If you want to solve this particular problem,
then you must literally change the way you THINK... and change your
emotional responses.
6. Never Getting An “Instruction Manual” For
Your Mind And Emotions
Wanting to understand and learn how your mind and emotions work,
but thinking that it might be "dumb". When you first learn about "self-
help", a common response is to think that it's kind of stupid or ridiculous.
But one of the funny things about being human is that we don't come with
"instruction manuals". And worse, we are COMPLEX. I believe that if you
want to become EFFECTIVE in life... and if you want to have SUCCESS in life,
you MUST learn how your mind and emotions work. You MUST overcome
this feeling that it's "dumb" to improve yourself.
Not knowing where to start, and not wanting to get a degree in
psychology to learn. I can remember when I first started learning about
psychology, behavior, and emotions. Man, did it ever seem COMPLICATED. I
actually took some psychology classes when I was younger... just to try to
figure out MY OWN screwed-up mind. One of the big challenges when
you're working to improve yourself is: "Where do I start?" And the other is
"How do I learn all this stuff without spending YEARS in college?" In a
minute, I'm going to tell you exactly where to start... and exactly how to
solve all of these challenges RAPIDLY... no college degree required.
Not having a place where you can get all the information you need.
Finally, if you've been working to improve yourself at all, you've noticed
that no one has really put together an entire "system" for learning how to
improve yourself in the area of "psychological and emotional health". This
was one of my own biggest challenges... there just wasn't a "complete"
system for addressing all of my problems. Well, fortunately that is a
problem that is in the PAST...
7. Wanting To Get Help, But Not Being Able
To ASK For It, And Not Knowing Where
To Turn...
Maybe the biggest "Inner Game" challenge of all is realizing that you
NEED help... wanting to GET help... but just not being able to ask for it... and
not knowing where to turn for it.
Men are proud. We don't want anyone else to know that we're out of
control... hurting... or desperate. We don't want to ask for help. We don't
even like the THOUGHT of asking for help.
Even more, this stuff that I'm talking about is complex. When you're
having an Inner Game problem, the problem itself takes over your
awareness... and sometimes makes it seem like the problem won't ever go
away...
Well, there's good news here.
The good news is that I've been working on this set of problems
MYSELF for a long time... many years, in fact.
And along my path I met an expert in the area of "Inner Game
Psychology" that opened up a new world to me. In a minute, I'm going to
tell you about him, and how I think his cutting-edge concepts and
techniques can help you ELIMINATE your Inner Game challenges...
The REAL REASON Why Some Men Will Always Fail With Women–
And What To Do About It...
Remember the movie “Raiders Of The Lost Ark”… that cool old Harrison
Ford movie?
Do you remember what Indiana Jones was doing for most of the
movie?
He wasn't looking for the ARK ITSELF… no.
He was looking for the thing that had the INSTRUCTIONS that would
help him find the Ark …
Remember that funny metal thing with the crystal in the middle that
he put on the stick in the “map room”?
Indiana Jones knew that if he could find the thing that told him where
the Ark was, the rest would be EASY.
There was another twist in the movie as well.
There was a bad guy in the movie who had burned his hand trying to
grab the metal disk with the instructions on it. He had an imprint of the
metal disk on his hand from the burn.
In the movie, they used the imprint from his hand to build a replica of
the metal disk… hoping it would be “good enough” to help them locate the
Ark.
The problem?
They only had ONE SIDE of the disk to work with. They didn't know
that there were instructions on the OTHER SIDE.
As a result, they were looking in the wrong place, and not finding the
Ark at all.
So why is this important? And why am I going on and on about this
movie?
Because this is EXACTLY what most men are going through with
women and dating.
They have only part of the information that they need, and they're
trying to make it work on that alone.
This is like trying to drive a car without an engine.
No matter how much you shine it… and how many cool parts you stick
on there… it's not going anywhere.
No way.
No amount of “hard work” is going to get it running if you don't have
the right stuff under the hood.
Since I first wrote “Double Your Dating” a little over 4 years ago, I've
seen a lot of guys making this mistake.
It's the very same mistake I made when I was first trying to learn all of
this.
I see them trying to solve their problems with techniques… when they
have problems that can never be solved with techniques.
From firsthand experience and from teaching others, I've learned that a
technique will almost never work for a guy that doesn't have his Inner
Game issues handled.
For instance, I'd teach a guy a great “opening line” to start a
conversation with any woman anywhere… but he'd come back to me and
tell me that he just couldn't do it. I'd say “what do you mean?” and he'd
say that for some reason, he didn't even TRY it.
The problem was bigger than having the line.
In fact, having the line only made things WORSE for the guy… because
now he had what he THOUGHT he needed… but it STILL didn't work. He
only became more frustrated and depressed… and started feel bad about
HIMSELF.
Your “Missing Link” To
Dating Success…
I'm about to tell you something that you already know…
I think you ALREADY KNOW far more than the average guy about how
to be successful with women.
In fact, you probably know more about this than most guys who are
“naturally” good with women.
You already know the “tricks”… and what you need to do to be
successful. But things just aren't working for you the way you wish they
would…
And… I think that you KNOW that the problem isn't that you need more
techniques.
You have that part of the “map” down.
I think you realize that the problem is something BIGGER.
Something more intense.
Something more personal… and more difficult to face.
I also think you know that if and when you DO tackle and defeat this
problem… and get this “other side” handled once and for all… you WILL
achieve the success with women---and in life---that you were born to
have.
And I think you realize by now that this isn't going to happen by itself.
The problem isn't going to “solve” itself… the pieces aren't going to just
“fall into place”… and you will NOT have the success with women you are
looking for unless you DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.
The bad news is that this is never easy.
In fact… for most men it is next to impossible … and sadly… most go
their entire lives without ever handling their issues and achieving the
success they deserve.
I'll say it again:
MOST MEN GO THEIR ENTIRE LIVES WITHOUT HAVING THE SUCCESS WITH
WOMEN THEY DESERVE.
Fortunately, it DOESN'T have to be this way for YOU.
How To Smash Through
The “Internal B.S.” That Is
Holding You Back From
Success With Women–
Fast And Forever...
If you're ready to finally get your Inner Game "handled"… and say
“GOODBYE” to the problems and issues that have sabotaged you with
women your entire life… I have some fantastic news for you…
Remember the guy I mentioned who is an expert helping men fix their
Inner Game issues? Let me tell you about him...
To start with, he's a world- renowned psychiatrist who specializes in
helping guys overcome and eliminate the inner issues that are sabotaging
their success with women. And he's come up with a "unified theory" of all
of the different ideas in the world of Psychology and Behavior.
After many years of reading psychology and “self-help” books, I've
always thought that someone needed to create a “best of the best” of what
was out there…
But I couldn't find anything that even began to “put it all together”.
One day I was doing a live seminar in Chicago, and a one of the guys at
the program walked up to me at a break and started a conversation.
As it turned out, he was an "M.D." who had been creating a “unified
theory of psychology” over the past several years.
He had been featured on CNN, in USA Today, and in The Wall Street
Journal… just to name a few.
And here's where it got REALLY interesting…
He went on to tell me that he had taken the best of science and
condensed it down into simple systems for dealing with Inner Game issues
like anxiety, anger, depression, courage, confidence, and self-esteem… and
had turned this “master theory” into a simple system any man could use to
fix his “inner game issues”… and create the life he wants for himself.
We shook hands, and that was the beginning of my friendship with
“Dr. Paul”.
The Start Of Something Big...
Over the next several months, Dr. Paul and I had several interesting
conversations.
I was a bit skeptical about what he had told me during our brief
meeting. Frankly… it sounded a little too good to be true.
But at the same time, he definitely had my interest… and I had found
out more about the system he had created.
Well… during our first real conversation I quickly realized that Dr. Paul
wasn't just some guy writing theories on his kitchen table.
Everything he was doing was backed by REAL SCIENCE… it was on the
cutting edge of psychology… and it was truly amazing stuff.
I came to find out he had actually PATENTED his system… and had
ALREADY used the system to help over 4,000 people in one-on-one clinical
situations.
I can't even begin to tell you how excited I was. I have been studying
psychology for a lot of years… and I had been looking for a system like this
for a LONG time…
And something else you should know about Dr. Paul: He's not your
average “shrink”.
He's a normal, single guy just like you and me.
He's always out of the town trying out new things… and dates some of
the most interesting and attractive women around.
His real-world experience and scientific expertise makes for an
unbeatable combination… the guy is an intellectual powerhouse… and
whether we were talking about psychology, science, or attracting women…
I found myself learning something new every time I talked to him.
We quickly made plans to do an interview for my “Interviews With
Dating Gurus” monthly interview series… and I brought him on as a
featured guest speaker at my next live program.
The feedback I received from guys on what he had to say was nothing
short of phenomenal. Dr. Paul has a unique way of taking complex
psychological concepts and turning them into easy-to-understand methods
that a 3rd grader could understand and implement… and nearly every one
who heard what he had to say was blown away.
I knew at that point that we had to do something BIGGER.
I've always known that a guy's inner game is the single most
important factor in his success with women... and also the most difficult to
fix.
I had wanted to do a program to help guys get their inner game
together for a long time. But even with all of the knowledge I had acquired
in 10 years of studying psychology and behavior... I felt that something
was missing.
I wanted to find a way for guys to get this handled FAST... and it just
didn't exist.
But that all changed when I met Dr. Paul and was introduced to his
system. I asked him to do a live program with me to help guys get their
DEEP inner issues handled... and he said "yes".
A Life-Changing Breakthrough
In Behavioral Science
We decided to call the program, “Deep Inner Game”.
We spent weeks preparing, and then two solid days presenting step-
by-step ways for overcoming limiting beliefs, destructive emotions, and
once-uncontrollable fears… and demonstrating exactly how to build a
powerful self-image, strong self-esteem… and giving you step-by-step,
easy to use tools to fixing your inner issues QUICKLY and PERMANENTLY.
What resulted is a program that is the very first of its kind.
It's designed to completely reprogram every area of a man's mind for
MASSIVE success with women... no matter what condition a guy is in... or
how deeply he is affected by the problems of his past.
Fortunately, we had the "cameras rolling" during the presentation, and
we turned the live presentation into a fantastic combination CD/DVD
program that is going to blow your mind... and CHANGE your mind forever.
In this ground-breaking program you'll learn how the use the
"operating system of the human mind" to pinpoint the specific problems
that are ruining your chances with women... and figure out EXACTLY how to
fix them quickly.
You'll learn how to take the bad experiences from your past and spin
them into positive points of reference... and you'll use these points to give
your the strength to ALWAYS do exactly the right things with women in
the future...
What's unique about this program is its use of VISUAL AIDS...
Dr. Paul has created the first entirely visual system of psychology to
solve deep problems... and he'll show you how to expel your inner
psychological demons, and replace them with a powerful, solid confidence
that all women notice and respond to... simply by following his easy-to-
read charts and graphs.
Going through this program is like upgrading your brain with the latest
in "dating" and "confidence" software. Fear, anxiety, depression,
nervousness, loneliness, anger, and frustration will quickly become a thing
of the past. Every part of your dating life will begin to run more smoothly...
you'll feel like you are on "auto-pilot" as you make all of the right moves
with a woman every time.
The amazing thing about Dr. Paul's system is that it gives scientifically
accurate and measurable results—that you can COUNT on.
If you've tried EVERYTHING and you can't get a grip on what your
problem is and how to solve it... this program is especially for YOU.
If you're feeling like you don't have any control over your dating life...
or if you're feeling used and manipulated... or powerless, trapped and
hopeless... this will show you how to break free from these chains and take
control of your life back... and start commanding power and respect from
all you come in contact with.
If you've had difficulty with rejection or breaking up with a woman in
the past, this program will show you how to patch those holes with
confidence and strength... and take your self-esteem to a level you never
thought possible.
If you're suffering from depression, or just a little bummed out about
how things have been going for you lately... you'll learn how to snap
yourself into "success mode" and take on a contagious, optimistic attitude...
you'll see each new day as an opportunity to try out your newfound skills
and meet more and more attractive women.
Most psycho-analysts take 4 years to perform this kind of work and
make these changes in someone's life... but with Dr. Paul's revolutionary
methods, you'll learn all of the tools you need to be your own personal
success coach in literally hours.
You'll learn how to sync up both sides of your brain to get maximum
results quickly... and accelerate your skills in ANY area of your life.
And that's just a very small sample of what this technology will do for
you.
Here are a few of the other things you'll learn inside this exciting
program:
How to patch up the holes in your self-esteem FOR GOOD and build a
rock-solid foundation of confidence that all women “feel” when they're
around you
Why human nature can actually PREVENT you from having success with
women… and what you absolutely must do to overcome your “bad
programming” and start living the life you were born to live
A 2-step exercise to identifying exactly how you are letting women
control your actions so you can eliminate their influence and be YOUR
OWN person (Which in turn will cause you to attract women like crazy)
Do you ever feel like you are just too “nice” or sensitive, or have a hard
time saying “no”? Here's a simple technique you can use when you FEEL
this happening to clear your head and make the right choice
A simple change in your attitude that will prevent a woman from ever
trying to take control of your life
Do you find that the women you are REALLY interested in seem to LOSE
interest in you after a few dates? Here's why… (It's a surprisingly easy
fix… once you know the reason)
A brand new scientifically proven way to permanently break free from
depression and sadness… no matter how severe… and replace it with
feelings of happiness and contentment
How to conquer you emotional energy and give yourself the ability to
turn any uncomfortable feeling into positive energy that motivates you
to succeed
A detailed, recipe-like way to build self-esteem that works every single
time (The secret is in the step-by-step process, which you'll learn in
detail)
A simple psychological trick to conquer anger and anxiety and never
again be a slave to your emotions
How to become your own life coach and guide yourself to success
without needing the help of anyone else
An almost magical way to break your stubborn destructive habits
quickly, easily, and permanently… and replace them with constructive
habits that FORCE you to become successful
How avoid letting the emotions you feel when you meet a really special
woman cause you to make stupid mistakes that scare her away (If
you've ever had problems keeping around the “keepers”, it's probably
because you didn't do this one simple thing)
How to eliminate all possibility of another person “pulling your strings”
and take total control of your emotional and internal states… no matter
what the situation
A step-by-step exercise to pin-point your 3 biggest inner issues
(including those you are afraid to admit to yourself) and defeat them
from the inside out… no matter how long they've been troubling you or
how deep they are buried in your mind
A common misunderstanding that traps 99% of all men in a state of low
self-esteem forever… that is surprisingly easy to turn around (When you
know the secret)
A proven way to “block” a woman from effecting your emotions in a
negative way so YOU are always in charge of the way you feel
A step-by-step plan to pull your self out of any depressed state–no
matter how severe–that actually works (And gives you PERMANENT
results)
How to initiate yourself into manhood and rid yourself of the needy
“boy” inside of you that is subconsciously RUINING your game with
women
How to quickly get over the pain of a bad breakup and stop letting it
affect your current actions with women NOW… even if it's been haunting
you for months
How to transform stress, anger and anxiety into SELF-ESTEEM
A relieving way to “forgive yourself” for past mistakes and bad
experiences and turn them into learning experiences overnight
The one word clue that instantly tells you that you are thinking a
defeating thought (Identifying these times is the key to maintaining high
self-esteem)
What to do if you're a guy who takes the pain of rejection to heart (A
step-by-step method to create a stone-cold confidence that no woman
can phase)
How to eliminate the “up and down” rollercoaster of success and failure
that usually comes with learning a new skill and create a path of
CONSISTENT results
A simple 5-second thing you can do every single day to “stair-step” your
psychological growth and boost your self-esteem and confidence—one
notch at a time
How to avoid beating yourself up over things you KNOW you should let
slide off your back
A FASCINATING way to increase your natural “intuitive” abilities with
women… practically overnight… so you do the things that make her feel
MORE attracted to you subconsciously
A detailed guide to the operating system of the human mind (When you
know exactly how your mind works you can make it do exactly what
you want it to do)
A secret your therapist will never tell you that allows you to fix your
inner “issues” the very first time you try… FOR GOOD (If every patient
new this they'd be out of business... )
Proven tools to build a charismatic inner presence that women notice
A scientific way to achieve TRUE happiness by aligning the 4 parts of
your psychology (This simple exercise makes it a breeze… and you can
use it again and again to keep yourself on track)
A psychiatrist's secret way to “read” a woman's personality so fast you'll
feel like you cheated! (Now you'll know exactly what type of person she
is within 5 minutes of meeting her...)
A scientific method of solving psychological problems using simple charts
that works every time for any type of problem… not matter how serious
How to create a special tool for yourself that will recharge you with
powerful emotional strength when you are down
A way to analyze and adjust your behavior with a woman on the spot…
without slowing yourself down (This guarantees you always do the
things that INCREASE her attraction to you)
How to create your own unique identity and personality and attract
women to the REAL you
A lesson from a famous performing artist you can use to transform
yourself from a “regular” person into a powerful masculine figure that
people notice
3 easy-to-acquire personal elements that when put together give you an
instant foundation of mature masculine power
The big mistake men make that gives all of their power to a woman
(Once you do this you can NEVER get it back)
Exactly how to be “mysterious” - the pieces of information you can keep
from a woman that will drive her crazy with curiosity and make her
PURSUE YOU to find out more
An easy-to-follow psychological “treasure map” you can use to find the
richness of life that has been out of your reach for so many years
How to create instant trust with a woman by telling her “no” at the right
times
A simple change in thinking that will instantly put you back in control of
your life… and… turn your life into an exciting adventure that keeps
getting better and better!
A brand new scientific method to eliminate stress… quickly and
permanently
The big mistake men make that steers them into things they KNOW are
bad for them… again and again
An exercise to determine when you are burning energy and wasting
your strength on things you cannot control... so you can instead focus
your resources on attracting more women
How to create a unique identity for yourself that women notice (Your
uniqueness is one of your biggest assets in attracting women... here's
how to use it to your advantage)
The real reason why so many men don't know who they really are
(Here's how to break through the B.S. that has been forced upon you and
start living your life for YOU)
How to impress a woman with your character by being “picky”
How to make any “technique” you learn a permanent part of you
in the shortest amount of time humanely possible
How to turn a bad response from a woman into a GOOD THING (Use this
to permanently eliminate rejection from your life)
How to use the “economics of psychology” to get people to do what you
want while creating a win-win situation for all parties involved
How to create a powerful “aura of energy” that blocks others from
sapping your power… and… attracts those that will charge you up
The secrets of a fulfilling and loving relationship - what must happen to
keep BOTH OF YOU from screwing it up
How to eliminate the life-sucking trap of co-dependence in a relationship
(Most don't realize this is single biggest cause of break-ups)
How to be independent in a relationship in a way that makes a woman
more attracted to you instead of scaring her off
How to create and live in YOUR OWN powerful reality (This will make
you optimistic and energized no matter how bad the situation is around
you)
The BIG DIFFERENCE between nice guys that DO attract women and nice
guys that DON'T… and how to use your natural kindness to give you a
distinct advantage over the “jerks” and the “bad boys”
Why your brains can actually be your worst enemy when it comes to
doing the things that make women want you (Here's how to use your
analytical ability to zero in on what makes her tick and please her like no
other man can)
A way to avoid “losing your cool” when a woman does something you
don't agree with that 99% of men never figure out on there own (The
best part is that she will respect you and find you MORE attractive every
time it happens)
The mistake “left-brained” men make that leads them to fail with
women more often than “right-brained” men (The good news is that this
is an easy fix)
How to blend your intellect with your “street smarts” and develop a
powerful “sixth sense” for knowing the specific things that will attract a
particular woman
A secret of master test-takers that helps you internalize new ideas and
techniques twice as fast… so you achieve your goals with women in half
the time
A simple way to PERMANENTLY eliminate “dry spells” from your life that
most men miss entirely
How to throw away the “lines”, “tricks” and gimmicks that only take you
so far with women and develop a powerful INNER FORCE that
magnetically attracts women to the REAL YOU
How to identify exactly what you must do to achieve your goals AND
what might get in the way so there is no possible way you can fail
A powerful exercise to break free of any “inner demons” that have
haunted you since childhood - fast and forever (Unfortunately most
people will go their entire lives without REALLY eliminating the things
that prevent them from true success)
Why much of your unhappiness is caused by things that really shouldn't
affect you… and how to remedy it in mere seconds
A step-by-step plan to mastering anger and calming your nerves quickly
and easily in any situation
A mature “comeback” to say to a woman that is rude to you that shoots
straight through to her psychological core and makes her instantly regret
her bad manners
A way to handle your anger that actually builds character and confidence
An easy 1-step cure for anxiety that works any time you need it
The surefire psychological “recipe” you can use to break any addiction
quickly (If you suffer from addiction of ANY FORM you NEED to hear this)
A proven way to overcome approach anxiety and shyness that works
BETTER (and is much safer) than any prescription drug
A powerful exercise to completely eliminate your “secret excuse” that is
keeping you from becoming the confident person you KNOW you should
be
How to use a fake foreign accent to drive a woman crazy
A scientific way to supercharge your Cocky Comedy skills OVERNIGHT
How to size up a woman instantly and tell her EVERYTHING about herself
(She'll think you're a psychic genius!)
Fantastic sets of stories and tools you can use to help others solve their
own personal issues (Your friends, family, and the women you meet will
look up to you when you learn these)
A step-by-step method to eliminate your desire to please others and
start living for yourself (and attract more women in the process)
How to reprogram yourself to find and attract exactly the type of
woman that is right for you—physically and emotionally
Why most men are forced to “take what they can get” when it comes to
women… and how you can defy the odds and attract quality women on
a consistent basis
The reason why some men always attract women with emotional
problems—and what to do about it...
A step-by-step “in the field” exercise to cure approach anxiety FAST… so
you'll never again hesitate when you see a woman you want to meet
A way to overcome your fear of conflict so no one on earth can push you
around
What your dreams REALLY mean—how to use your own secret
subconscious signals to identify and improve the parts of your life that
are most important to your success with women
How to turn yourself into an ATTRACTION MACHINE by imprinting the
process of attracting women on your nerves, muscle fibers, brain cells,
and every part of your physical and mental being
How to train your brain to reject future problems from creeping in so
nothing can ever break your powerful new emotional state
How to get rid of deep internal issues without years of therapy...
How to build your self confidence by SEEKING OUT rejection
A fantastic “direct” approach you can use to easily start up a conversation
with a group of beautiful women
A great way to give yourself an instant energy boost any time of day
that is far better (and healthier) than caffeine
How to appear confident to women before you actually have your inner
game together (This will help you gain experience and dates while
you're learning)
REAL Stories From A Guy Who
Has “Been There”...
This program wouldn't be complete without some other unique
perspectives... and to put the "icing on the cake"... I invited another friend of
mine who has overcome some serious inner game issues of his own to
share his secrets...
My friend has "been there"... and he's a tremendous example of what
you can accomplish by getting this area of your life handled. He's been able
to lose over 125 lbs. in under one year by mastering his emotions and
anxiety... and in this riveting presentation he'll show you how you can use
the strategies he used to "shed the weight" to overcome any problem YOU
might be facing.
Prepare to be shocked and delighted... this man is truly something else,
and what you will learn from him will stick with you forever.
Here's just a few of the things he shared:
How to completely shut off the “inner voices” that talk you in failing
when approaching a new woman
A way to eliminate the deadly “mind virus” of comparing yourself to
others and start living for YOU
A hilarious way to turn things around when a woman comments on
another man's looks (You'll be encouraging her to look at other men
when you learn this!)
What to do when you even THINK another man might try to steal your
woman in a nightclub
A lesson from martial artists that will make you literally immune to
rejection, and enable you to get enormous amounts of new knowledge
from every failure you make
How to break the ugly curse of “victim mentality” and remove the stress
from your life that is preventing you from having success with women
The secrets my friend used to SMASH THROUGH his inner B.S. and lose over
125 lbs... that you can use to conquer any obstacle that is standing
between you and the women you want
The real reason why a woman doesn't return your phone calls (It's a
simple “fix” when you know the secret)
Do you ever get nervous when it's time to dance with a woman? Here's
a great “escape” that works every time… and… keeps YOU looking good
in her eyes
How to get over any “big fear” you may have (Such as public speaking,
karaoke, or not being able to dance)… even those you never thought you
would be able to eliminate
How to reprogram your subconscious so you feel you DESERVE to be with
an attractive women (If you don't do this you'll subconsciously give her
the upper hand in your relationship)
The FAST WAY to really let go of your past and give yourself a clean slate
on life (Real advice from someone who's done it)
As you can see... this program is a powerhouse of priceless knowledge. I
can't tell you how excited I am to bring this cutting-edge technology to
you.
It is important to note that this program is NOT “therapy”.
It's also NOT one of those “motivational” programs designed to “pump
you up”…
While I AM a fan of those types of programs… I've found that most
don't produce permanent, lasting change.
Most importantly… no other self-help program on the market addresses
the specific “inner game” issues that are keeping you from becoming
successful with women.
This program is an actual SCIENTIFIC METHOD for pinpointing and
eliminating the things that are holding you back from success… and
unleashing the powerful, attractive man that is hidden inside of you.
If you're struggling with some issues that are holding you back from
success with women, this program will show you how to completely
banish them from your system FOR GOOD… and you will start to see results
the same day you go through it.
Every psychological problem has a solution, and you'll be able to solve
yours with the tools in this program.
If you're already on the path to success and you just need a little
boost… this program will blast you up to a level you may have not even
considered was possible… by quickly helping you transform yourself into
the type of powerful, confident man that women can't help but notice.
But don't get me wrong… this program is NOT for everybody...
How Can You Know If
This Program Is For You?
If you have the type of women that are “your type” chasing you
around and becoming addicted to you, you might not need it.
If you don't have any anxiety, lack of self-esteem, or fear of women…
and you never hit a dry spell, it might not be for you.
If you don't have any problems when you are “in the moment”… and
you always do the right thing when it counts (especially with the women
you are REALLY interested in), you probably don't need it.
On the other hand, there are certain “chronic” problems men have that
don't EVER “just go away”…
Read through the list below… and if you find that you have
experienced ANY ONE of these problems, I highly recommend you grab this
program now.
However… if while reading through this list you realize that you have
experienced more than one of these “chronic diseases” that are almost
impossible to shake… you NEED to get this program immediately:
If you've ever been in a situation with a woman and known exactly
what to do … but in the moment, your emotions took over and you
screwed it up…
If you feel that if you run out of “lines” and “techniques” you'll have no
way to attract a woman…
If you thought being with a woman was the answer to your problems,
but once you were with one you still had problems.
If you've ever felt that if you found a great woman all of your problems
would be solved… but secretly worry that those very same problems are
what is preventing you from finding a woman in the first place…
If you have ever learned an awesome “line” or “technique”… but for
some reason it didn't work for YOU.
If you want to turn your “hit and miss” success with women into
massive, CONSISTENT success.
If you feel like you are “almost there”… but you just can't get it
completely together…
If you've learned ideas and known they would work… but you couldn't
even TRY OUT what you learned because you were too afraid…
If you've tried Cocky and Funny, and you could FEEL that it worked for a
minute… but didn't know where to go from there… and you choked from
fear or nervousness.
If you know what to do with a woman… but you always screw it up “in
the moment” because of fear, nerves, etc.
If you've ever been able to attract a woman initially with techniques…
but she eventually lost interest… and you didn't know what to do to
keep her…
If you have ever felt like nothing you did would fix the problems you
have… because they're just bigger than anyone would think…
If you've ever felt like you couldn't share what's REALLY going, because
you were worried that anyone that you told might laugh at you…

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